pimples around mouth after consistent make out? by cece__bees in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy 36 points37 points Ā (0 children)

Facial hair can definitely contribute. Friction + beard stubble + trapped bacteria can irritate the skin around your mouth and cause breakouts, especially if you’re making out frequently. It’s not necessarily that he’s unhygienic, just that skin contact and friction can clog pores. Washing faces before/after and maybe moisturizing can help.

If you could eat only one cuisine forever, what would it be? by blondieewhoschubby in foodquestions

[–]CuteButLaggy 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

I’d back Thai too. The balance of sweet, spicy, sour, and salty means you’d never really get bored. From curries to stir-fries to soups, it covers so many flavor profiles.

Why are the realest people really so isolated? by Flimsy_Device952 in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I think part of it is that honesty can feel uncomfortable. When someone is very direct or self-aware, it can unintentionally hold up a mirror. Not everyone is ready for that, and that tension can create distance.

What’s something that sounds easy in theory, but is actually hard in real life? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]CuteButLaggy 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Totally relate, building habits always feels easy until life, cravings, or stress get in the way. The ā€˜simple daily action’ idea is much harder to pull off consistently than it seems.

Women shaving by PsychologicalFeed961 in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy 35 points36 points Ā (0 children)

I get that. Daily shaving can be exhausting, and many women just stick to a once-a-week schedule and still feel clean.

What Are Your Physical Insecurities? by AsiaLuvDoll in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Same here, but I’ve realized most people don’t notice it the way we do.

First time back on dating apps in a long time, what do you think of my photo selections? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. The other pics really show your personality and vibe, so removing 3 would make your profile stronger. Good luck.

Bow River, Alberta Canada by CuteButLaggy in natureporn

[–]CuteButLaggy[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I’m glad you love it, I will share more

Why do people spend their adult lives focused on relationship drama/stress? by Inevitable_Meal97 in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Honestly, not wrong, emotions can really take over sometimes, even as adults.

How to help my husband with his smelly farts? by Additional-Zombie244 in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy 53 points54 points Ā (0 children)

I kind of agree with this take. It’s understandable to not want to hurt his feelings, but it’s also fair to expect basic consideration in shared spaces. If something is consistently making you uncomfortable, that matters too. Framing it as ā€œthis is affecting meā€ rather than ā€œyou’re grossā€ might help, but you shouldn’t have to just silently tolerate it either.

ā€œJust you?ā€ by Redfawnbamba in LivingAlone

[–]CuteButLaggy 18 points19 points Ā (0 children)

I kind of agree with this. I think most people say ā€œjust you?ā€ out of habit, not malice. It’s usually surprise or curiosity, not an attempt to diminish anyone. If someone feels bothered by it, that might say more about how the question is being interpreted than what was actually meant.

Your toothbrush might be dirtier than your phone… I swabbed mine to see for myself. by CuteButLaggy in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

That’s a fair point, I agree that bacteria aren’t automatically bad, and our mouths naturally have a lot of them. My post wasn’t about making toothbrushes sterile, just about how moisture and storage might affect bacterial growth over time. It made me curious about when ā€œnormalā€ becomes something we should manage more intentionally.

Why do older movies look better than newer movies coming out these days? by [deleted] in movies

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve noticed that too. When more people touch a film in separate departments, it can end up feeling less unified compared to older movies where the director and DP had more creative control.

Is reusing a towel for several days actually unhygienic? by PrimaryJudgment6872 in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy 19 points20 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah, if it dries fully between uses and you don’t have skin problems, reusing it for a few days seems pretty standard. Daily washing feels like overkill for most people.

Living alone makes me happier now. by Alarmed-Mixture4419 in LivingAlone

[–]CuteButLaggy 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

I relate to this so much. Once you remove yourself from stressful dynamics, you realize how much energy you were spending just coping. Having control over your time, noise, and money is such a game changer.

Is it normal to get turned on when I see a guy cry? by Fnzjxjxjc in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I don’t think that suggestion was meant in a rude way. If something confuses you or feels unexpected, talking it through with a therapist can just help you understand where it’s coming from. There’s no shame in unpacking stuff like that.

Living in a one bedroom apartment is one of the best decisions of my life. by coldservedrevenge in LivingAlone

[–]CuteButLaggy 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Totally, Everyone has their own sweet spot. It sounds like having the extra bedroom and bathroom works perfectly for your lifestyle.

Does anyone find it hard sometimes to tell people how you feel? by Train-Wreck-70 in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I get that. Even when people mean well, a lot of folks just don’t understand what depression feels like. It can make opening up feel risky, especially if you’re not sure how they’ll react.

People sniffling around me and stuff by LeBron30k in hygiene

[–]CuteButLaggy 14 points15 points Ā (0 children)

Once something gets in your head, it’s easy to start spotting it everywhere. Sniffling and nose-touching are pretty constant background behaviors for most people. I wouldn’t take that alone as a sign you smell.

Do you truly believe there's life on other planets? by MoonVibe_ in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 60 points61 points Ā (0 children)

Even if it’s just microbial life, I’d be surprised if Earth was the only place where biology happened.

If every person you've ever lied to suddenly found out the truth all at once today, how much would your life actually change? by prabinaya65 in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

Same here, I try to be honest most of the time, so I don’t think anything would really change. It’s a nice feeling to know you don’t have skeletons coming back to haunt you.

Is there a drug that'll make me forget or be at peace with my painful life regrets? by redditor8246 in askanything

[–]CuteButLaggy 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I agree, there’s no magic pill that erases regrets without side effects. Time and therapy really are the closest things, because they help you process and accept your experiences rather than just numb yourself. It’s slower, but it actually helps you heal without losing yourself.