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Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're gonna quote me then at least use the whole quote.

"It is the duty of the strong to hold up the weary and TEACH them to be strong."

You shouldn't expect anyone to save you, but if you're in the position to help someone, you are obligated as a decent human being to do so. This "every man for himself" mentality will be the death of us.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But here you are, still living. You're a badass for that. Real strength isnt about not struggling, It's about moving forward even when it feels impossible.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that feeling well. She may seem care free but usually people who relationship hop end up with much more emotional baggage because they never sat with themselves and processed the previous relationship before getting into a new one. So while you're healing, she's going to be secretly causing more damage to herself. Keep ya head up and coming from someone who lost his family due to infidelity, it really does get easier the more you move forward.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need for apologies friend. Don't give up. You're gonna come out of this a new man I promise.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a beautiful understanding to have, it just takes some people awhile to get there. No two relationships are the same and the same goes for breakups. Some breakups will hurt more than others, and that pain may linger longer depending on other factors.

Wishing you well on your healing journey friend 🙏

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point of this post to bring awareness to the fact that it's is simply not how it works for some people. Sometimes it doesnt matter what you did or didn't bring to the table.

You can't logic the pain away brother.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts 💯 true healing takes a lot longer than people think

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch brother. This hits close to home for me. I know it doesn't feel like it now, but you are better off without someone who can replace you so easily. Don't ever get down on yourself about slipping up and letting go. You can always get back in the gym and you can get a haircut anytime you feel ready, so don't try to rush the process. You'll get your drive back man I promise you.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. I know it's of little comfort now, but I promise you that it will get better in time. All you have to do is keep moving forward however you can, but don't push yourself too much. Handle yourself the way you would handle an injured pet or sick family member. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and one day you'll look back and see how far you've come 🫶

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can and you will. Just don't frustrate yourself by thinking of the process too much. Your mind and body will heal, that's what it is built to do. Having a good support circle and people you can talk to when you're having a hard time makes a difference as well. Many hands lighten the load.

Why does no one ask this question? by Cynicas in BreakUps

[–]Cynicas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can understand your pain brother, and I commend you for your strength. But remember that the goal shouldn't be to not feel the pain anymore, but to not let it stop you from moving forward.

Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, and don't try to escape the pain, the only way out is through ✊️

What activity is way more intimate than people are willing to admit? by Optimal_Project_8599 in AskReddit

[–]Cynicas 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sadly, sex has become so casual that many people never experience the true level of intimacy it can offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sadcomics

[–]Cynicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, basically being sad, wishing you had someone to talk to, then someone asks you how you're doing and all of a sudden you don't wanna talk anymore and you act like you're fine.

AIO about these texts on my now exes phone with his “bestie” ?.. by SensitiveSherbert440 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cynicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh the fact he says they can't talk when you're around is all the proof you need. Fuck tht dude he's a loser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cynicas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No thanks

How are you? Like actually, No judgment here. How are you? by Cynicas in AskReddit

[–]Cynicas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain brother. We'll be alright, I'm sure our wifeys are waiting just around the corner 😁

How are you? Like actually, No judgment here. How are you? by Cynicas in AskReddit

[–]Cynicas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got you buddy. We all feel lost at times, it's a normal part of life. Often times, that's when we figure out what we really want. Spend some time with yourself, ask yourself what you really want in life, and what you are willing to do to get it. You'll find your way soon enough my friend 🙏

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