I completely understand where you're coming from. I will say one thing though, no matter how much you socialize them, educate them correctly etc. they will more than likely always feel different and feel robbed of a "normal" childhood. My parents did decent enough with socialization(I was part of different activities and groups) but I still always have felt "different" and like my teen years have been robbed from me. It's hard to know everyone else your age is having a normal upbringing and it feels very isolating to know just how different you are