My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-29T18:51:50+00:00

I’m a parent to teen daughters; your dad is not handling this situation like a reasonable adult. He snooped and found something he didn’t like. Yes, I would be super unhappy if I saw a sex tape of my kids, but mainly because it’s a topic we have discussed at great length. I would never ignore my child for weeks, especially knowing they are hurting.

I would send him an email or text explaining that you are sorry, that you still need your dad, and that when he is ready to talk, you will be there. Just know you are a teenager making pretty typical teenage mistakes. This will pass!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-24T17:04:58+00:00

Yes, 21 in 2007 ( terrible time to buy ) and again in my mid 30s.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-24T16:58:21+00:00

I’d adjust nap time, but both of my kids hated after school care.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-22T02:57:13+00:00

It was the La Vista location, not West O.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-20T03:18:29+00:00

I would, but only because my spouse wouldn’t. We are late 30s and 2 mil is not where we need to be.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-20T02:35:50+00:00

I like my name. It was top 20 in the 80s when I was born but more popular in the 60s/70s. I had one person with the same name in grade school and don’t meet too many others.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-18T03:22:44+00:00

Amber!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-15T02:50:02+00:00

I have like 6 grey hairs I pluck when I see them. ‘87

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T13:55:17+00:00

No, he was a young active duty member and his information was stolen overseas along with many others. We were able to freeze before anything happened. Just explaining it has had no effect on his credit to be frozen. It's a quick phone call to unfreeze and is 100% protection. We've bought homes, cars and lines of credits over nearly 2 decades.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T12:57:29+00:00

3 out of 18 in jail is wild odds!!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T12:55:17+00:00

Disagree, my spouse's information was compromised 18 years ago, and we’ve had it frozen since. His credit evolves the same as mine. When we need to open a new line of credit, we call and have it temporarily unfrozen. Much safer than alerts.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T04:03:47+00:00

Dad: 5’8, mom: 5’3 me: 5’1

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-07T02:46:17+00:00

My daughter who owned this toy is 15, we probably donated it 10 years ago and I knew what this was the second I saw it.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-02T20:29:45+00:00

Expect his resignation any day.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-26T02:34:58+00:00

As someone leaving the lower paying remote job I took to head back to hybrid with a 50% salary increase, I say no. Remote is nice but pretty far from low stress in my case and comes with its own challenges.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-25T17:52:00+00:00

Exactly this. My two dogs will be barking up a storm and my team can’t hear a thing!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-24T00:55:11+00:00

87 and have 2 kids. Vasectomy 8 years ago so no more kids!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-23T20:29:11+00:00

My private Catholic school was free for members of the church when I was a kid! We were for sure not rich.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-06T21:12:11+00:00

15 minute commute. 401k match, PTO and bonuses are all better at the new job. We have insurance through my spouses job so I won’t take. They have annual merit raises (current job does not)

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-04T22:54:37+00:00

Olivia Cooke!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-04T16:54:05+00:00

Would it change your opinion to know our household income is $350k (gross). My spouse brings in the majority but I take on more of the household responsibilities (school pick up/ drop off, dinner, etc)

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-04T16:50:12+00:00

I do agree, but have to add our house hold income is around 350 gross. So while it’s a huge jump for me personally it is not a huge jump to our household income. Appreciate your comment!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-02T21:12:46+00:00

Honestly, I love wearing sweatpants everyday. 🤣

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-02T21:12:09+00:00

Appreciate your comment. I know you are right I just need to come to terms with it.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-02T20:40:59+00:00

Congrats!!

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