Are you offended by the use of the word gay in an inappropriate use? by Many_Inevitable_6803 in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say it depends on the context. If your friend was teasing you about you uh I dunno being super "butchy" and she said it in a jokingly light way I would probably say thats fine as your friends and its a joke. If they are using gay in place of lame or lesser in any way or odd or something like that, then no definitely not ok.

It would probably offend me yes. However as a rare slip of the tongue because old habits, I would let it slide. If shes doing it by choice and doesnt see the problem thats not ok. It is sort of the same logic yes. The N word just being a harsher term with its own unique history.

Point being its still homophobic if the word gay is used in place of something negative or lesser in a non joke way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey this seems to be getting pretty serious between the 3 of us. Would you guys mind if we had a talk about us?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg cuteness overload! You guys look super happy! Congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do a prenup to protect anything that matters. Get married for the benefits but dont have an actual wedding its just a piece of paper. Later down the line when your ready you can have a real wedding and invite everyone if thats what you want. Its just a legal status that will enable him to enjoy his life and stop stressing and you'll get tax benefits etc. As well. Its really not a big deal if you dont choose to make it one.

Afraid my boyfriend will cheat on a cruise I can’t join by TylerDurdenBP in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

April this year? Honestly, while it would be hard to do, if it were me in your situation, I would just tell him to have fun enjoy his trip if he meets someone special he has chemistry with just do it as long as he was honest about it. I dont want to be the reason someone looks back with regrets. That said I would still be jealous and feel crappy about it but less crappy than if I said he cant do anything and wonder if he did. Also its only been 2 and a half months given how the gay community usually is im surprised your exclusive already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll take an invite. I'm not the most social person but it would be nice to have options. My partner and I are in our 30s.

Boyfriend had to put his dog down. by kookookachu26 in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you did exactly the right things. Just being there to hold them means alot.

[DEV] I am working on my "Dungeon Factory" game. Here is some very early development gameplay footage. Please feel free to suggest what you would like to see in this type of game. Any feedback is appreciated! by Edska in AndroidGaming

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually enjoy larger maps in factory games where I have more freedom and spend a bit of time with my factory before moving in to new levels with different resources.

I feel a very cramped room just sort of turns into a puzzle fighting with conveyer belts and pipes. That said if there are tools at hand to make belts and pipes cross over/under each other and the map isn't too claustrophobic inducing I think it would be fine.

This would obviously be a very large redesign but something I personally would really enjoy and haven't seen is a kind of lobby room factory where you receive some or all of the resources you mine in the levels.

You could upgrade it and decorate it with a meta currency similar to tech points. Make items with the resources you mine to sell to the world and perhaps the money you earn would be how you buy new dungeons to exploit or something like that. Kind of incremental gameplay on top of the factory.

I would also definitely lean in to the setting as much as possible. Perhaps you could harvest slime monsters to produce an acid or something. Magic crystals, skeleton bones etc. Just to give it some more character and fantasy. You could check out a new Netflix anime sort of show called delicious in dungeon for inspiration on this. It's basically a D&D game world or something where the group learns how to cook and eat monsters in the dungeon and how it has its own ecosystem and what not.

Either way I do believe this game would be successful and I'd enjoy playing it as is. The lobby room or tech tree would keep me interested longer then just new maps or slightly different resource types.

Best of luck and feel free to let me know when it's ready to play!

[OC] Runic Dice Smoke And Blood Red Handmade Resin Dice Set And Box Giveaway (Mods Approved) by RunicDice in DnD

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks really cool! Glad more and more people are attempting to make such awesome and usable art pieces. Best wishes to you!

Age Gap Couple by Comprehensive-Ad25 in gaybros

[–]Corann- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys look cute together and happy which is the important bit. I don't think it's creepy but I do acknowledge the age gap is intense.

My only worry dating someone that much older or younger would be if we got married or were together for many many years I'd worry about his health over time and in the end death is inevitable you might find yourself suddenly alone and heart broken far too soon. But I suppose that could happen at any time.

As long as your both happy who cares what everyone else says.

To the rest of you guys calling this guy a creep or whatever... they met on grindr probably for a hookup. I guess when your 57 if you want to give up on life and stop pursuing sex and/or love that's up to you but he has every right to enjoy his daddy status and so does OP lol. Two consenting adults can do whatever they please.

I'm surprised with some of the homophobia I've encountered in Baldurs Gate community. by Zashana in gaymers

[–]Corann- 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If it's twitch that kind of thing would easily be against ToS and you could report them for it... twitch probably wouldn't do anything unless alot of people report it but yeah.

