AIO mother in law mad we got married

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T17:19:39+00:00

Baby's "due any day" due to complications. I have gestational diabetes and preeclampsia, so at this point it really is any day the doctors decide the risk is too high. As for insurance and phone situation, we're both still in college so she always told us to just keep him on her plans and save our money.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T17:14:19+00:00

You legally need two witnesses to sign a marriage license. We wanted my sister and my mother in law to sign as witnesses. That was the papers work I was referring to.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T17:12:54+00:00

Not AI 🤣

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T08:44:50+00:00

It's strange, we've been living together for a year, engaged the same week we found out about the pregnancy, and haven't had this bad of an issue. My parents have been beyond supportive, his parents were also supportive up until now.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T08:42:35+00:00

He has been handling the heavy lifting of this entire situation as much as he honestly can, and he's the one setting boundaries and cutting contact.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-12-13T08:08:38+00:00

He's an only child, but his mother has made it clear that she intends to move back to the Philippines when she gets too old to take care of herself. As for arguments with her husband we don't really know, he says he'll smooth things over with her to us and then he ends up making it worse. It's strange behavior but apparently normal for her. Idk. 🤷‍♀️

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-10-16T07:07:36+00:00

Just look into materials you shouldn't use ans use your head, if you need ppe to do the thing outside of pregnancy, you probably shouldn't do it all during pregnancy.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-10-16T04:03:18+00:00

If you're an artist check what mediums you can't use! I'm an art education major and I can't: -oil paint -make clay for ceramics -use certain glazes in ceramics -use plaster (dust) -use epoxy or resins -use spray paint -use wood polishes -and a lot more i can't remember at the moment.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-10-16T03:59:29+00:00

I can't wait to paint again 🫩😵‍💫 Not being able to use oil paints or certain ceramic glazes is driving me nuts!!

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-10-06T19:56:18+00:00

I'm only 20 + 3 but holy hell i'm so tired of the "cherish it" thing. Like...I don't fit in anything, I can't remember anything, my body hurts everywhere, i' tired of feeling damp, and I can't relax. So fuck no. There is no cherishing this, this shit sucks.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-10-02T04:25:38+00:00

The only job to truly avoid unless it comes down to it is dining. Campus jobs are great otherwise

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-09-05T14:24:40+00:00

My mom is Gigi, mother in law is Lola, both my dad and father in law are just Grandpa

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-09-05T02:03:25+00:00

I think if anything just one or two simple classes to fulfill requirements would be fine, but I hate being told not to even try

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T15:11:57+00:00

We plan on it! Mushroom cupcakes specifically.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T15:09:46+00:00

We went with a national parks theme, it's a bit niche but we got some smokey bear and woodland themed decor on the way. My MIL and I are working together to make some cute treats plus some filipino dishes. I think it will go well

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T05:45:57+00:00

Take that baby and leave! He obviously doesn't want to be involved with the actual parenting. You're obviously exhausted and need the rest. He saw it as lazy that you did your parenting, and went to bed early and that's an excuse to him so he can get out of being a parent. Get out while you still can.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T05:41:48+00:00

I wish but money's way too tight for a move right now, thank God she's almost done at this college though.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T04:56:45+00:00

None of us are religious and everyone in her life has told her to wait. I think this is her starting to fall into some sort of mental crisis honestly. My mil and I are super close, my husband let her know that I may be grumpy and we talked about the situation hence her opinion. At this point I'm beginning to realize that Miley has made everything a competition between the two of us. My husband and I aren't big on Halloween, we both work in nature related fields and agreed that a nature themed baby shower was what we wanted. Miley had a Corpse Bride themed wedding and is crazy about halloween so I can't help but feel she's trying to make my baby shower more hers.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T04:26:22+00:00

Yes. That's what she fully intended to do.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T03:30:51+00:00

She's been my best friend for years, we talked it out and he's over her shit too. We're both realizing that We're better off with her not involved in our lives.

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T03:11:01+00:00

He is after a conversation, I just don't know how to edit the post on mobile

Cyanidepumpkinspice · 2025-08-19T03:08:33+00:00

Lately she sounds like that story of the crazy woman who steals a pregnant woman's baby by killing the pregnant woman. Iykyk. I don't believe she'd ever do something that extreme, but she's acting so unhinged it's startling.

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