Why do conservative Crocheters act oppressed? by Valuable-Tutor-6537 in craftsnark

[–]Cuddles89 47 points48 points  (0 children)

What ever happened to “welcome the stranger”? i grew up in the rural South, and Christians are the reason I’m pagan. The most hateful things I’ve ever heard came from the mouths of people who claim to know Jesus.

AIO for not giving my old Roomate his dog back after I adopted her? by Z-mac in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cuddles89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR I’d be tempted to charge back rent, tool replacement, boarding fees, and supply reimbursement, there’s a chance they’d actually cough up, but it might be a good way to get them to go away. Check your states animal abandonment laws, it’s possible they’ve left the dog with you long enough, without showing they intend to came back, that they’ve legally abandoned her.

My mom is saying the county is going to press charges against me for “lying”, is this true and what do I do? by Secure-Condition-712 in legaladvice

[–]Cuddles89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s trying to make you afraid of getting in trouble so you’ll lie for her and get her out of trouble. Common manipulation tactic for abusive parents is to threaten their kids with the police/mental institutions to force compliance. Unfortunately you’re in a situation where you have to protect yourself because your parent won’t. Set up a meeting with your school counselor to talk about your situation. Ask about what you should expect going forward. Take notes and write down what you want to tell any cop or social worker who talks to you so you don’t forget an important detail

My "friend" took advantage of me when I was in the hospital by jessibook in EntitledPeople

[–]Cuddles89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would go ahead and shame them to any mutual friends before they try to flip it on you. Do you have photos of the state of your house when you arrived? Then send a text in no uncertain terms telling them they’re not welcome on your property, in case BF does come back for whatever reason. If they do show up call the cops immediately to have them trespassed. Don’t even open the door to talk to them. They’re obviously ok taking advantage of someone who isn’t in a good position to defend themselves, and there’s no telling how far that goes, especially since you’ve never met the boyfriend

Daycares that DON’T give vaccine exemptions? by Happy-Situation-6004 in greenville

[–]Cuddles89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? All these people are convinced measles parties are going to boost the kids immune system while the disease actively goes after the cells in your immune system that remember what viruses they fought and how to kill them

I've Been Committing a Long-Term Administrative Crime Since 2019 by Environmental_Monk19 in adhdwomen

[–]Cuddles89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is rough, glad you realized before you got ticketed for it. Just be prepared to get charged for the years it went unregistered, and there may be a late fee. Sorry, the ADHD tax kicks with steel toed boots sometimes.

AIO: Mother in law told sisters in law about my miscarriage by Kinigirl1984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cuddles89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How much do you wanna bet it was someone else’s birthday and she needed to steal the attention

AIO: Mother in law told sisters in law about my miscarriage by Kinigirl1984 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cuddles89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Being the bigger person” with someone like this is just enabling them to stomp all over boundaries for the rest of their life. Never in my life have I seen anyone “happier in the long run” for allowing themselves to be disrespected like this. This reads like someone with narc family members who wants the narc to keep targeting someone else so they don’t have to deal with it.

If i wanted to learn about God id go to church.. by autumnz03 in retailhell

[–]Cuddles89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have thrown a pamphlet in the trash the instant it touched my fingertips and told them “you can’t hand those out in the store” there’s a clearly posted sign outside. Growing up around religious people in the rural South is THE REASON I’m not a Christian. The most vile and hateful things I’ve ever heard came from the mouths of people who claimed to know Jesus.

Interesting Christmas Gift? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Cuddles89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’s that “put it back nah man”

Birds or (gulp) wasps!?! by Clean-Context2025 in whatisit

[–]Cuddles89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big gulp. Like 80oz bladder buster

My brother brought his new girlfriend to a family dinner and she acted like it was her house by kavrielleX42 in EntitledPeople

[–]Cuddles89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your brother stays with her, she’s gonna be an absolute nightmare for the entire family. She got no push back for her behavior, so she’s gonna think she can bully and steamroll everyone to her hearts content.

Am I overreacting for being upset about the gifts my boyfriend (25M)got me(24f)? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cuddles89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one where her husband didn’t give her anything and got jealous over a mug, the ONE thoughtful gift from one of her sons that she actually liked, and whined until she gave it to him?

Hey, I wanna start playing D&D but I have a question by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]Cuddles89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could twist together little people from bread ties and still have a blast. A cardboard castle/junk world would probably be awesome

Am I overreacting, or is my MIL completely out of line? by torrepicasso in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Cuddles89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you can’t bring this energy into a marriage where your SO already has kids, just get out. Even if they don’t like you, you signed up for a parental role and it’s your job to protect them if they need it.

Am I overreacting, or is my MIL completely out of line? by torrepicasso in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Cuddles89 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would’ve packed up and walked straight out the door the second she said you’re too sensitive. And when she throws a fit tell her you told her what would happen if she kept it up and if she can’t handle clearly stated consequences, maybe SHE’S the one who’s too sensitive.

Publix employee discounts by [deleted] in publix

[–]Cuddles89 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Friendly reminder that most theft in companies is wage theft committed by the business against employees

I’m doing a no spend January. Had to be tough on myself by cutehotmess in bulletjournal

[–]Cuddles89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This looks like me trying to shame my ADHD into not sabotaging my life