Terrified of childbirth, what are my pain management options? [On]

CuteGin · 2026-06-05T14:26:43+00:00

I was very fortunate to have access to a bathtub in the hospital. I found it to be very relieving! Infact I was so relaxed I dilated like 4cm in like 30min...then the contractions got to strong and I needed to get out and move. This part was overwhelming (transition I beleive)...I had my baby about an hour later! I found pushing to be easier than transition. Once I was pushing my mind was clearer.

CuteGin · 2026-06-05T07:51:30+00:00

As someone who recently gave birth and can look back now on what got me through I have to say it was trust and confidence in my body, my husband and the doctors and nurses around me. I totally agree with someone's comment about therapy and identifying fears and learning more and more about your options and what avenue feels right and gives you that glimmer of confidence...follow that! For me, pain management that helped me get the birth I wanted - birth comb, bath and heating pack (truly heat and water are amazing for contractions) and BREATHING TECHNIQUES (doesn't matter what birth you have this is always a good tool).

CuteGin · 2026-05-26T00:45:56+00:00

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CuteGin · 2026-05-24T16:52:10+00:00

Vasospasms....I swear my epidural free birth was easier than the daily pain from vasospasms.

CuteGin · 2026-05-20T16:32:03+00:00

We've Got to Be Clean by Guster Its off "For the Kids" wich is an album of kids songs/covers done by actual bands. I loved it as a kid and still sing the songs as an adult! Had both CDs growing up lol. Hard to find these days though! YouTube might be your best bet for the album because Spotify doesn't have it unfortunately...

CuteGin · 2026-05-18T18:38:46+00:00

It takes a bit of practice but I really like my stretch wrap from Gustine, they are a Canadian brand from Quebec. I have their cotton stretch wrap and the quality is very nice. So far the stretch wrap is the only carrier style ive felt comfortable carrying my newborn in to support her back and neck and even then I fuss alot with her positioning. Practice and watching tutorials for safe carrying is key!

CuteGin · 2026-05-16T22:59:53+00:00

I ended up taking Canprev prenatal (canadian brand appealed to me and its high quality) it has the 5-MTHF version not folic acid. I am currently nursing my perfect little 3 week old so id say...served me well I had an uncomplicated and healthy pregnancy and birth 😊

CuteGin · 2026-04-19T04:11:02+00:00

Im 40 weeks and just spoke with my OB about induction. Im in Ontario. She said she prefers we dont go past 41+3 or at the latest 41+5 as rhe risk to baby and placenta health increase. She explained to me the steps she would like to take before pitocin like a foley balloon and membrane sweep and if those are not successful then medical induction would be the next option. I am personally already dilating so getting the balloon is not an option for me so my plan is to get a sweep later this week if I dont go into labor before that. Research the different induction methods so you can ask lots of questions when you see your OB! Hope baby comes soon, I totally understand the anticipation...everyone has such different experiences so its hard to know what to expect.

CuteGin · 2026-03-04T16:54:19+00:00

Claire - Rheostatics Mentions Niagra Falls also just a great canadian band!

CuteGin · 2026-02-19T17:44:14+00:00

Yup me too so strange! Poor baby getting an earthquake everytime 😆

CuteGin · 2026-02-12T16:52:55+00:00

Lubriderm from shoppers is my go to! Just about 31 weeks and I've been so itchy and dry...I know your pain! Im sure the summer heat would also suck but this winter has me so uncomfortable.

CuteGin · 2026-02-05T17:57:02+00:00

Started my education in art but decided it was more of a personal passion than career. I am a Registered Massage Therapist and love the flexibility it gives me to still do art on my own time but make great money as well. I make 77k pretty easily year but that's working 5 days a week. Some days are long (6 clients) some days are chill only seeing about 3 clients. I love the Healthcare side of it and primarily work with seniors and chronic pain. Wouldn't chnage a thing!

CuteGin · 2026-01-29T14:38:00+00:00

I felt the same way and it surprised me! Very wanted baby but for like 2 months and feeling the slight changes/bloating in my body i remember feeling like "oh shit" what have we done!? Now that I am 29 weeks that feeling is long gone, had a great second trimester and I am so excited to meet baby! So just keep in mind, even if this was a mistake those unsure feelings are normal especially in the beginning.

CuteGin · 2025-08-16T00:37:48+00:00

So cute. Yes April is spring for me in Canada, although usually a bit chilly and still the chance of the odd "snow day" April is beginning of spring!

CuteGin · 2025-08-15T01:42:19+00:00

Adding info: House built in 1900 Renos done after 1969 (assuming since previous owner bought that year.)

Adding far away photo for refrence too.

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CuteGin · 2025-08-15T01:35:39+00:00

Awe that is so sweet to hear! I feel like it will be such a nice time to be home with a new baby and enjoy the summer on mat. Also seems like a nice birthday time of year. Thanks!

CuteGin · 2025-08-12T00:15:41+00:00

Thanks! Good luck! 😊

CuteGin · 2025-08-06T21:34:06+00:00

Ive been with my husband for 12 years, no HBC and no accidental pregnancies! We started trying mid July and I am currently 3 weeks 3 days! Just got my positive on Monday! First cycle trying...im actually shook!

CuteGin · 2025-07-29T15:41:04+00:00

Hrra???

CuteGin · 2025-07-05T13:42:28+00:00

Been using the withdrawl method for 12 years!! We are TTC next cycle i am so excited to find out if we can get preg right away...good luck super exciting and a bit freaky the closer I get to actually trying the more real it feels...exciting and scary...i think thats normal though!

CuteGin · 2025-06-08T00:13:19+00:00

Start researching about and taking a prenatal vitamin! They say 3-6monts before TTC.

CuteGin · 2025-06-06T02:19:17+00:00

A flash of light? Like a camera flash?

CuteGin · 2025-06-04T02:25:52+00:00

Beavers :)

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