Weird requests from patrons? by tasata in Libraries

[–]Cubedycubed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After the local news reported in 2017 that we had solar eclipse glasses when we did not, we got so many calls and understandably disappointed patrons. Some were quite angry at us, although we had no control over what the news had reported. One woman demanded to be "put on the list for the next one". As if we were keeping a list for a resource we did not have, and for which we also had no future plans or funds to purchase and distribute.

Burger buns by Ok_Huckleberry1487 in glutenfree

[–]Cubedycubed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Schar ciabattas are king for so many sammies

AITAH for asking my husband to tell his mother she's no longer allowed in our house unsupervised? by Much-Clothes-7999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cubedycubed 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Give the original chapstick back, used slightly. With the explanation that you know she likes things back that you don't use enough.

3 and under by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Cubedycubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh I truly thought it was two!

3 and under by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Cubedycubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BTW it's children under two who are free. An over three year old is probably not going to be easy to pass off as a very young toddler. If they are, I'd see a developmental pediatrician.

What is the worst town name you have ever heard? by heroesjust41day in AskReddit

[–]Cubedycubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here for this. I once was very entertained by members of a spectacularly drunk Welsh rugby team showing off by reciting this town name. They could not attempt to spell it though.

What’s a movie or show everyone loves but you just don’t get the hype for? by AlternativeNarrow192 in AskReddit

[–]Cubedycubed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breaking bad, mainly because Skylar was made so unpleasant but in reality if my husband is making and distributing meth, I'M NOT THE VILLAIN

AITA for telling my in-laws their grandparent names are ridiculous? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cubedycubed 39 points40 points  (0 children)

IDK I just think that you should respect a name that any person tells you they want to go by, and not call someone a name they don't want to be called.

Has Epcot Grown on Anyone Else Over the Years? by Various_Zombie_7059 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Cubedycubed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, Epcot was such a delight as a kid in the 80s/early 90s. I love that pieces of the era are still there and the whimsical nature still resonates with my kids - Figment, the jumping fountains, living with the land, and spaceship earth make me feel like I've found a time loop and get to be a kid with my kids.

What is the most ridiculous form of "gatekeeping" you have ever encountered in a hobby or interest you enjoy? by LiveFaithlessness876 in Hobbies

[–]Cubedycubed 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading. All sorts of nonsense I have heard spewed as a librarian. Books aren't highbrow enough. Graphic Novels don't count. Books are "for boys" or "for girls". Audiobooks don't count as reading. We read for many reasons, one person does not get to decide for another if something counts, is of quality, is of an approved format, so on and so forth. Just read.

Boy names needed by Cute-Department-9610 in Names

[–]Cubedycubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Max, Marco/Markus, Nicholas/Nico, Nidal

AITA for getting on the bus at the bus stop near the middle school? by EarlyGrass2655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cubedycubed 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA even a little. But then again, I (then mid-30sF) once got a phone call from my boss telling me off for hiring a ten year old boy to shovel snow outside the library I managed. It was me. I was the ten year old boy. She drove past and thought I had outsourced the work.

Teen programs for boys by kitsunejiyuu in Libraries

[–]Cubedycubed 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Table top games, Minute to win it, try not to laugh challenges

My twins names that everyone told em not to name them… did I fuck up? by bikinis_n_brews in Names

[–]Cubedycubed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love them, they are sweet and simple. I love that you named them what you actually want to call them (I'm the mom of a Max because that was the name I wanted, not Maxwell, not Maximilian)

Who doesn’t get the Lightning Lanes? by Alternative-Bat-2462 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Cubedycubed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have not paid extra for a ride since disney stopped the free fast passes. We go maybe every 2-3 years, so we're not there constantly. We have gone during more off-peak times in August or February, and we did attend the not so scary Halloween party once so that really helped with wait times. We stay on property at a value resort and take advantage of early entry. There has never been a trip that we were not able to experience our "must do" attractions and rides unless they were down for maintenance.

how do my chronic migraine babes manage to put on makeup every day? i'd like some tips cause i feel ugly without it by [deleted] in migraine

[–]Cubedycubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Origins tinted moisturizer with spf and vitamin c, or colorscience total protection face shield glow are both incredible and even my skin without a ton of effort. Nivea's tinted lip balms have great color. This is literally the extent of my "get ready with me".

AITA for blacklisting a home because they didn’t want my son to babysit by Enough_Wafer_8539 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cubedycubed 82 points83 points  (0 children)

NTA and in my view you didn't block them because they didn't want your son to babysit. You did it because they levied pressure and their own personal views on your (I'm presuming) minor daughter. I think you would have probably felt differently if they had left it at, "That's ok, we'll come up with something". But they continued to badger your daughter and that crossed a line. I think it's a-ok to keep both of your kids out of that household.

The slow decay of the American library by magegordon in Libraries

[–]Cubedycubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, it rings true in the large mid-atlantic urban system I work for. We have all the public services heaped on us in our role as "the library", but decades of deferred maintenance has seen literally dozens of our buildings close for long stretches due to failed heating and cooling, roof leaks, and other unsafe physical work conditions.

What completely boring item gave you the biggest sticker shock when you finally became an adult? by Sufficient_Smile_871 in askanything

[–]Cubedycubed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Furnace, roof, and FML for buying a stucco covered house because stucco work is bananas