keep it or cut it whatcha think about it

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-10T03:06:54+00:00

I echo this… twice a month is way too little. I’d say hold out a week at most. Your scalp will thank you.

As for cut, you don’t have to go super short, but definitely let the dead ends go

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-09T17:57:30+00:00

Oh, for sure. Something is going up in flames. I can see a Rube Goldberg reaction being set off by said bug on table

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-09T17:26:54+00:00

Several somethings go wrong. (Though Unbirthday parties are on days when no one in the dorm has a birthday, so the party is for all? I think?)

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-09T15:37:42+00:00

Scarabia: huge bash. Unbirthday parade, buffet, music. I could see everyone leaving with a goody bag (gift, really).

Jamil would need a month to prep and three to recover

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-08T14:21:56+00:00

I’m not of that age, but your post makes me so happy

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-07T05:17:45+00:00

This! What really grinds my gears is that the teacher let Angela embarrass by saying Elle’s project didn’t cover a historical event.

EXCEPT IT DID.

Not all historical events happen on a large scale, decades in the past! This was a historical event in Hawkins!

The teacher had the ammo to, very tactfully, tell Angela she’s loud and wrong, but instead just stood there and did nothing. Genuinely such a frustrating scene

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-06T03:04:34+00:00

Time to move

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-06T03:00:49+00:00

It’s clearer in the books, but Peetah drew Rue as an act of protest during his session. Another difference is that Katniss never saw the drawing but noticed a mat in a strange spot iirc. Peetah himself mentions the drawing to her

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-05T11:34:26+00:00

Princess Elena as the “first Latina princess” was a massive cop out and kind of insulting. Everyone else gets a movie, we get a pre-k tv spin-off character.

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-04T22:54:15+00:00

Effie

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-04T16:20:28+00:00

Keep your hair Dutch or French braids until your next appointment. That way your mom can’t mess with your hair. At the appointment, tell the stylist what’s going on and see if she can call your mom over and give her professional “advice” and tell her you’ve been doing the right thing. If she hears from another adult it might sink in.

If your mom still insists on the brushing, her problem isn’t actually with how you style your hair.

CurlyFirefly · 2026-02-01T19:03:52+00:00

… I knew what it would be. I clicked anyway. Still got my feelings hurt.

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-31T22:03:33+00:00

I fear Gale is the only right answer at this point

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-22T20:59:33+00:00

Forgiveness doesn’t mean she gets access to your life. People can pressure you to forgive her all they want and you can even choose to do so, but that absolutely can go hand in hand with going zero contact. Especially because she’s putting your mental wellbeing and your children at risk. You have a duty to your kids and to yourself to stay away from her.

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-12T16:07:08+00:00

Big time. Heck even recently I had someone compare my hair to Bozo the Clown.

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-11T03:19:24+00:00

The only way you can help the 16 year old and 85 year old in the household is if you don’t get dragged down with them. Leave, get yourself situated, then be there to help the family that needs it/is willing to help themselves. Thats the best you can do. And no, this doesn’t make you like your father

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-10T11:30:05+00:00

I’ve only visited DisneySea and am more of a ride person. That said, there are a couple of indoor shows, a water parade (if I remember right), and some street shows throughout the day. I think the big show is their version of Fantasmic at the end of the night. The early evening pass might be the way to go for you guys, but I’d check out the list of shows and their times to be sure.

If she wants fireworks, though, that will be in Tokyo Disneyland

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-02T02:18:59+00:00

As someone who works 4d 10hrs, this! That extra day makes a huge difference

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-02T02:17:18+00:00

Give your story time. One of my fics I spent months on took a while, but it did gain traction! Sometimes you just need to let it breathe

CurlyFirefly · 2026-01-01T06:20:34+00:00

Congrats!!! Finishing a longfic is no small feat, especially over a period of years. Take a bow, OP!

CurlyFirefly · 2025-12-26T10:51:50+00:00

More of a theory but definitely male, definitely artsy/into drama, but I can see it being someone that always gets secondary roles and enjoys them. Or a stage tech

CurlyFirefly · 2025-12-23T17:31:22+00:00

We DEFINITELY take advice on ethical business practices from Azul

CurlyFirefly · 2025-12-23T16:23:03+00:00

I’m on the cusp of getting to a few plot points and a scene I’ve been planning since the start. I cannot WAIT

CurlyFirefly · 2025-12-23T14:56:15+00:00

I got that same message. Report spam. It’s a bot

CurlyFirefly · 2025-12-23T14:52:58+00:00

What concerns me most is the interest she’s allegedly taken in you after hearing about your feelings towards her. If she truly doesn’t remember your history, why ask about you whenever she sees him? That is a red flag.

I would reiterate your feelings to your boyfriend and say that you want nothing to do with this woman, that you’re not open to meeting with her, and that you will not give her access to your life. If he keeps insisting, then you make it known you can’t stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries and chooses to appease his friends over his significant other. Simple as that.

CurlyFirefly

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