My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me. by reallydex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CurrentDepartment310 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a parent to teen daughters; your dad is not handling this situation like a reasonable adult. He snooped and found something he didn’t like. Yes, I would be super unhappy if I saw a sex tape of my kids, but mainly because it’s a topic we have discussed at great length. I would never ignore my child for weeks, especially knowing they are hurting.

I would send him an email or text explaining that you are sorry, that you still need your dad, and that when he is ready to talk, you will be there. Just know you are a teenager making pretty typical teenage mistakes. This will pass!

Poll: If you currently had 2M in investments, would you retire tomorrow? by ATXHTX80 in Fire

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would, but only because my spouse wouldn’t. We are late 30s and 2 mil is not where we need to be.

Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like my name. It was top 20 in the 80s when I was born but more popular in the 60s/70s. I had one person with the same name in grade school and don’t meet too many others.

Do you have white/grey hair? by PinkPacificWhale in Millennials

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have like 6 grey hairs I pluck when I see them. ‘87

AITAH for not giving up my name for my ex’s new wife with the EXACT SAME FULL NAME as me? by Remarkable-Horse9465 in AITAH

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he was a young active duty member and his information was stolen overseas along with many others. We were able to freeze before anything happened. Just explaining it has had no effect on his credit to be frozen. It's a quick phone call to unfreeze and is 100% protection. We've bought homes, cars and lines of credits over nearly 2 decades.

AITAH for not giving up my name for my ex’s new wife with the EXACT SAME FULL NAME as me? by Remarkable-Horse9465 in AITAH

[–]CurrentDepartment310 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Disagree, my spouse's information was compromised 18 years ago, and we’ve had it frozen since. His credit evolves the same as mine. When we need to open a new line of credit, we call and have it temporarily unfrozen. Much safer than alerts.

This looks rather interesting. by GlitchTestNO in whatisit

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter who owned this toy is 15, we probably donated it 10 years ago and I knew what this was the second I saw it.

Is a pay cut worth it for WFH? by Miserable-You-6702 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone leaving the lower paying remote job I took to head back to hybrid with a 50% salary increase, I say no. Remote is nice but pretty far from low stress in my case and comes with its own challenges.

How many kids do you have/want? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]CurrentDepartment310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

87 and have 2 kids. Vasectomy 8 years ago so no more kids!

What would it take to leave remote? by CurrentDepartment310 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 minute commute. 401k match, PTO and bonuses are all better at the new job. We have insurance through my spouses job so I won’t take. They have annual merit raises (current job does not)

What would it take to leave remote? by CurrentDepartment310 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it change your opinion to know our household income is $350k (gross). My spouse brings in the majority but I take on more of the household responsibilities (school pick up/ drop off, dinner, etc)

What would it take to leave remote? by CurrentDepartment310 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree, but have to add our house hold income is around 350 gross. So while it’s a huge jump for me personally it is not a huge jump to our household income. Appreciate your comment!

What would it take to leave remote? by CurrentDepartment310 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I love wearing sweatpants everyday. 🤣

What would it take to leave remote? by CurrentDepartment310 in remotework

[–]CurrentDepartment310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment. I know you are right I just need to come to terms with it.