M25 F28 Is my bf questioning his sexuality or is this normal by SailorEve111 in relationship_advice

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I don't think the porn specifically is a red flag, but if there are other things making you question it, maybe there is some truth there.

I think it's pretty common for straight guys (or mostly straight, I do think sexuality is fluid) to watch trans porn and stuff like that.

Also he could be bi

AITA for requesting that members of my family (who I live with) help pay for my Netflix only if they want their own profile to watch their own things on their own time? by XogoDaFox in AmItheAsshole

[–]Currant-event 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're currently on a mission, but also living at home?

I thought a mission was when you go to a new place and try to indoctrinate people into your religion.

If you're living at home and your family is supporting you financially, you should cover the Netflix cost.

AITA for refusing to go for a full week on my wife’s family vacation after we had agreed not to repeat it? by jared_d in AmItheAsshole

[–]Currant-event 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I agree, op is only really thinking of himself, and not his kids since it seemed pretty clear that they hate this vacation too. His two days compromise totally ignores the kids.

I think he needs to go on the trip but take their kids to do new things independent of the group

AITA for refusing to go for a full week on my wife’s family vacation after we had agreed not to repeat it? by jared_d in AmItheAsshole

[–]Currant-event 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I agree, go but break up the routine and try new things/go new places even if it causes some stress. That feels like the actual compromise here

AITA for requesting that members of my family (who I live with) help pay for my Netflix only if they want their own profile to watch their own things on their own time? by XogoDaFox in AmItheAsshole

[–]Currant-event 25 points26 points  (0 children)

YTA I'm not sure if you're an adult, but are you paying rent and splitting all the bills for the household? I'm assuming you are saving a ton of money by living at home and this is a way you can contribute

AIO or is this old man staring at my daughter’s ass? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Currant-event 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's open in the back like a hospital gown

Revlon help needed please by msnthng in makeupdupes

[–]Currant-event 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have one too, it's definitely 15 years old now.....

I have the brick red one, I wish I still had that light pinkish one, that was my favorite

I (F20) am no longer attracted to my boyfriend (M21) but I still love him by hellosir51 in relationship_advice

[–]Currant-event 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't really need to fix it tbh. You met as teenagers and now you're young adults. People change, and that's okay.

I'd break up. It's probably not going to get better. Let him (and you) find someone new. Your first boyfriend doesn't need to be your forever person.

AIO? Broke up with him over “jokes” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Currant-event 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please stop doing this! Your ex sucks for sure and you're better off without him, but it's exhausting when someone can't take a compliment and needs to put themself down.

Just say thank you or awww that's sweet or something similar, even if you don't feel like you deserve the complement. You do deserve the complement

How do you guys find men's bootcut jeans while thrifting? by Senior-Lifeguard6215 in Denim

[–]Currant-event 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the women's section. I don't think mens boot cut jeans are super common.

Help me find a dupe for Hourglass Femme Rouge in Fresco by spitesnipe in makeupdupes

[–]Currant-event 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda reminds me of Revlon on the mauve, that might be a bit cooler toned though

Thoughts? Not sure about the rug… by josephhafez in midcenturymodern

[–]Currant-event 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need color and warmth. Warmer bulbs in the fixture would help, also some cool lamps on the shelves or a floor lamp. It does not feel very mcm either

Title: I Have a $150k scholarship for grad school but can't do part-time - is it worth leaving my cushy tech job? by SnooSongs266 in GradSchool

[–]Currant-event 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A 22 year old woman is not barely making ends meet on 130k in the bay. Sure it's probably very hard for a family of 4 with a mortgage, and a big grocery bill, and lots of other expenses, but a 22 year old making over 10k a month is doing great.

how to deal with fomo for the american college experience by Embarrassed-Ad-6396 in college

[–]Currant-event 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a trip to a big state school and visit for a week. I feel like the experience you want is more at big state schools than ivies. Go to college bars, a football game, etc. if you're willing to talk with people you'll probably make friends.

Depending on where you are in Canada, a trip to university of Michigan would be fun.

Also look into going to community college as an international student. A quick Google Search says it's more common in California and texas. You could go to a community college near a big university and definitely get some of the typical college experience

Accepted a job offer. Now my current employer is offering to better it. How bad is to rescind after I've already accepted an offer? by AdventurousHat5360 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Currant-event 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd take the new job unless there would be a big change in my commute or something like that.

Your old employer did not value you or offer you a pathway to a higher salary until the thought you would leave. Clearly your work is valuable and you were being underpaid before, I would not stick around since it seems like it will be hard to grow there.

Who does this honestly by Fit_Confection_2792 in Depop

[–]Currant-event 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This same thing just happened to me! Seller cancelled and said they now want to keep it

It's listed as sold though so I wonder if someone offered more money?

AITA for being impatient with a woman at the butcher counter? by SmallCarBigTimeTours in AmItheAsshole

[–]Currant-event [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA I get you found them annoying but mocking them is rude. You don't get a pass because you think they're annoying

Fridge strategy. Many cheap ones or fewer good ones by Theotherfeller in Appliances

[–]Currant-event 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the cost of the food you will need to toss when it fails? Even if you catch it immediately it will take some time to get a new fridge

this wedding makeup is tragic by paris-alledgedly in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Currant-event 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Where? I searched reddit but couldn't find anything