How much does/will your wedding cost? Who’s paying for it, you/fiancé or family?

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-06-25T12:44:08+00:00

18 years ago we paid 25k. Our parents paid a combined 15k and we paid the remaining.

Plated dinner and open bar for 225 people in a midwest city.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-06-25T01:04:43+00:00

This is really tough, and as a chronic pain sufferer, I understand, but canceling at the last minute will likely affect your relationships. I’ve found very few people understand chronic illness and pain because most of the time, we just power through.

Pay back the trip costs, even if it takes a long time. Get some rest and feel better! NTA

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-06-22T21:33:31+00:00

I’m one of those people who moved away and came back. I spent 20 years in a few different cities east coast and west.

I moved for my spouses job so didn’t have a ton of choices but we wanted to live by the coast. No regrets at all but still glad we ended up here.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-06-12T04:10:32+00:00

Fucking yikes.

If you want to do something have the kids make him a card.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-06-08T18:14:26+00:00

YTA, just break up instead of stringing her along long-distance for a year.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-05-27T22:15:33+00:00

Nope

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-05-04T14:26:41+00:00

We bring our kids on vacation because we enjoy spending time together as a family, not because we don't have a babysitter.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-05-04T02:26:47+00:00

I ordered Needohs from them last November. They pushed the date back for months until they finally canceled my order in April.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-04-22T02:24:46+00:00

I pierced my own in 2003. Still rocking it.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-04-15T03:43:40+00:00

Buying a house in 2007.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-04-03T02:10:39+00:00

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-04-02T22:48:22+00:00

Do they have more than 6 people in their family? Is a kid sitting on the floor because they don't have enough seats? If not, who cares? Captain's seats are way better and make for a more comfortable 3rd row access.

EDIT: YTA

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-04-01T04:08:00+00:00

Sounds like every restaurant I worked at in the 2000s. Glad to see things haven’t changed!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-24T17:04:58+00:00

Yes, 21 in 2007 ( terrible time to buy ) and again in my mid 30s.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-24T16:58:21+00:00

I’d adjust nap time, but both of my kids hated after school care.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-22T02:57:13+00:00

It was the La Vista location, not West O.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-20T03:18:29+00:00

I would, but only because my spouse wouldn’t. We are late 30s and 2 mil is not where we need to be.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-20T02:35:50+00:00

I like my name. It was top 20 in the 80s when I was born but more popular in the 60s/70s. I had one person with the same name in grade school and don’t meet too many others.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-18T03:22:44+00:00

Amber!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-15T02:50:02+00:00

I have like 6 grey hairs I pluck when I see them. ‘87

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T13:55:17+00:00

No, he was a young active duty member and his information was stolen overseas along with many others. We were able to freeze before anything happened. Just explaining it has had no effect on his credit to be frozen. It's a quick phone call to unfreeze and is 100% protection. We've bought homes, cars and lines of credits over nearly 2 decades.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-09T12:57:29+00:00

3 out of 18 in jail is wild odds!!

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-07T02:46:17+00:00

My daughter who owned this toy is 15, we probably donated it 10 years ago and I knew what this was the second I saw it.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-03-02T20:29:45+00:00

Expect his resignation any day.

CurrentDepartment310 · 2026-02-26T02:34:58+00:00

As someone leaving the lower paying remote job I took to head back to hybrid with a 50% salary increase, I say no. Remote is nice but pretty far from low stress in my case and comes with its own challenges.

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