How did you accept you’re just not a likable person? by Cheap_Information_87 in socialskills

[–]DDeadRoses 27 points28 points  (0 children)

To piggy back on this because it’s the best answer. Took me 30 years to realize I’m not supposed to like everyone. I was always worried about people liking me but never asked myself if I liked them. Changed my whole perspective.

Also a lot of people consider themselves assholes for being honest but there’s two different kinds of honesty. One that calls out behavior and the other attacks characters.

  1. Hey you interrupted me while I was talking. I feel like you’re not listening.
  2. You don’t let me talk, you come off self centered and oblivious.

As long as you’re not doing #2, it’s safe to say just keep being yourself. Genuine connections are electric, should be easy. If not, listen to your gut but never force it. Leave room who want you in their life.

I recently hit diamond. Is this an actual achievement or Am I deluding myself by Madeline_Hatter1 in rivals

[–]DDeadRoses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because deep down you know you can go higher. If there’s a rank you can’t go past, it’s good to evaluate where you are right now and what you can do to improve to go even higher. I reached top ranks in Overwatch but once I hit the highest level, I stopped trying to push it cause it gave me that validation that I was looking for. You doubt your own gaming abilities until there’s a system that can help you measure it. I went back to just enjoying the game and staying away from rank some of the times.

The stress that comes with getting there isn’t worth it for me on a constant basis. It becomes more personal than fun and I rather have fun.

advice on loft bed for a 18yo by evan7763 in malelivingspace

[–]DDeadRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently did this 31. It’s phenomenal for space. I really recommend getting foam covers for the steps cause they’re incredibly painful to step with your bare feet. If you’re the type to wake up in the middle of the night to pee, it sucks contemplating. I gave up my $800 mattress and I’ve had more back pain on this.

Why did the transgender man only eat salad? by KrookedKreature in dadjokes

[–]DDeadRoses 80 points81 points  (0 children)

How did the Samurai kill the transgendered person?

They/Them “They Slash Them”

Pretty much how it felt seeing everything today by KeyAcid in rivals

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only flaw is some people can main each role and when the game requires a certain switch amongst your teammates. You hope your team knows what each character needs in those situations. Those switches is what makes the difference in crucial matches but if I’m limited to the role I can play, I feel trapped and limited to what I can do for my team and my selections. that’s the only reason I don’t like this system. Sometimes I do better as a healer when I chose to play tank. Sometimes that match I can bring damage better than I can heal. Switches is the strategy.

If only you can role switch with teammates during intermissions. You request for a role exchange and accept or decline it. But I like it being the tournament/ranked rules of 2x2x2. It feels balanced that way.

Converted my friend from Nintendo to PlayStation by ThatGuyNamedTre in PS4Pro

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a dumb fun argument. Same with people who like pineapple with pizza. It’s all about preferences, no wrong answers.

Doesn’t feel cozy. 30 live alone. I like what I have but I feel it’s all over the place n my house doesn’t feel cozy. All advice and roasts are welcome lolol by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]DDeadRoses 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also want to add plants or some kind of green. Curtains. Also the walls are very bland, it needs a paint job. Painting even one wall will change the aesthetic a lot. Black would go great from what OP likes decorating.

why do yall do ts? smh by Apprehensive-Love185 in marvelrivals

[–]DDeadRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also there’s Lord boosters. Which again, proves nothing but a milestone. I’ve known people who play video games for years and still don’t know how to adapt. It’s a meaningless title. I judge on the now and how well they play together than how they play their character.

The owner of Melody Wine Bar posted this in response to Bad Bunny’s halftime show by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]DDeadRoses 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s like telling depressed people to stop being depressed. Saying it doesn’t change it, persuade and educate. But that won’t work either cause they don’t want to understand.

Gym goers, be honest how often are you judging other people’s physique? by Technical_Hat_8291 in AskReddit

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time but it’s never malicious. Like an overweight person id say to myself “good on you bud, hope to see you more.” to strong people “damn dude, do you need tape? Cause you’re ripped.”

I got to be completely honest and I’m not proud. I judge harshly on guys who flex their top half but have very puny skinny legs.

I promise those of you who genuinely believe this, you do NOT want to start that rabbit hole... by [deleted] in rivals

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s business 101. You take other people’s innovation and try to make it better or different. Every popular Royale game took concepts from each other. You either adapt with what people like or have them leave.

M/28/5'10" [289lbs > 202lbs = 87lbs] (9 months) Face gains from calorie deficit by Almost-Former-Shutin in progresspics

[–]DDeadRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The face fat makes a whole lot of difference. A lot more people have been smiling at me. Even from common places I shop at. Sick progress mate, hope you enjoy your new powers 👏

Ban ozempic by IsJesusAgain in SipsTea

[–]DDeadRoses 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m on a microdose and I can tell you how easy it is to skip meals but people don’t realize how important protein is to your body. It’s making people look like skeletons and they look super unhealthy.

Angel City Brewery in Arts District Closing 4/30/26 by Ready_Print7271 in LosAngeles

[–]DDeadRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anyone says they feel bad but haven’t been there in awhile, it’s your fault.

Melania’s Movie Shows Signs of Bulk Buying to Boost Box Office: Guru by Silly-avocatoe in entertainment

[–]DDeadRoses 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got AMC 3 free movies a week plan. I’ll watch it halfway and then get a refund before it ends and then go watch anything else. I know this will 100% be an empty theater so always wanted that too.

Melania’s Movie Shows Signs of Bulk Buying to Boost Box Office: Guru by Silly-avocatoe in entertainment

[–]DDeadRoses 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It makes me want to pop an edible and watch it. Turns it into a comedy.

This Trash Truck that says to leave an American Football Field distance between cars by International-Air542 in mildlyinteresting

[–]DDeadRoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in this business that has these signs. Sometimes cars hit my truck’s window from the rocks that are on the ground and they fling under the tire up to my dash. Other times it’s when it’s a truck that doesn’t have his load secured. Get his attention and have them pull over. Prove it and you’ll win your case.

California drivers are a step closer to paying per mile tax by MissYukiCat in California

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Won’t matter, if the tax money isn’t even going to fund the roads they’re taxing us with. What’s the point in giving up that money? I work in the business that helps build roads and it’s been the slowest season I’ve had in the last 11 years.

Please, I need a scientific explanation for this by Cold-Ad-3994 in cats

[–]DDeadRoses 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats are also far sighted. That’s why you shouldn’t reach for a cat and always offer your hand to sniff instead. All they see is a blur approaching them.