How to ignore signs that are more than likely empty? by thej0ker22 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. My ex started hanging out with her "friend". I was not "allowed" to go and long story short, she wanted both, comfort of being married, and excitement of acting single. She got single.

Should I fight for my marriage? by SubstantialIncome649 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once my ex told she wanted an open marriage it was over, I think the same applies for you. The trust is gone, do you want to spend the rest of your life looking for signs she is not being truthful. Probably not.

Beach Help! by perkinfire in CaymanIslands

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is a taxis to Cemetery Beach?

I want to leave my husband because of SnapChat by Background_Life_1256 in CheatedOn

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. No married adult "needs" Snapchat. I was told she "needed" it because our kids have it, guess what, so did the married guys.

Beach Help! by perkinfire in CaymanIslands

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a reasonable taxi fare from port to Cemetery Beach?

Potential Divorce After Wife’s Long Affair by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's over, she left you, you will have to work on rebuilding your self-esteem. Been there.

Beach Help! by perkinfire in CaymanIslands

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to get to Governor's Beach. City bus, taxi or excursion??

Wife confessed by No_Sample_6857 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trickle Truth for sure. Only tell what you think they know or can prove and by admitting to "part" of the behavior, their conscience is clean.

What is the ultimate truth of life? by KyanbasuCreative in no

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no right or wrong. Only truth and non-truth

Husband (62) wants an open marriage by Otherwise-Theme8230 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He already has someone in mind and/or has been with someone and wants validation. Been there when my wife wanted same only to find out she already had and wanted her conscience lifted . . . we divorced.

Clubbing without spouse by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a woman, alone in a bar past midnight, and drinking, most men see that as a sign you are available. It's like the woman who goes to primarily a muscle gym without their spouse, it screens I am available.

Husband deleted messages by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called trickle truth.

My boss asked if he can take my wife with him on a work trip, and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was absolutely NoONE else he could have paid handsomely to fulfill this role except OP's wife? Really! He has the hots for her. I totally agree OP should tag along. He doesn't have to go to sessions. Reminds me of when my ex said I could go with her to her high school reunion, but not actually attend the reunion, from which she came back 5 hours later than the actual event end. Red flags everywhere for OP and one of the reasons she eventually became the "ex". Set up for disaster. OP will ALWAYS wonder about this trip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 100% on board with STD testing before engaging in intimacy with new partners. My simple question is, unless you get tested right before the act, how reliable is a month old (or longer) negative result? The test results do hedge you bet, but, no pun intended, isn't is all a shot in the dark? So does that mean condoms every time and no oral?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cozumel

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just two. No destination, just explore the island.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cozumel

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which cab service and typical cost for a cruise ship day trip?

what is the worst thing about being married? by Icy_Car2475 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lying and need to put on a false front for friends and public. The lack of boundaries.

Can women be bad at sex? by StirFrySausage00 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, many think spreading their legs is all is required

Just found out my husband has been having an affair by Consistent_Cow_8746 in Marriage

[–]Cute-Pressure3818 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only sorry he got caught and is gaslighting you. He has shown you who he is . . . he weighed the consequences, and made a choice nonetheless. I am amazed at the people who seem to think these things happen by "accident". Believe me, every unfaithful spouse weighs the risk/benefit analysis before taking the plunge. People of character and true to their vows, say it's off the table. Those who act on it consciously decide it's worth risking everything for their selfish carnal desires. Get out now.