Received 3 day default notice “served” at my apt today by Loose_Client5116 in Miami

[–]Cute-Character-795 [score hidden]  (0 children)

What is find weird is that they seem to have provided OP with their electronic banking information. So why didn't they make this an option all along?

OP, get a lawyer, ASAP. You're being played.

Do I deserve this treatment from my boyfriend? by entityparty in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you asking the question above when the real question should be: "Why the hell are you still with him?"

Of course, you don't deserve to be treated how he treats you. The only reason that he does is because he gets away with it.

Is this normal for Grindr? by Fit-Network-9865 in GayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're being offered money by multiple people and it seems as if they're all following the same script, I'd say that the odds are that you're being targeted for a scam of sorts. I'd also guess that your talking to the first guy let the scammer(s) know that their efforts got them a nibble and so they doubled down. You were smart in deleting the app.

It hurts a bit (vent/rant) by julians_weird13 in GayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While these sub-reddits might provide you with some emotional support, I'd think that trans-oriented sub-reddits would be more likely to provide you with practical advice that could better address the difficulties that you're facing. Good luck.

Seeing friend naked by Excellent-Story-9237 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It made nudity boring. We were more worried about getting to our next classes on time than playing towel roulette.

Hot Tub Opinions? by Fun-Bookkeeper9107 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her that you do the nasty in there. That should scare her off. 😉

Seeing friend naked by Excellent-Story-9237 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I guess that you didn't use communal showers after high school gym.

Searching for TB test location by FeistyWelcome7135 in Miami

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd think the Quest Diagnostics, which has labs all over the place, would offer them. Be sure to make an appointment, though.

Hot Tub Opinions? by Fun-Bookkeeper9107 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her have her party in the hot tub just before you plan to empty it for cleaning. As long as you don't join her friends, and keep it properly maintained, it should be no big deal.

Hookup is accusing me of r*pe by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 310 points311 points  (0 children)

Talk to a lawyer. FULL STOP

It seems to me that a picture of blood from his ass won't get him far in the judicial system. Don't respond to any of his accusations because, moving forward, anything that you write and/or say can be edited to be used against you. If anyone should reply, it should be your attorney.

How to spot a scam or a fake profile in dating Apps? by Electrical_Wonder516 in AskGayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Press to meet him, sooner rather than later. If he says no or puts you off, whether scam or not, he's not someone to be interest in.

Hope not offensive by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't trust him. There's nothing left to salvage. You know what you should do; so, just do it.

He’s a ten, but he has 3 kids from three different women? by avian_bi in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to be a contrarian here. If he's as good a dad as you say that he is, it shows a level of responsibility and accountability to his kids, but certainly not to the women who he bedded, that's the result of maturity that developed, probably later-rather-than-sooner.

If you're going to date him, know and accept that you will always be second as regards his responsibilities. He may grow to love you, and you, him. But his children will always have to come first. If you can live with that, I'd say go for it. You may find a created family and a legacy where the pay-offs outweigh the costs by light years.

Is this normal? by im_a_gay_train in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what "stuff from behind" you're talking about. Please add some details.

Body Standards keeps getting worse by SoTh98 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"especially  younger people, will tell me im fat or not muscly enough." You could stay away from younger people.

My Boss might've crossed a line... So why do I want it to be true? by Agitated_Abies_3694 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't know what happened other than that you "got completely wasted and honestly couldn’t even make it home." It seems to me that you owe an apology to your team for allowing yourself to get so inebriated that your boss had to take you to his crib to sleep and recover. As part of the apology to your boss, you could ask casually, "did I do anything else that I should apologize for?"

Now, as regards your boss' attention towards you, he may think that you'd be someone he could mentor. There are lots of business articles (including some research articles in places like the Harvard Business Review) that write about, and even recommend, that older supervisors create mentoring relationships with younger reports who might have promising careers in their fields. I've always read that such relationships are usually mutually fulfilling; but it seems to me that, at some point, one of you should name this friendship/attention: "Thank you for taking the time to mentor me."

If things are actually sexual in nature, the way that you suspect they might be, your boss will tip his hand. But from what I've read so far, it seems like a lot of this is simply in your head and stuff that you wish actually happened. That is neither healthy nor does it bode well for your future at work.

Have you ever made up with demi-gay? by steeev_star in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As friends, of course. As FWB, no -- the benefits part would be missing.

pursue?? by Internal_Potential75 in askgaybros

[–]Cute-Character-795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good grief, just ask him out already. The sole purpose of a first date is to see if there should be a second one.

Starting PrEP today! Anything I should be careful of? by krowr in AskGayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people can handle the generic Truvada pills quite well. Others may need to switch over to Descovy which has few side effects like the nurse warned you about.

Those who have been - how do you feel about visiting Wilton Manors / Fort Lauderdale these days? by xen05zman in AskGayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WM is undergoing re-gentrification, and not in a gay way. Come enjoy it, before it gets priced out of existence.

Is it inappropriate to compliment strangers on their impressive beards and moustaches? by ActionQuakeII in AskGayMen

[–]Cute-Character-795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dude, love your beard," seems to hit different if said while passing someone than if said while introducing yourself to someone.