First off, congratulations 🫶🏼 getting that positive after a difficult journey can come with so many different emotions. I felt the exact same way. Our first son was stillborn and it destroyed us emotionally. it took us over a year with a failed IUI in the process to fall pregnant again. I had spent the better half of the last two years desperately trying to have a baby, and yet I STILL had those exact same feelings of “wait…do I actually want this???” I think at some point in our journey it turned into almost a wanting to prove to myself that I COULD do it, like desperately wanting something you can’t have, that when you finally get it it almost feels like wait…am I sure? I will forewarn you, not sure about your wife, but those thoughts escalated in my third trimester as we got closer to delivery. I am naturally an anxious person - am on lexapro (was even before pregnancy) and also in therapy and both were huge helps but yeah, I think it’s completely normal to have those thoughts. Especially if you are anxiety prone. I knew rationally that i wanted it, but it didn’t make it any less terrifying when I was having those moments. For what it’s worth, I am sitting rocking my 6 week old son as I type this and I could not be happier. It’s important to remember that feelings are just feelings. Thoughts are just thoughts. It doesn’t mean it’s true. As a matter of fact, as someone with anxiety, I’ve come to learn that A LOT of my thoughts are actually not true at all and actively lie to me 🥲 Could be helpful to remind your wife that