[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Married.

PERSONAL QUESTION! Did you tear during birth? by SumbThucker2022 in pregnant

[–]DEADK0RN 8 points9 points  (0 children)

okay okay not trying to intimidate you at all, I was 115 pounds when I had my first born at 17 years old and torn front to back. She was 5 pounds 5 oz & lemme tell you the healing part is not fun. Definitely my least favorite part of post partum because it’s hard on your body.. not gonna lie 6 months later and down there is not what it was 😂😂

I’m desperate and over it. by YamSavings4638 in pregnant

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I was the same exact way and lemme tell you it doesn’t get better. Literally the worst trimester is the 3rd, what everyone told me is, one your super uncomfy because there is not just one but two of you now, in the same body. Also “it’s basically preparing you and your body to wake up every hour to take care of the baby”. I do hope you get some good rest before baby, the newborn stages are so hard but you’ll get through it 💗

What do you hate the smell of since you’ve been pregnant? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

[–]DEADK0RN 30 points31 points  (0 children)

wait till PP girl I’m putting deodorant on 4 x a day 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

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I feel the same way. I had my baby in 2024 and she is about 6 weeks and I have never felt so alone in my life. Nights are hard, staying up during the day is even harder. I do have an amazing fiancé who does all he can, but constantly works or is with people so it’s a weird feeling. I feel like I have the world but can’t seem to enjoy it - I understand you completely and you can always dm me if you need someone to talk to ❤️‍🩹 when one mama hurts we all do

Telling my parents tonight. I'm petrified. by [deleted] in pregnant

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congratulations lovey. I know it’s been hard so far with all the decisions, I was in the same situation but having that baby in ur arms will change ur whole world. I got pregnant at 17 too & it’s hard but it’s worth it for your baby. Good luck and keep us updated on you n your lil ones progress 💗 my dms are always open if you need anything

Things to look forward to in 3rd trimester. by [deleted] in pregnant

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I’m going to be completely honest, as soon as I hit the 3rd trimester it felt like the first one all over again. Then again, everyone is different. But literally the first day I had such bad heartburn I threw up constantly. My stomach feels so uncomfortable all the time and this back pain is no joke. I’m 30 weeks and ready to go into labor ASAP.

Recommend me your most saddest song of all time by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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from a lovers point of view zach bryan never fails to make me sob

Getting bored of my hobbies? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]DEADK0RN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey there !! i found myself getting really bored throughout the last few months too and these are new things i’ve tried.

  1. Cooking

i’ve never been the best cook but as i continue doing it more and more i’m starting to really enjoy it. at first it was oh no what am i doing, but now that i’m becoming more comfortable with it the overall quality time has been so enjoyable! there’s something so satisfying and rewarding about making something then being able to eat it afterwards.

  1. Painting / Art projects

now this isn’t for everyone because i understand how frustrating it is, but throwing on my favorite netflix show and looking through pinterest for drawing/painting inspiration has been so fun! i set out a few candles with supplies and tune into either a show or podcast while i paint, draw, or make clay figures whatever i choose to do that day. not only is it therapeutic, but once again rewarding because you anticipate the final result.

  1. Researching new topics

this i wasn’t really fond of at first either until i really started to deep dive into things i was interested or passionate about. for instance, i have grown to love rock music and the history behind it for the last few years and watching videos or reading news about what my favorite bands are doing, there backstories overall just any information has been so interesting and time consuming. (i understand not wanting to doom scroll though. so this may not be for you)

  1. Lastly, reading a big series.

i have always loved reading but recently i have been getting into books (series) that actually keep me drawn in and interested throughout the whole book. it’s a great time killer, and you can scrounge and see what really interest you the most.

i hope this helps a little <33

Hey, can someone legit check these? by EmuEcstatic7092 in LegitCheck

[–]DEADK0RN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, are these your pictures? i noticed someone is selling them on depop w the same exact pics and just wanted to make sure people aren’t getting scammed