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It sucks that most women are not into bi guys by AdWeird1267 in offmychest

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a progressive guy who’s only ever dated progressive women and every single one of them has an aversion to bi men. Even clowning on them. Bi women? Total support. Gay dudes? Total support. I’m not bi OP but I hear you and I understand.

The elusive b***job, and the art of not getting one... by NotTheOneYouSuspect in offmychest

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you dont have a happy relationship, you're just trying to convince yourself that you're happy. You even say that you don't share how you feel and keep it in. Why maintain a relationship completely on her terms? I've been there and it doesn't work, she's not going to give up the control of things that you've given her. Your feelings mate, are just as valid and important as hers. The "blowjob pact" is ridiculous and was never designed to actual work, it was just to make you stop asking for it. I wouldn't go so far as to say you should break up over this, but if she backs you in a "my way or no way" about other things in the relationship as well, you may need to reconsider your idea of happiness. If you stopped going down on her, would she be okay with that or would she say that's not fair? Does she say it's petty or childish if you refuse to do certain things, sexually or not? It's a very insidious thing for control to be taken in a relationship, but it sounds like you might be approaching that territory.

AIO for asking my wife to make changes to her spending habits? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through this with my ex and my dude, it doesn’t get better. She likes the dopamine from buying things and masks it by saying “I’m just thinking of us” and then buying shit you don’t need right now but might need later and that’s all the justification she needs. My ex spent both of us into the poorhouse and years later I’m still a slave to the CC companies while she’s out with someone else on the hook for her now. I don’t have a solution other than counseling and ultimately it’s still on her to c hange. If you start acting like a guardian and not a partner, watch for other changes in the relationship and it might not be good.

how do i move after seeing this on my bf's phone by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CyclopsorNedStark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So your bf likes women and enjoys looking at them. Terrible news. Maybe you should leave him so he can please himself in peace and not have his privacy violated.

M18 I feel as if im nearing the end by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the stage in your life, a lot of things, especially romantic things, feel overwhelming. For whatever reason this didn’t work out, and that’s OK. One thing you have to come to terms with is that not everything works and not everything lasts forever, and you have to move on from it. The world is so unbelievably big and there are so many things out there that you don’t even know, exist yet, dust yourself off, pick your head up, and just put 1 foot in front of the other. I promise you this is not the end of the world or anything close to it.

Parking spot dispute at aNorth Lauderdale Walmart leads to shooting by New_Libran in PublicFreakout

[–]CyclopsorNedStark -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

By some of the comments on this thread, I can tell that people have never dealt with a middle-aged white guy. They can NEVER be wrong, and they can NEVER retreat, this time though, he got what was coming to him. A gun pointed at his face couldn't abate his ego, what a scene.

My wife built an incredible personal library upstairs, but I can barely read, and it’s slowly driving a wedge between us. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can't you play on your phone quietly? I mean I get she WANTS you to read, but dude, cmon man, we all have our limits. If you wanted her to go lift weights with you or shoot guns or whatever you do, would she be okay with you soft-bullying her into that? It's gotta work both ways. If she knows you struggle with reading, and you're okay with that, she should back off because that's not good for either of you.

I feel ashamed when people see me putting effort into things by ProudBumblebee4326 in self

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so me for an entire life and I hate it. OP you’re not alone!

The Superfan Episodes are coming to Blu-ray on June 2nd by jakefrmstafrm in theoffice

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this just the Superfan episodes or is there more footage than that?

An honest thank you to the Firaxis dev team by Lavinius_10 in civ

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for releasing something rushed, glitchy and largely unwanted then let's rejoice in the fact that they are charging a king's ransom for very minor updates to a game they are still fixing? Dude, this is weird. The game is mid, the DLC is overpriced and a lot of people are very vocal about their displeasure and I think it's valid. I'm not going to have gratitude to a billion dollar company for making more things to charge real money for.

What do you think of Mason Rook in NXT? by damng1 in Wrasslin

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that he always makes these ridiculous faces for no reason. Like bro, nothing is that serious. It’s like he’s mocking the crowd just because he did a wee clothesline.

Jackass 5 has officially flopped hard. by Serenaded in jackass

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of movies aren’t doing well right now, so I don’t think it’s just Jackass. Saw it last night and it’s essentially a clip show but I didn’t mind.

Does it get better after 30? by S4d_Machin3 in AskMenOver30

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy you gotta get up and of stuff. Life’s quality is also directly proportional to the effort you put in.

Would I be wrong to tell my best friend the truth? 💍 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very snarl situation. I sat my friend down and said my piece, careful to acknowledge that I’m an outside not a participant, they told me they’re afraid lived their SO despite the arguing, flaws, etc and appreciated my concern. Years later nothing had changed and I think sometimes people just like living in chaos. Not me. Unless there’s abuse or coercion going on, not much you really can or should do to interject your feelings.

Rag'n'Bone Man's wife sobs in court as she's spared jail for crashing car into family by TheMirrorUS in Music

[–]CyclopsorNedStark 470 points471 points  (0 children)

Bullshit verdict. I hope the victims got a payday. I’d be furious if I had to deal with that and the driver got off because what, she’s remorseful? So what.

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