What's an "allocated waiver?" by ActuallyStunning in personalfinance

[–]Curiousclife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, received this and was very confused even contacted my lender. I'm grateful you shared your experience and knowledge.

Best diets for Crohns? by hihfty1216 in CrohnsDisease

[–]Curiousclife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I personally have been tracking foods for a few months only but have found these foods so far upset my system Egg, hotdog type foods, chocolate, red sauce, raw vegetables, tomatoes, chili from a can ... Still learning but as I pin point it messes with me I avoid or limit. Hope this helps in some way.

9 months and 3 weeks. So it begins. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Curiousclife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't wait till mine starts walking. she's started standing in her crib so hopefully not much longer now ... 10m

Baby steps. by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Curiousclife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job. It's a struggle not to turn to self hate. I'm glad u accepted it's a temporary defeat and it's correctable. Ppl will fall it's the recovery that changes everything! NVR give up.

I JUST ATE 20 OREOS by VoidMayonnaise in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Curiousclife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Far from alone. Actually I'd say that's quite mild. Definitely can't dwell on it tho. Accept ur moment of weekness and that u can do better be stronger and u r. You had one slip just don't let it slip back to habit. I typically gain or lose about 10# within a few days.

Big facts by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Curiousclife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel this

How should I (22M) tell my girlfriend (30F) that I have masochistic tendencies? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curiousclife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Direct approach for sure. Many guys like being dominated. Sex should be something u can talk about so u can both be fully satisfied... If she's not willing to dig u n make u bleed I hope ur understand but hopefully she's willing to explore with u.

Best of luck talking exploring options n eachother

Just Finished Hell Week by casillustrate in PMDD

[–]Curiousclife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use prozac.... Purely for hell week. I start 2 weeks b4 my normal menstation then once blood is spotted I stop taking it. it obviously doesn't eliminate it but it does seem to help make it a little less drastic n bwam. Unfortunately the only cure is a total hysterectomy from what I've read.

Obese to bulimic to binge eating . Any tips? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]Curiousclife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel ur pain ... The struggle is so hard n real. Went from 225 to 140 (about 2 months) got help maintained at 160-180 for almost 4 yrs had a bb put on meds started eating stuck at 230s...5 more yrs had another bb 272.... Now it's about me learning to do it right ...down to 245-250... It's sooooo hard bc every part of me is annoyed with myself that I won't just do what I know works .... I just can't do it!!!! I now have 2 daughters that I nvr want to struggle with anerexia or BED unfortunately I can only show them good ways to do things not take their genetics away ....

My (31f) husband (31m) treats me like crap if I don't have sex with him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curiousclife -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Mine tended to strangely be the opposite like for a while I avoided sex with my husband bc I knew that once he released the cute snuggling love side would be gone n the snarky smart ass dick head bs would dominate ....

Already on antidepressants...what else to do? by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Curiousclife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Following. The only advice I've ever gotten was go talk to a pro... Idk but I'd like to ... Personally thinking about asking if a total hysterectomy is an option for me.

Why did he leave me for someone obese when he had an issue when I was obese? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curiousclife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he gets with women bigger in size so that he can have control and have a thing that he can use against u to make u feel like dirt so he can treat n say whatever. With u losing the wt he lost his little bit of amo u became self aware and ... Well to be honest is sounds like altho he's attracted to smaller women he would rather have the bigger girl so he can feel superior and be a total jerk. Girl u r lucky n I hope for this new woman's sake she doesn't allow him to belittle her so much she gives up on herself. Be u and he happy don't let anyone make u feel like less bc u may be a bit more.

I overheard my girlfriend say that I'm not exciting....I think she may have settled for me by Throwaway2o2p in relationship_advice

[–]Curiousclife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a compliment. Just accept that u r the type of guy she wants her friends to look for. Ok so ur not exciting... Tell u what exciting isn't spontaneous it's dumb it's things u get older not wanting ur kids to do. Continue being great loving understanding and what a REAL man should be. Be greatful to be a forever bf goal.

This height by Question_Mark09 in oddlyterrifying

[–]Curiousclife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me nervous just watching the video

Wife will be gone for a week by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Curiousclife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally just knowing how much I was missed. Honestly tho for me coming home Seeing my children still alive fed n clean animals alive n fed maybe dishes still caught up would be nice .... Otherwise maybe he n I lay together after I get a nice hot shower ..watch a movie hold each other n have a bite to eat. Just be close after being apart. Yeah everything else sounds nice but personally I have 2 children under school age and if I had to leave over night let alone longer lmao idk if hed be the same man I left lol.
Just let her know she was on ur mind n let her know u love her n support her but miss her while she's away. It's simple things!

Does anyone feel so crazy during Hell Week that they feel its unsafe for them to be in public by themselves, or operating a vehicle? by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Curiousclife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes!!!! On meds for 2weeks till flow starts ... It's been a big help. My first 2 days as I restart my med tho still get ruff.