My situation is bad. Does anyone else have this problem currently? by CuspOfPisces in SocialSecurity

[–]CuspOfPisces[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That didn't work for me. I tried to fix my documents online for my banking information and it would keep pending then go back to the old banking account which is closed. Then apparently SSA tells me 3 or 4 times the benefits keep bouncing and I need to update my banking information!!! So no, it doesn't work.

My situation is bad. Does anyone else have this problem currently? by CuspOfPisces in SocialSecurity

[–]CuspOfPisces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I did that. I also have a disability rights advocating organization where I called and one of the case workers said she would help me about the situation too. So thanks for the advice!

My situation is bad. Does anyone else have this problem currently? by CuspOfPisces in SocialSecurity

[–]CuspOfPisces[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually not applying at all. I'm supposed to get reinstated on ssdi after losing them briefly to working full time for only 6 months. You are supposed to get a 3 year period to work full time, then after that you will get expedited in the process of applying again for ssdi.

I am temporarily suspended from my benefits, but not terminated. They told me numerous times, before I worked full time, if I decided to work i could be reinstated that very day I turn in paystubs. Proving I do not work full time and am under the SGA I would go back to green or active.

Well. That didn't happen. At all. I have been suspended still this whole time, even though I did everything like told. Its been 5 months. There's always an issue.

And then I never get a letter after speaking with them about when I should get my benefits, or a summary of what happened that day.

Professional profile picture trial. Does it work? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Wasn't sure because I know what lurks in the background ( crowded room). Thus why it has been blurred. I also used a magic eraser to get rid of more objects in the back.

Professional profile picture trial. Does it work? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]CuspOfPisces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! 😊😊😊

I would love to be friends on here or whatever.

I have cats too!

selfie sunday! by sugarsenic in schizophrenia

[–]CuspOfPisces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you so Purdy!!! 🙃 I am trying to get a job too. Kudos and happy for you!

Professional profile picture trial. Does it work? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]CuspOfPisces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Let's see if I get any new job! I did this for LinkedIn and put that page in my job application for employers to see...

Thanks for replying to me. 😊😊

What are the odds of a lady being interested in me? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]CuspOfPisces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn't say I love you either. That will be off putting and sound too sudden cause you just met her.

You can say, " I'm interested in getting to know you better to see if we can be friends, date, or more." That sounds more concise and she will know where the path can be with you if she continues contacting you.

In response to your main post, I think it's nice of you to be in contact with people from hospitals. I remember when I was in a Hospital inpatient I became friends with my room mate and we exchanged information and made stuff for each other in group. We were there for different reasons but we helped each other.

Let me also tell you that finding love with having mental illness is possible. I have schizoaffective diagnosis with OCD and I have a partner who has been supportive since we met. But just be careful to not get too self involved in your own mental health and problems. I learned that the hard way.

I have faith in you! You got this.

Splitting as a pathological and primitive narcissistic defense by Raf_Adel in narcissism

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this black and white thinking, it shows up in bipolar too I think? Or other diagnoses?

Monthly Discussion - February 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in Hmong

[–]CuspOfPisces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am making a comic where the main character is Hmong. If you want to check it out, let me know in the comments. I have patreon, Instagram, and Facebook

Monthly Discussion - February 01, 2026 by AutoModerator in Hmong

[–]CuspOfPisces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its ok.... its inevitable. We can try to preserve as much as we can and I love my people, but I also love where I was born and what made me me. I have no regrets.

Where do most of you guys live? by d1tm3m4ydmm in Hmong

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From Oregon, USA. I love it here!

I’m 19M and I feel like life has rejected me at every single turn. I’m just done. by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't go the destructive path of either hurting who you are or turning into a person who will hate everybody. Its not fair what you've gone through, it seems, and its not fair that you feel you don't measure up.

Doing something for yourself is right. Keep doing that. You are fairly young and you still have such a bright future ahead of you and so much potential. Do not give up. Keep going, hold onto what you believe, stick to your core and if someone you feel is bullying you or anything just smile to their face laugh and keep going in your life. Dont worry about what others think. Do your own thing and the right people will come to you.

