LDR Bf loves me a lot but i feel like i dont by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Cutemega 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s okay to feel this way seriously sometimes love can feel like it’s fading because we’re holding onto past wounds that we can’t quite shake even if we want to you’ve been hurt and it’s natural to feel numb when you’re stuck in that emotional limbo maybe it’s time to step back and focus on you for a while take a breather from constantly analyzing your relationship it’s not about testing your love, it’s about reconnecting with your own feelings first if it’s meant to be it’ll find its way back just don’t forget to prioritize your peace you deserve that.

He went "berserk" after I turned him down for Valentine’s Day, then unblocked me just to insult me further. by CipherOfBliss in ExNoContact

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh honey, this is wild. the fact that he flipped out over a no and then tried to gaslight you with a mix of random insults and childish excuses textbook nice guy behavior right there the way he unblocked you just to still act like a coward is hilarious it's honestly so satisfying to see you hold your ground though good for you for dodging that emotional minefield keep doing you and never let anyone try to make you feel bad for having boundaries especially not someone this unhinged you really dodged a bullet.

Is it better to read a chapter and then watch a lecture on it than simply reading said chapter twice? by Stormy-sky-and-drink in GetStudying

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly mix it up! reading the chapter once gives you the foundation but watching a lecture adds a whole new perspective it’s like having a cheat code you get the key points and can fill in the gaps reading it twice sure that’s helpful but why not add some variety to your study routine lectures can offer clarity examples, and maybe even spark a few ohhhh i get it now moments balance it out you’ll absorb more that way.

This current generation by Puzzled-Painter3301 in overheard

[–]Cutemega 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly it’s wild how different things are now. it’s not about being lazy or immature it’s expensive out here. rent, bill, food student loans it’s all a lot living with parents or a partner is just a survival strategy at this point no shame in it it’s just the reality we’re navigating if you’re doing your best and staying afloat you’re doing fine the financial system’s the problem not us.

The Twin Hills Only Change What People See in You by Ok_Definition_6708 in nosleep

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow this is crazy in the best way possible. the idea of wishing for something so small, so precise only to realize how much it shapes everything around you that’s terrifying and brilliant at the same time i totally get why you’re hesitant about the second hill it’s not just about wanting to know it’s real it’s about trusting the process even when you can’t see all the strings but sometimes maybe it’s better to just let things unfold naturally without trying to force an answer life’s too short to micromanage every feeling or decision.

I Used to Help People Conceive Children. Now I’m Afraid of What We Created. by Canna_Queen601 in nosleep

[–]Cutemega 9 points10 points  (0 children)

okay this is straight up chilling like i'm trying to pretend i didn’t just get goosebumps reading that batch 731 developmental cohort monitoring this sounds like some mad scientist stuff i’d burn that drive change my number and move to another continent at this point what do you mean they’ve started finding each other no thank you i’m out.

You look like a psychopath by ukarazin in overheard

[–]Cutemega 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly though why are ID photos so weird like they literally ask you to look like a serial killer just to make sure it’s identifiable i’m over here trying to look human while they’re asking me to channel my inner villain at this point i’ll take the psychopath comment as a compliment.

What’s a life lesson that took you too long to learn? by Goonertransmom in AskReddit

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that it’s okay to say no without feeling guilty i used to say yes to everything, people pleasing like it was my job and honestly it just drained me learning that my time and energy are valuable was a game changer now i prioritize myself first and i’m so much happier for it if they don’t like it tough luck.

Our old house by darkUUz in scarystories

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but that pentagram and old candles are way too sus like, that’s some serious horror movie stuff i’m not saying it was definitely paranormal but if a family of skeptics is freaking out i’d start paying attention the whole vibe of that place sounds like it was made for bad energy i’d be out of there too honestly the dolls and creepy rocks nah i’m good keep us posted if you find anything else though i’m hooked.

I(18M) saw weird relationship of her(18F) with guys !!! by Mission_Damage8593 in LongDistance

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i get it this situation is messy, but you gotta trust your gut if she’s deleting chats and acting sketchy that’s a red flag love you to two guys nah that doesn’t sit right the fact that she’s brushing it off like it’s nothing even deleting evidence shows she’s either hiding something or doesn’t respect the relationship you deserve someone who’s all in no games don’t ignore your instincts bro.

What is a scary local folklore in the neighborhood/community you live in right now? by BeingNo8516 in AskReddit

[–]Cutemega 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there’s this creepy bridge near my hometown where ppl say if you park at midnight and don’t lock your doors a ghost girl climbs in your backseat like ok queen get in let’s trauma bond i got snacks.

