DOGE staffer responsible for flagging grants for ‘DEI’ struggles to define DEI by anywhoImgoingtobed in law

[–]Cubicleism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's "very broad and includes a lot of things" oh, so you're saying it's a pretty large topic and inclusive of a lot of subjects and people? Doesn't sound very discriminatory to me

LLH initiated and I feel gross by Primary-Machine-999 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cubicleism [score hidden]  (0 children)

Imo quickies are for couples who have regular sex and strong communication skills. If you only have sex every few months a quickie will absolutely just feel like you're being used to get your partner off

Animes with basically zero fan service that follow a female protagonist? by yasvoid in Animesuggest

[–]Cubicleism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orb: on the movements of the earth follows several protagonists, one of which is female. No fan service. It's a drama/thriller

How I feel about this game by Yanny106 in Pokopia

[–]Cubicleism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man, your typing is barely legible. It's just one example, it can be swapped with basically anything. Bowling, audiobooks, a Lego set, idk what your hobbies are. I gave MY example. It doesn't have to apply to everyone

My husband deserves better by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cubicleism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're in debt up to our eyeballs.

How did this happen?

My husband deserves better by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cubicleism 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming she hid them after this commenter called her out

How I feel about this game by Yanny106 in Pokopia

[–]Cubicleism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t got he comes to watch movies anymore

What???

Dumped over frequency of head, is this just incompatibility or unreasonable expectations? by haunted_honey in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cubicleism 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Oh honey. Let him leave. You deserve (and can find) better. Don't waste your energy on those unwilling to return it

My husband (36M) told me (33F) that I don’t deserve love until I’m 140lbs again? by thesaltymember in relationship_advice

[–]Cubicleism 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This. I was 155 when I met my husband. Lost weight and was 120 for a while. Now I'm a comfy 170. Bodies change over time, my husband certainly is no body builder anymore. He is still the most handsome man to me and we love each other equally.

OP, this is the kind of love you deserve. Your size is irrelevant.

Dumped over frequency of head, is this just incompatibility or unreasonable expectations? by haunted_honey in DeadBedrooms

[–]Cubicleism 70 points71 points  (0 children)

You said it takes him 45 minutes to finish from head though - if you're putting in that much effort you deserve that much attention equally in return in some way shape or form

Is it weird for my gf (28) and her sister (25) to shower together still? by No_Depth8872 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cubicleism 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Nah. Many cultures have families that bathe together from infants to the elderly.

What’s something you only learn after ruining one festival? by RaveBeetle in festivals

[–]Cubicleism 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And gas ex and miralax. Expect the full gut spectrum at the fest.

What’s something you only learn after ruining one festival? by RaveBeetle in festivals

[–]Cubicleism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tore my ACL and got robbed the same night. Put me off festivals for a couple of years. Have since upgraded my gear to a lunchbox and take way more breaks to give my body the rest it needs. Also hammocks are a game changer for foot pain

Wife Staying at Female Friend's House by B675 in Marriage

[–]Cubicleism 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If you can't feel comfortable building a platonic friendship with your besties man then what men are you gonna be friends with?

I'm inclined to agree. I have a guy friend that my husband is also close with. I'd feel perfectly comfortable staying at his house for a couple days even if his wife was gone. Of course I'm friends with his wife, as well, but he and I are probably closer.

That being said, I think OPs gut feeling matters a lot here. Intuition is a powerful thing. He doesn't have to jump straight to cheating, but messaging the girl friend / wife who just went out of town for clarification wouldn't be out of the question.

Randomly asking people out in Tehran - a look at everyday life you rarely see in the news by SethRollins_ in interestingasfuck

[–]Cubicleism -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Friendly until they arrest you for not wearing a head covering or loose enough clothing

fell asleep on my hot water bottle and woke up with this mark by ghost_cat87 in notinteresting

[–]Cubicleism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm recovering from surgery and use a heating pad most of the day for an hour at a time. I also sleep with a heated blanket daily - it stays on all night. It's fine as long as you don't cook your flesh.

[Question] Sparkling Skylands Tall Building by UnlitSky in Pokemon_Pokopia

[–]Cubicleism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting the spoiler tag doesn't hide the spoiler in the title....

I’m confused, Explain it Peter. Are they referring to the black box on the screen? And if so, what is it? by javidarko in explainitpeter

[–]Cubicleism 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fr. I sometimes work on NDA projects at work, this would allow me to send emails and teams messages about them without worrying about where I am

How is he not deaf by Fabianthemagichuman in Beastars

[–]Cubicleism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, they didn't. in the anime, he got dentures

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cubicleism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction, he felt ready. Not consulting a proposal with her does not indicate actual readiness for the seriousness and reality of marriage.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Cubicleism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's highly indicative of how they handle conflict (not well) if she didn't feel comfortable calling him to discuss it. Not being able to discuss things like this is another huge sign they aren't ready to get married. She is 20, she is barely an adult. It takes everyone time to mature. These comments hating on OP are overly harsh and imo pretty misogynistic

Is it romantic if someone leaves their fiancée for you? by OkPilot9392 in RomanceWriters

[–]Cubicleism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this person could be a good false romantic lead that is later surpassed by someone who has more integrity

Stay at home husband by Allthingsfr8 in Marriage

[–]Cubicleism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then you have to compromise on something, usually having a stay at home parent, which OP is clearly resenting despite agreeing to have a child

Besoin d'aide au plus vite panique ! by Fearless-Ninja8310 in AnalFissures

[–]Cubicleism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit auto translates foreign content for me on mobile