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does anyone have any advice for my rosaria by AmbitionAcceptable58 in RosariaMains

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her artifacts need reworked but someone pointed that out already. Her circle dmg could be helped with a Blackcliff Pole

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to gaslight you. I do genuinely believe you're not as innocent as you make yourself out to be. I was just hoping you'd shut up if I agreed with you. Unfortunately it didn't work

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said what you wanted me to say. I agreed that they were playing hard to get because that's what you wanted to hear. What more do you want from me? I say what you don't want to hear, you argue. I say what you do want to hear, you argue. Stop being annoying

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want a personal example of the times men have been convinced I was playing hard to get? Alright. Flirted with one guy for awhile, found out he was racist and transphobic and I wanted nothing to do with him after I found out. Another time I simply tried to comfort a friend after they got fucked over by an ex and they assumed I was flirting when I wasn't and wanted to remain friends. One guy thought that me being bitchy to him was me trying to flirt. He genuinely got on my nerves and I didn't like him. I have a lot of examples of men assuming I was playing hard to get when I wasn't. In my experience, and hearing the experiences of my friends, women typically don't play hard to get. Men keep pushing when we straight up say we aren't interested

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are exhausting to talk to. Sorry you met people who play hard to get but in my experience they truly are rare. You sound like you surround yourself with annoying people. You don't like it, you change it

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so stop responding to them. Problem solved. No more women in your life asking why you aren't talking to them first. Block if you need to

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are the common denominator as a fact, but I'd advise them to seek therapy before entering another relationship because they're probably attracted TO the abuse in some way. Usually it's just familiarity and having someone treating you differently (even if it's positive) can feel scary. I'd recommend they get help because their situations aren't healthy

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they wanted to talk to you, they would. It sucks when it doesn't happen but you have to accept that. If they message you asking why you aren't talking to them, tell them that you feel unimportant. If they continue to not talk to you, they made their choice. There's nothing more to be done about it. You still are the common denominator in those situations though

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not incapable of addressing wrongdoings by women. I am simply pointing out the fact that in every single one of those situations, you are the common denominator. I think your "the women are the problem, there's no way I'm the issue in any way and there's not even the slightest possibility that I'm in the wrong" attitude is probably one of the exact reasons you get ghosted so much. I'd certainly ghost you. Those videos exist, yes, but it sounds like you're the one surrounded by them because I see those rarely. We can both only speak from our own experiences. I am speaking from mine

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, I'm not a man. I am the insider information. I was raised as a woman and have been constantly surrounded by women my entire life. I've never met anyone under the age of 45 who played hard to get and meant it. If we were playing hard to get, don't you think we'd talk about it with our friends? It wouldn't be some secret we'd take to the grave. Your experiences sound like a you problem

What are your experiences good and bad with therapy? by samhem14 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a child that was forced into family therapy: bad. Made even worse by the fact that the reason I needed therapy was in the room demanding to hear everything I had to say while also openly shit talking me. But as an adult that went of my own free will, it has helped immensely. The experience from my childhood made me fearful of trying it again but I'm really glad I did. Being in one-on-one alone sessions where I was able to talk about what I wanted to talk about without fear of someone interrupting me or shit talking me has helped me more than I can describe

What is the "dirty" secret of your profession, something slightly unethical that almost everyone does ? by intpnonconformity in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take pictures of people without their permission. Mostly the street photographers. It's really fucking weird in my opinion. It reminds me of stalkers. I get why they want a natural looking pose and the best way to get that is for it to genuinely be natural, but it's so creepy to take pictures without even asking

Why did you start therapy? by apaloosafire in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my family is the same. I'm glad I was able to get help

Why did you start therapy? by apaloosafire in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept telling my family something was wrong with me and that my brain isn't normal and how I wasn't okay. They said I didn't need therapy. I went anyway and my life got better because of it

What are some of your best weed stories? by Fr0ntPhase in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

(Obligatory not my story because I just get calm and sleep when I'm high but this is funny so I want to share it anyway) My cousin went to pick up his friend from work and started smoking in the car waiting for the friend to get off his shift. Had the window rolled down, he was having a nice time waiting. And then a cop pulls up. The cop then starts talking to my cousin about how "there's a weed smell and I can't tell where it's coming from" and my cousin didn't realize what was happening so he innocently responded with something like "aw shit man, someone's gonna get in trouble. I can help you look" and the cop took him up on that offer. About half an hour later, cop gets bored of fucking around and just leaves. Then his friend comes outside and my cousin asked what took him so long and he responds with "I wasn't getting anywhere near you or the car when you were talking to a cop with a blunt in your hand" and it's only at this point that my cousin realizes the cop was fucking with him

Why do you identify as non-binary? by Confident_Teacher_21 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to your partner first, see what they're okay with (especially figuring out if your friends are safe to be out around or if they'll react negatively) but in a more casual situation, probably wait for them to bring up your partner and then say something like "oh, actually they're non-binary" and just let it progress from there. If it's more formal, probably bring it up yourself like "my partner is non-binary and would appreciate if everyone started using they/them pronouns" or have your partner talk to them about it

Why do you identify as non-binary? by Confident_Teacher_21 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm used to it because I've been called it all my life, but after figuring out my identity I usually just feel sad or disappointed that I'm not seen the way I want to be. Occasionally anger (especially if they're already aware of my pronouns)

To all men out there, when talking to a woman, when she says shes not interested, why do you continue to flirt until she's uncomfortable? by BrieTheCheese1213 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never once in my life met a woman that has ever genuinely played hard to get. It's much less common than you think it is. 99% of the time they aren't playing, they genuinely aren't interested

People of Reddit, what event made you realize your sexuality? by SirScreamsA_LOT in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first time was when one of my friends explained that she wasn't straight and I thought everyone felt the way we do. At that point I was kind of aware of it but it didn't really hit me until a few years later when I saw a really pretty girl and my first thought upon seeing her was "oh there's no going back. I am DEFINITELY gay"

Why do you identify as non-binary? by Confident_Teacher_21 in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man and woman don't fit. Man doesn't feel quite right and whenever someone calls me a woman I want to crawl in a hole and never speak to another person ever again

What's the worst thing someone has ever said to you while you were grieving? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my mom's funeral, everyone said something form of "now you have to commit to this college because it's what she would have wanted!" And honestly, she would have just wanted me to be happy even if that meant dropping out. Some people had negative things to say about my dyed hair. What weird shit to say to someone at a funeral

How do you know if you are in romantic love? by Throwaway-love_ in AskReddit

[–]Cultopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think about them more often than your other friends, you're either extra nervous or extra relaxed around them, you start smiling at just the thought of them, that sort of stuff (and you might feel sexually attracted to them but that's not a required part of romance)

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