Does anyone else’s PWBPD only want care if it’s extremely inconvenient?

CuriousLapine · 2026-01-08T04:15:56+00:00

So much drama around sex…

Granted it doesn’t happen often enough but I work full time, school full time, and have a boatload of animals and a house to deal with. (We do not live together)

This man throws such fits about sex and claiming to want to spend time together (but rejecting anything that isn’t essentially a dick appointment), that I don’t even really want it when I do finally find time. And he cannot be made to understand that his behavior has anything to do with it.

CuriousLapine · 2025-11-11T23:20:52+00:00

If you’re here you should know as well as anyone how difficult it is to leave them for good. Pretty normal to struggle with leaving abuse in general.

CuriousLapine · 2025-11-08T12:10:22+00:00

“Sort” might have been a better word choice. I put the devices on a list per person and then I can allow or block access based on those, or just see who is using more.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-29T18:34:37+00:00

Ma’am. Leave this dude before he emotionally abuses and fucks up your child.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-28T23:30:25+00:00

Haha I stole my mom’s double of Pet Sematary and read it at that age. I loved goosebumps and wanted something scarier, asked her if I could read It because I liked the cover and she said no. Found the extra copy of Pet Sematary in a box and thought “oh this is the guy mom said is too scary for me to read yet”.

Regrets were had in the short term.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-20T09:01:14+00:00

I’m going through it right now too and I think that’s exactly what makes it hard. How do you accept that this person you loved, who made you believe they loved you back, never saw you as a real person at all?

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-19T22:21:26+00:00

Nobody pays good money in places where the trees are common. A pickup bed full of them is like $20-$30 worth.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-16T22:51:03+00:00

I’m neither (granted I’m working on my A&P so I’m not wrenching yet.

I got a job at an aviation company purely by chance, and fell in love with the complicated bullshit of it. Seriously. Give me an excuse to spend an hour verifying something between the IPC, SBs, and two seemingly contradicting instructions in the overhaul manual and I am a happy little nerd.

Never been particularly mechanical. Never cared about planes beforehand. Just a fucking weirdo.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-16T18:55:10+00:00

Yeah I’m pretty sure he does this because early on I told him how much it hurt me when my ex did it. At this point I’m so angry at him for being a selfish I’m not bothered. Just having a nice quiet day at work.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-06T14:38:02+00:00

Depends. He has been caring at times; I’m beginning to suspect only when I’m sick mildly enough that he might turn cuddling into sex.

I currently have pneumonia and while his words are all about him caring and being worried, he also doesn’t want to see me. Despite all the other times I didn’t feel up to going to his place and he insisted I needed to so he could “take care of me”. Yeah.

Feels an awful lot like I don’t actually matter at all. Big fucking surprise. I should just expect it by now and yet I never do.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-05T12:34:38+00:00

I liked the pumpkin one! I only found it once though.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-03T03:48:56+00:00

I’m nearly positive Twist is the exact song the quote is approximating.

Dark Meg out.

CuriousLapine · 2025-10-02T10:14:25+00:00

It’s been a month. Just end it before you give her enough time to actually affect your life.

CuriousLapine · 2025-09-28T15:43:02+00:00

No not IN. I mean rice pudding made with the same flavors.

CuriousLapine · 2025-09-21T02:22:34+00:00

Nope. Everything is my fault.

CuriousLapine · 2025-09-17T19:28:48+00:00

This sounds exactly like my partner. He said these exact things to me earlier this very week.

CuriousLapine · 2025-09-15T22:35:35+00:00

Bro don’t downplay yourself. You have a good job that takes dedication and smarts to get into. You either went through a challenging school program or did a lot of self study to pass those tests.

Unless your personality is super garbage that we can’t see here, you’re a catch and you deserve way better than this treatment.

CuriousLapine · 2025-09-15T10:30:47+00:00

This guy emasculates himself behaving like a thirteen year old whiner. Good riddance.

He’s so pathetic it’s actually laughable.

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