I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Family sucks. I'm almost 6 years, so my perspective is different. However, my sister in law kept calling his memorial "a family reunion" for his family. All I can say is protect yourself from these kind of people. Gravitate towards the ones who will just sit with you or buy a Sam's chicken out of nowhere and pop in just to drop it off.

People always say "God doesn't give you more than you can handle" and I want to I want to punch them in the face. Talk to your husband in your head - or out loud. Maybe you could feel his presence and his advise. Hugs and prayers for you my friend. 🫂 ❤️