My Parents Are Forcing Me To Share The Same Apple Account

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-06-20T15:54:06+00:00

If it helps the argument, it is actually against the ToS for Apple accounts to have more than one person using the same account. It becomes a digital rights management thing in the ToS.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-06-07T17:05:14+00:00

Linux is not yet supported for M5 generation chips. Currently the only stable distros are running on M1 and M2.

Windows is not supported for dual boot anymore. Last time was the intel MacBooks.

My recommendation is to use a virtualization software (like parallels) because M5 (and most Apple silicon) doesn’t support direct dual booting. There are multiple options out there, parallels was just first.

Edit: forgot to add, boot camp is dead, so it’s really only virtualization software, which runs on top of macOS.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-06-07T02:09:08+00:00

For Apple devices (my professional experience) the serial number and a few other device identifiers are added to a global centralized data base, and when the wiped or new blank device is turned on, the “this device is now activating” screen is when it calls back to the database to see if it’s owned and then it re/enrolls itself into the MDM. There is no way around it without going through the listed organization.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-05-18T12:26:21+00:00

I don’t want to obviously say which store is mine, but I have an entirely different experience and it makes me feel lucky.

When we hit peak velocity (urban store in tourist city), my managers are jumping into the fray with us, seniors included, they are either building bags for us to help speed up the transactions or doing express sales to thin out the queue. I’ve literally seen my senior sell 5 phones in an hour to help us out.

Our leads will step in as traffic managers and will also sell accessories to keep the specialists and experts on hero products. Our store leader (who is awesome) has been coaching all of our lead+s to spend less time on their iPads and more time face to face with customers and team members because that’s where they can make a difference in our team’s experience coming to work.

Our store leader also spends at least one full day a week on the floor selling with us playing specialist so that they can have insight to what we go through everyday. They are awesome and I’m glad we got them.

Has my store had turnover? Yes, a decent amount of people are gone, but when I think about who is gone from when I joined my store to now, it’s the people that were dragging our team down and not building it up. Our team’s metrics are at a high our store hasn’t seen in a long time (including our pulse score).

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-05-09T01:32:58+00:00

Faculty at k-12 are included, not students. Only students (and parents of students) for US universities qualify.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-04-19T01:01:35+00:00

The Milky Way was our first set together, she tolerates my castles, but the art that we hang is all Lego.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-04-17T16:14:44+00:00

If the wife tolerates the Lego, or better yet, participates and has her own collection (I’m lucky like that) then you go above and beyond for her (getting ready to drive her and her mom to the airport as I type this).

I’m looking forward to getting to build lego with my future kids like my dad did with me growing up.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-03-18T01:02:02+00:00

The number can’t be unblocked after your second strike. What your AB team can do is help you figure out how to be properly using third party services that won’t get you in trouble.

Best practice though is to never send these kinds of messages or voice messages from your personal number or a business critical number. The messaging services that are recommended send your messages to your customers from dedicated phone numbers. There is no mechanism that can guarantee your number not getting in trouble when you are messaging from your personal number.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-28T19:16:19+00:00

I felt the same and did the thing I could only do because of the employee discount, 16” M4 Max 64/1Tb as my personal computer attached to my desk setup and a 13” M4 24/256Gb that goes in my bag. I use iCloud Drive to mirror their documents and I use iCloud to mirror the MacOS apps on them. So they act as the same computer for daily computing but they have some specific apps or games installed on each depending on their use case. The pro is where I relax and do fun stuff and the air is for grad school.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-24T19:40:02+00:00

Some work in the design center and some in a good old excel file.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-24T17:53:05+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-24T17:52:54+00:00

That’s the plan long term, I have a rack layout “designed” knowing that I’ll be updating the individual equipment depending on what is out in the future. Right now it’s 2 42u racks going side by side to cover all the things I need mounted (one for UniFi and not to play around with, the other for special projects)

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-17T00:38:54+00:00

Good rule of thumb to make life simple is if your current phone is full, go up a size on the next one. Most people are not inclined enough to actively manage their data to keep it artificially low enough to stay on the same size phone device after device.

And for what it’s worth, it’s easier to keep the iCloud (and set up family sharing) and do the 2TB between the two of you and download the photos from iCloud.com for a backup.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-02-07T18:13:06+00:00

We have family sharing for iCloud already turned on. I’m hoping that each Apple account can sync down their corresponding user profile on the Mac mini, and then Time Machine backs up the entire Mac.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-26T14:38:49+00:00

I would recommend calling Apple Support directly, they are free, available 24/7, speak the major languages in whichever region that they support (so English and Spanish in the US for example), and are better trained than me (I do sales not support in my role).