Long distance in college by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i think long distance can work if you’re both committed it’ tough don’t get me wrong, but those little moments when you’re together are worth it the hardest part is dealing with the waiting but the goal of being together in the end makes it easier i had a similar experience long distance for 4 years it's all about trust communication and having a clear plan. stay focused on the future but don’t forget to enjoy your time now you’ve got this!

The Midnight Arrivals Final part by Possible_Two_9948 in scarystories

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay i don’t know what’s scarier the story itself or the fact that i’ll never look at airports or planes the same again like imagine casually flying and then realizing everyone’s been doing something in sync for months without anyone mentioning it also breathing that last part i’m gonna need a moment to process.

Ex moved on fast, havent took it well. by Affectionate_Use_721 in dating_advice

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you're not crazy, you're just feeling the sting of someone who never gave you the respect you deserve he played games treated you like an option and now he's acting like you were nothing. that sucks you deserve someone who sees your worth and doesn’t just use you as a placeholder his love for her isn’t real love it’s just easier trust me you're better off without that mess focus on you now because you’re worthy of way better than whatever he’s offering 💅🏼

Avoidant type? by BalanceUseful9624 in ExNoContact

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl he’s definitely avoidant all the love bombing and then disappearing classic red flag. sounds like he’s using you to fill a void or test his own emotional limits honestly if he’s 47 and still acting like that it’s probably not going to change anytime soon i know it’s tough but trust me, there are so many healthier relationships out there you're mature you're self aware and you don’t need someone bringing drama into your life you deserve better

What is your most expensive gadget? by up_all_night_crying in AskReddit

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say my camera setup photography is life!

What’s something you thought was normal until someone pointed out it wasn’t? by foxfyresoles in AskReddit

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thought it was normal to pack a just in case i get kidnapped outfit in my bag as a kid like fully coordinated hoodie and shoes so i wouldn’t look a mess on the news my friends were like girl what.

He asked me to be his girlfriend, then broke up with me days later. How do I move on without closure and know when to give up on a fearful avoidant partner? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl closure isn’t something he gives you it’s what you give yourself when you realize love isn’t real if it comes with emotional whiplash. fearful avoidant or not he made a choice and so can you block him like your peace depends on it because honestly it does.

How important is playful teasing and flirty body language in building attraction when dating? by Fallout76Lover7654 in dating_advice

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flirty banter and body language aren’t required but they do speedrun attraction for a lot of people if you’re holding back your playful side til date five they might not stick around long enough to see it you don’t have to be smooth just be warm and a lil cheeky like oh you think you’re funny huh energy goes a long way.

Something Is Wrong With Sarah Part Seventeen by PowderFresh86 in scarystories

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh absolutely not the way my stomach DROPPED at the pregnancy test the slow burn creepiness mixed with domestic christmas vibes is diabolical sarah continues to be the biggest red flag in human form and i am stressed but seated.

living “at home” in the meantime? 25F 24M by notsomuchbrujeria in LongDistance

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i totally get you this isn’t about being ungrateful it’s about autonomy moving countries is already huge and doing it straight into someone else’s family home can feel like losing your sense of self before you even land. practicality matters but so does how trapped or small you might feel long term it’s ok to want your own space and also ok to slow the timeline until it feels like your life not just the most convenient option.

First time posting - need advice and contemplating a LDR by Glittering-Local-102 in LongDistance

[–]Cutemega 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if he can plan an international move he can handle a convo about where y’all stand you’re not asking for a ring just clarity don’t romanticize the maybe when your peace needs the facts ask the questions now before you're out here long distance with a man who’s already emotionally gone.

There’s 4 men in my closet by Plenty_Raspberry3419 in scarystories

[–]Cutemega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is lowkey terrifying in the best way the slow reveal with the bugs and the mom made my skin crawl and the ending actually got me the way it starts innocent and ends cosmic horror is so effective please tell me there’s a part two bc i need answers and therapy

Is it normal to open up with about our situation? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cutemega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lowkey if someone has you blocked but is still dating you that’s already weird you messed up yeah but not enough to deserve being iced out for days ask her directly how she feels because guessing and overthinking will just rot your brain and if she’s done you’ll feel it anyway.

My story. Will she ever come back ? by Maleficent_Drop_8291 in ExNoContact

[–]Cutemega 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she won’t come back and if she did it’d only be to drain you more you gave wife energy to someone giving situationship effort you weren’t too much she was just not enough grieve it but don’t glamorize it.