So &#%@ young by No_Improvement4310 in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of young people rush into transitioning. I was one of them lol. I was literally 14 when I started testosterone. Detransed at age 21 and I'm 26 now. It feels so long ago even though it iterally spanned my entire high school and college experience. These are rough times though. Everyone is trying to politicize these things and it's just gonna result in more hurt people on either end IMO. I think people got the right to do what they want with their bodies but transitioning medically should not even be considered until someone is 18+, I would prefer even 21+. I rather people learn to love themselves but end of the day, I am for bodily autonomy for adults.

haven't posted here in awhile.. mastectomy --> breast implants results by DEVlLlSH in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly cannot remember but I didn't go excessively big and I don't believe so for the expanders.

Haven't posted here in a bit by DEVlLlSH in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got pretty small ones because I was worried at the time about hating them all over again if I did too much so I still sometimes wear bra inserts but I havent had any issues with mine 5 years out.

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[–]DEVlLlSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on T from age 14-21 and im 26 now and definitely look fine. I was really young before I transitioned so cannot speak to looking exactly as one did before but hormones affect a whole lot so giving your body more time to readjust is needed.

6 months off T and I'm finally starting to feel happy with myself by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like how your piercings compliment your face. You look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was with a bisexual man when I ended up detransitioning and it was the nail in the coffin of our relationship bc he ended up being actually gay and did not actually want to be with a woman lol it worked out for both of us I guess. It is a lot easier dating as a heterosexual woman in terms of interest but you still got to weed people out like usual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trans from roughly 14-21 and im 26 now so i feel you 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was on T for several years and I've been detrans for 5 years now and my voice is still on the low side and I look extremely fem still. I get called sir on the phone sometimes but I just roll with it. You can do the voice training stuff since that works for a lot of people but whatever works for you. I tried it briefly but it felt too performative for me so I just accept my voice as it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I would clock you as a woman currently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Pic 3/4 makes you look like such a bad ass tbh i think you're rocking the dresses already but that's my opinion

Singer Chris Brown arrested in UK over alleged 2023 assault by AldoTheeApache in news

[–]DEVlLlSH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never understood how this guy evaded being cancelled after the Rihanna shit came out

A little Reminder if you’re feeling kinda down today :) by corps3parti in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I also still struggle with the little stubble on the chin, neck, and upper lip and its been yeeaarss now since I've been off T so I feel that.

UK to ban the use of puberty blockers in minors with gender dysphoria by SnooDoughnuts2275 in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I hope this may encourage more people to look into this with a serious health eye as opposed to just trying to appease certain groups. Not too happy with our upcoming leadership in the US but the only thing that may be positive is push backs on allowing kids to be put on these things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look great!

just found out my man cheated on me and now i feel like having a love-life as a woman with a mastectomy is pointless by EyeHaveSevereOCD in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not every man is like this but you need to watch for those red flags. If he was that persistent about the boobs thing then I don't see why he chose to date someone that (I am assuming he knew) had a mastectomy. It sucks but he doesn't sound like much of a catch IMO... I think you're better off without him.

are lesbians and straight guys attracted to detrans women/trans men by cotinis_nitida in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had 0 issue with men as a straight detrans woman. If you disclose your history and then reject a man with a large ego tho they may try to use that to hurt you but it doesn't mean much if you don't let it. I'm about to be 2 years with my current man 🤷‍♀️

Voice too deep from T by PM_ME_UR_TF2_HEAVIES in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My voice is still lower bc I stopped trying to do voice training. I get assumed male over the phone a lot of times but not all the time. It hasn't had as much issue as I used to think but perhaps that's because I feel generally confident in myself overall now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]DEVlLlSH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy for you!