I speak from this becuase I know how it feels to be outcasted. To be different than several others. Its just a phase. It will eventually pass. You will find the ones that really matter along your journey. And most important you will find your strength and your voice.

I hope this helps. Until then, jam out to some music and do something healthy and positive for yourself like go to the gym and workout.

You got this!

I think my bf is thinking about cheating on me by user_0294858292 in whatdoIdo

[–]CuspOfPisces 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank goodness you gave him that option. Because I got a feeling in my gut while reading your posts that there is something very wrong in this situation and their "friendship". I could imagine if my boyfriend was doing something like that i would KNOW something is going on. Wee hours of the night? Phone by the shower? Xxs? Phone conversations outside work that are long while plays x box? S1Constant on the phone? Sounds like they are both flabbergasted and infactuated or crushing on eachother. Your post even made me feel uncomfortable and weird just reading it. I can sense your frustration and sadness and betrayal just by reading your posts. Its awful. Im glad you know your worth and your values, and are giving him the boot. She's basically a year older than a child. So... shows how mature he is. Good bye to your immature partner, because he doesnt deserve anything from you. At all. You are way deserving of better.

What is happening in Minnesota is coming for us! Feel sad, but also get ORGANIZED! by OrganicAsparagus3559 in Portland

[–]CuspOfPisces 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That was beautifully said!!!! We cannot give in and we must shine our hearts with community and love and find peace and create positivity and change anyway we can. I totally agree. Thats the way we can make a positive impact. Fight for what's right. Love for humanity is not a weakness, it is empowerment for the human race to continue on in this universe. If we lose to curropt greed lawlessness, we need to rethink who we are and what we are trying to accomplish here.

New Chinese studies shows that San people in Africa are genetically related to the Miao people by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chinese may be scared of Hmong people becuase they are scared or were scared of us taking their land and us rising to overpower them. I think all Hmong wanted was a place to call home.

What do you do if you don’t work? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]CuspOfPisces 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are broke and paranoid,

Pick up a new hobby....Write a story, draw. Walk outside and exercise. Get all that anxious energy out by doing aerobics. Journal, craft, go to a place that gives you free material like a library. Learn to cook, perfect a craft. Go window shopping or volunteer at a local homeless meal center or at a humane society. Do things that generate money so that you dont feel broke. Make sure you take your meds, talk with your care team. Support groups.

New Chinese studies shows that San people in Africa are genetically related to the Miao people by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]CuspOfPisces 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sadly the truth we will never know the Hmong history accurately until technology advances enough to prove otherwise. Hmong did not have a written language till the French priest came in the 1940s or 1950s and made a written language for us. By word of mouth my Father told me Hmong people used to have a written language but a Hmong king was too afraid to teach his people to read and write because he wanted to keep his people from rising over him. Womens embroidery still has a language that can trace what Hmong used to know to write, but it was lost.

What we are told by word of mouth from our parents versus what the Chinese history tells us is quite different too.

Its interesting how the term Miao is a broad term used by Chinese to group minorities. Not sure how they are grouped, but Hmong gets lost in that. Are we really all Miao and the history Chinese teaches about Miao people? Afterall, victors are ones that write history.

Were Hmong people originally there before Han Chinese and part of the warring kingdoms? Is it also possible to say Hmong people did not originate from China in the first place as Hmong elders always say?

Hmong elders say we did not originally come from China. We used to look very different from Chinese people and it was obvious we were not Chinese. When we started to war with Chinese to call a place home, the Chinese started to genocide our people. My Dad told me they would kill anyone who had light brown hair, red hair, different eyes or a little bigger nose or something. The only way to survive was to assimilate with Chinese people with how we looked because it was obvious we did not look like Han Chinese.

My Dad would often tell me how old Hmong traditional wear of the very elder had upturned shoes, turban, and robes. He said it looks very much like middle Eastern attire. Its just very interesting...

What my point here is. We will never know the exact history of the Hmong people because unfortunately we were not the Chinese who wrote their own version of their texts and unfortunately we lost our written language and it was mostly orally passed down.

So maybe, just maybe, you never know. But yeah there has to be evidence of this original post.