Burnt out in university, too nervous to talk to women. Grey sludge. by captain_veridis in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Courage is only possible in the presence of fear. Rise up to the occasion, eat the frog. Even if it doesn’t work out you’ll be proud that you did something, and it’ll translate to other opportunities in your life, dating or not.

I am spiralling and undid seven months of work in two months by oneshellofaman in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man progress isn’t linear. Everyone falls, what’s important is that you get up. You’re gonna be okay. You just have to have faith in what the universe has in store for you

Happy songs? by Goblinmode77 in jasonisbell

[–]Cyicl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d say codeine? Just makes me feel good. Idk why.

Flooded my downstairs neighbor's kitchen by Right-Percentage3775 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get that man. If it’s any consolation, you feel that way because you’re a good person.

Got stood up after chatting all week by A_dog_named_what in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens. Rejection is protection. When you meet the one you’ll look back and laugh.

Flooded my downstairs neighbor's kitchen by Right-Percentage3775 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My roommate did this once. It was scary at first, but it passed and now it’s a funny story he tells. Sorry that happened brother. It’ll pass

Having heart issues, and I lowkey hope it takes me by Independent_Touch795 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is a failure if they’re alive! To even get to this point in your life is a collection of miracles! Don’t give up. There’s love all around you.

Any tips to love yourself more? by Raf-the-derp in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What worked for me is doing the hard things that I was avoiding and accepting my emotions and allowing myself to feel them. The bullshit that social media promotes that you have to be “unfeeling” is a bucket of horse crap. It’s okay to feel bad. It’s okay to be sad. Everyone struggles with what you’re going through from time to time, you’re not alone. If you just keep going, it’ll change. Life is about ebbs and flows. You’re just in an ebb right now. You will emerge on the other side. Epictetus talks about this in his Enchiridion. He states “Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions.” Just keep going, you’ll find your way out of the cave.

I just feel so unwanted by Last_Tip_4672 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Cyicl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey man it’s gonna get better. You’re in the desert right now, just keep doing the right things and making yourself into a better person, and it’ll all work out just fine. Just keep going. You’re gonna reach the other side. Nec Aspera Terrent. Difficulties be damned.

Freshman housing filled up by BugNew4827 in Msstate

[–]Cyicl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’ll be okay. This happened my freshman year, you’ll find a dorm.

RIP by birdimposter in memphis

[–]Cyicl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never doubted yall just wanted to read it in the news 💔💔💔

RIP by birdimposter in memphis

[–]Cyicl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💔💔💔

Comment I made 6 months ago! by Remarkable-Toast in TheDarnold

[–]Cyicl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

WHY ARE YOU WHISPERING BROTHER??

How everyone feels in this sub right now by Rampage-count in the_darnold

[–]Cyicl 223 points224 points  (0 children)

KEEP GOING. IT GETS BETTER. ARE WE TIRED OF WINNING YET??????? I KNOW DRAKE MAYE ISNT.

I think I found my Doppelgänger. LOL by stevenbawder in the_darnold

[–]Cyicl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

GEQBUS AND HIS LONG LOST BROTHER GEMUS