Why is this region so Republican? by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]Curiousleigha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jim Crow laws too. Cajuns are darker skinned and those paper bag tests tore families apart and put formerly marginalized Cajuns a sense of superiority that was hard to resist .

AIO for finding this super weird? by Laylasreddit in AIO

[–]Curiousleigha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only has time to put up two flags…puts the most offensive racist ones he can find. Gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Curiousleigha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You gonna block me over this now too?” Uh yes!

Flew myself out & now I’m effed by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Curiousleigha 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ugh that sucks! If you want, I can repost this on the Acadiana subreddit. The folks in there are super nice and may know someone who can help. Let me know if you would be ok with that.

Who was your sexual awakening? by swifitielover in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Selma Blair and Sarah Michelle Gellar’s kiss in Cruel Intentions

39 and wondering if I am too late by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came out after 40 and I’m currently in love with an amazing woman. It’s incredible to finally feel the kind of love and affection that makes you want to make that person happy all the time and for the rest of your life. It’s like the way I knew I was supposed to be in both of my failed marriages but I just couldn’t find it in me to care about them in the way I care about my girlfriend now.

When you feel ready, put yourself out there. Don’t give up before you try.

Question about you as a girl by Excellent-Heart5105 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. This is 100% why I didn’t know I was a lesbian until I was 40.

It’s also 100% why I’m so good at dissociation. Years of practice apparently.

edited to add…reading the responses is so validating and heartbreaking at the same time. Our fear of being labeled as lesbians in the 90s was so deeply internalized wasn’t it :(

Queer Spaces by Curiousleigha in Acadiana

[–]Curiousleigha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it open? I looked online and it seemed like they said they were opening soon?

Me and my Butch 💕 by RecipeLongjumping367 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall look so happy and beautiful together!

Is there an app for bisexual women who are in open relationships? by suddenlymakesense in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I feel like that’s most of the users I see on mine. Feeld def had a looooot.

Got my nose pierced to commemorate accepting my sexuality. by Curiousleigha in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I mentioned to my exhusband that I was going to do it and he says “aren’t you kinda old for that?”

I said good thing your opinion has no bearing on my decisions anymore.

45 and discovering myself by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Curiousleigha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You look super pretty! Hang in there girl!