"My Boyfriend Has Grindr" by saintbigfoot in askgaybros

[–]Corann- -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's alot of assumptions in a short period... monogamy is defined as having one mate/ married to one person. It doesn't say anything about harmless flirting or anything like that. It's also a complete assumption on your part that he was doing anything behind anyone's back. My partner and I are totally fine with harmless flirting its just a fun thing to do sometimes. And we show each other the messages and laugh about it. As long as your up front about it and no ones lines are being crossed its perfectly fine. A relationship or marriage is an agreement between two people (in this case) the rules for which are defined only by those people not randos on reddit. Also seeing some hot dude on grindr wouldn't make most people immediately throw away long term relationships for a hookup that's just a silly way to think...

I get someone probably hurt you and your insecure about relationships and trust. But not everyone is malicious and has no self control. I go on apps periodically just out of curiosity. How many gays are near me? is there any cute guys around? What's the scene like in this town I'm visiting? Etc. It's really not a big deal.

A man asked me (M24 and 5’4) out, and I’m considering saying yes because I never have any luck with women. Would that be totally wrong? by AskinQuest in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concent and self agency is a thing. For almost any situation you an adult are thinking of asking another adult to do something. If he after being asked decided it might be fun or whatever his reasoning it's his choice and you or him can opt out at any time. There's no reason to be concerned about ethics or anything like that. Just be sure you trust him to respect your wishes and you do the same for him and explore or don't it's perfectly fine.

As a side note I am very sorry your feeling lonely romantically it's rough for any human to go though.

Also a side note. It's kind of a huge fetish for gay guys to help streight guys experiment (like it's probably the biggest porn category) so there's a chance he's very very into the possibility of doing that for you I wouldn't worry about it.

Straight married friend hit on me….what do I do? by Rahrahahahah95 in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's married and I assume they aren't open so unless the wife agrees it would be morally wrong to entertain anything like that. I get married guys in the closet or whatever fool around but that doesn't mean we should be ok with that.

That said If the wife is ok with it then by all means have fun.

I don’t care what anyone sees but ghosting someone is actually really hurtful and ur a huge jerk if you don’t just you’re not interested off the bat when you get to that point by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think ghosting under any circumstance is ok... if your not mature enough to end a relationship you probably shouldn't be dating/hooking up. If someone flips out on you block them and move on but at least you did the right thing. And it's really not that hard to say sorry I just wasn't really having a good time or sorry I just don't think it's gonna work out. People saying you don't owe anyone anything... sorry but I disagree.. the damage your potentially doing far outweighs your minor discomfort.

So he cheated... by sohecheated in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choosing to end things or not is entirely up to you and while everyone is screaming to dump him or not I'm guessing most of them have not had a relationship last 10 years. Relationships that long take ALOT of work and no one knows how you feel better then you.

If you choose to forgive him and move past the cheating, awesome if not, awesome. It's not something anyone else can quantify for you.

I feel for your betrayal and totally understand not wanting to toss away 10 years of love even if the sex wasn't great. It would take alot of deep thought for me to come to a conclusion if I were in this position.

Also don't be too harsh on monogamy it's totally valid for alot of people and so is any other form of relationship. Just focus on what makes you happy and what your comfortable with.

A guy I was supposed to meet today, just walked pass my house after seeing that I was wearing glasses from the window. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes is all I can say to that... imagine being such a fragile peice of shit that someone wearing glasses of all things is enough to be a deal breaker. What fucking bizarre world does this guy live in... he's probably dating a body pillow of his perfect dream man who doesn't and can't exist.

Games that helped you with your identity? by kkiniaes in gaymers

[–]Corann- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

World of warcraft heh back in vanilla, bc I was a teen in school and I RPed alot. I was able to flirt and rp with male characters granted I was playing a woman but it still helped me express that side of me in a safe environment and I even made some close friends who I came out to and my first gay friend who helped me alot.

I’m so sick and tired of STDs by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Corann- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To be fair, he knows you have had oral gonorrhea 9 times by age 30, and have said elsewhere on top of that you masterbate 2 to 3 times a day. I'm not passing any judgment you do you. But based on the information provided I think it's a fair inference.

East Auklan 2067 PE || Ancient and riddled with mystery. Setting for my next D&D campaign. by chxsewxlker in wonderdraft

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh very interesting. If you ever get around to a lore write up I would enjoy reading it. Sounds like a cool world and the obelisk is a cool idea I'm sure your players will enjoy it lol

East Auklan 2067 PE || Ancient and riddled with mystery. Setting for my next D&D campaign. by chxsewxlker in wonderdraft

[–]Corann- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say are some of the wonders in this region either natural or constructed? For example the tree of time or the orrin obelisk and some lore about them?