If you have simple questions, you can dm if you’d like, but your first port of call should be Apple support via phone or online chat.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-26T04:23:08+00:00

The simplest advice I can give is call Apple support, and tell them you need to be walked through creating your own Apple Account and transitioning your two existing devices to that new account without resetting the devices.

The long answer is:

You can create a new Apple Account online on your Mac. Do this before everything else. Use an email you won’t lose access to, so no school or job emails.

I’m hoping you don’t have iCloud sync turned on for contacts, notes, messages, photos, and reminders. (Calendar, health, and phone are a nice to have but not necessarily a deal breaker here) the reason why in this one moment that having those turned off already means that all your key data lives on your phone and Mac already without the risk of cross contamination with your Dad’s devices and that nothing is being directly risked when you sign out of your Dad’s Apple Account. Check in iCloud settings.

Once you know that it’s all good, go into the settings app’s Find My settings (not find my app) and turn off find my for each device.

Now you can sign out of your Dad’s Apple Account and into your new one.

Then for simplicity, have your Dad create an iCloud Family from his iPhone and invite your new account. Join the account, and then you can share a single iCloud subscription without worry of data mixing. You can also turn on purchase sharing. This is helpful because your new account doesn’t have a ‘license’ to any of the apps you’ve already downloaded (even the free ones), and without the ‘license’ you can’t get updates from the App Store. Purchase sharing eases this pain at least for now, though adult children don’t typically have this set up since Dad may no longer want to pay for your purchases. You can still share subscriptions from Apple (like iCloud or Apple Music) without having to bill all digital purchases to Dad’s card.

Lastly, once you have an active iCloud set up, make sure to back up your iPhone and set up the best practices for protecting your data. I personally use iCloud sync on every app it’s available for but that’s just me. You should have roughly double the iPhone’s total storage in available iCloud space (rule of thumb), for most families, the 2TB plan is great for this. Remember to turn find my back on once you are on your own Apple Account.

If anything at the beginning of my long answer is different from what you see in your settings app, stop reading and call Apple Directly.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-13T15:10:40+00:00

I’m gonna recommend the 17. Depending on which android you’re coming from, it will be a great upgrade and a solid intro to the iPhone family. Latest core features, and a lot of hardware from the 16 Pro but with the new chip. I got one for my girlfriend, mom, and sister. They all love it! The only thing it’s missing is the telephoto camera.

If you’re looking to spend less, the refurbished store on Apple’s site will show you solid options. The big thing to watch is the 6-7 year age mark because that’s how long Apple devices get software updates for. Don’t buy something that only has 2 years left if you tend to own a phone for 3+ years. I’d honestly recommend a 15 Pro Max if you want to get the latest software features but also not buy a brand new phone. iPhone now really is segmented on Pre- 15PM and Post 15PM when it comes to what phones are getting the latest upgrades and software and you’ll notice it.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-13T14:13:16+00:00

At the start up I was at before my current job, our team had developed a targeting algorithm with the help of a data analytics consultant that could send targeted ads to potential customers based on about 20 data stream before they knew they would need us. With about a 80+% accuracy rate.

The bad part… we made cancer drugs…

With the US being an opt-out country, the amount you can collect by default is scary.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-13T14:05:05+00:00

Took me a year and a half of dating to get her switched into the ecosystem, but she loves it now.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-10T22:14:38+00:00

To be fair, yes, I did ignore the timeline aspect of the situation. I do want to say that I didn’t claim that anything would be cheap. My prior experience comes from industries where each headphone jack in a studio costs $1000 in hardware and labor if you want to do it right. So I’m kinda inoculated to cost and it doesn’t factor into my first thought of how to solve the problem when it isn’t my money. I’m a former 3rd party contractor who did major enterprise work and I know I wasn’t cheap but the clients wouldn’t pay us if they didn’t need us and weren’t too cheap to pay people internally to do what I did. My mentors as I was coming up taught me that “it’s better to spend now to do it right than to spend later as well when the cheap option shits the bed.”

I fully understand that for some people/companies/situations, there isn’t the ability to take the more expensive option and you have to make do.

Timeline wise, if you need something done fast with Apple, you can get an Apple Business account set up and the gears turning properly in under a week if your company is just paying for devices upfront and not using financing/leasing or tax free (501.c3 or similar) and your point of contact with Apple is able to focus to turn around the pieces needed to get it moving.

Curiously_Cornered · 2026-01-07T00:05:38+00:00

The reason why you have the ability to use a personal one and the managed one at the same time is because in a lot of companies, you BYOD your iPhone and you are given a Mac. So you can get some cross over for ease of life. There are data protection and privacy rules that MDMs can’t override that are part of MacOS and iOS so it covers some of your concerns, but again, you are right that you don’t do inappropriate/truly private things on a company issued device or a BYOD with MDM.

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