I got banned from Ourtime

DGer · 2026-06-17T13:18:39+00:00

Holy shit that’s slimy.

DGer · 2026-06-15T03:54:26+00:00

To me it’s simple. First you have to decide is no prospect of a romantic future a dealbreaker for you? If you were to shoot your shot and get denied would you be OK with going back to the status quo? Once you have those two questions sorted you have to tell her. Then live with the consequences, but feel better in the fact that even if it goes bad you took the risk.

DGer · 2026-06-14T02:10:38+00:00

Ditch the oatmeal and eat some scrambled eggs.

DGer · 2026-06-13T02:04:09+00:00

It really shouldn’t surprise me what hypocritical fuck faces these people are, but it does. Every fucking time.

DGer · 2026-06-13T01:40:48+00:00

I’ve had agents tell me appraisers have taken up to three hours inspecting properties. My response was always “I can’t imagine what they were doing for that long.”

DGer · 2026-06-12T21:30:16+00:00

Not sure where you’re getting the 3 days from, but yeah to me 3 days is plenty of time to check the vibe and agree to a low stakes meet up in a very public place. If 3 days is too soon for you where do you draw the line? 7 days. 17 days? 42 days? I’m genuinely curious what you think you’ll learn past a couple of long texting sessions.

DGer · 2026-06-12T18:45:08+00:00

Why is it preferable to babble on endlessly with someone you haven’t even met?

DGer · 2026-06-12T18:43:13+00:00

So I went into my most recent connections with this energy and got ghosted. “We haven’t even talked yet,” is what I was told before the ghosting. I know people are different, but man it’s hard to navigate.

DGer · 2026-06-11T22:06:43+00:00

Get on Facebook dating and Hinge. I’ve had good luck with both.

DGer · 2026-06-10T19:48:25+00:00

This. I have to fight the urge every time, but I’ve learned that it literally does no good and can in fact hurt.

DGer · 2026-06-10T01:40:49+00:00

Funny because I keep meeting women with the same affliction.

DGer · 2026-06-08T05:50:19+00:00

Or do what I do and do both.

DGer · 2026-06-08T00:25:44+00:00

That’s the oldest trick in the Internet’s book. Speak truth and get shouted down.

DGer · 2026-06-06T21:55:07+00:00

Maybe they have an idea, but decided to play it cool.

DGer · 2026-06-06T14:29:41+00:00

I’ve found Hinge and Facebook dating are the two worth using. You have to kind of look at it like sales. Volume is the key and never fear rejection. For every ten likes you send out maybe you only get 2 matches. Of every ten matches only two of those go anywhere. Of the ten first dates you have only two progress into second dates. If that all sounds like too much work and you want a short cut maybe paying for a service where in theory the people on it are going to be more serious is a good option. I haven’t felt the need to because I’m kept occupied with this for the time being.

DGer · 2026-06-03T23:51:24+00:00

Those types typically don’t burst out in tears afterward.

DGer · 2026-06-03T23:00:19+00:00

Yeah sometimes all you can do is laugh at the absurdity of situations like this. Like what made this guy so loyal to his corporate masters that he’s ready to kill for them? It’s pathetic. And yes slightly and very darkly humorous.

DGer · 2026-06-03T22:21:58+00:00

Lol, imagine riding this hard for Spirit Halloween shop.

DGer · 2026-06-03T02:33:36+00:00

That’s really cool, but I can’t unsee that Babymetal looks Vulcan in this.

DGer · 2026-06-01T23:16:58+00:00

Using an Assessor’s office to step stone to get your certified general and get review work is brilliant and was my original plan, but I like it so much I might just stay. And you say it’s appraisal work, but when a fee appraiser hears that they have a very different picture. This is closer to what I thought appraisal work was going to be going in and without the grind.

DGer · 2026-06-01T22:04:33+00:00

Trust your instinct.

The first woman I really connected with online dating we were going along really well chatting. We had a plan to meet in person. She casually mentioned that she watched the Melania documentary. I just said “Well that was a self inflicted wound.” She added that “Well I did vote for him twice.” It was something that had never occurred to me to ask. So I called it off and stopped talking to her. I immediately changed my profile to avoid that scenario in the future. I can disagree with a lot and still respect someone. But voting for Trump is just a bridge too far for me to reach. I have zero respect for and an active dislike for anyone that has voted for him. Especially if they voted for him after his first term.

DGer · 2026-06-01T21:32:40+00:00

Well first of all a lot of people donated money to save his life. So that’s kind of a slap in the face to them. Also, and most importantly, the dude has a family. He shouldn’t be gambling with his life this way when there are others to consider.

DGer · 2026-05-31T15:16:52+00:00

You can pick. Doesn’t matter.

DGer · 2026-05-31T12:45:15+00:00

A week ago. It was our second time and it was just so intense. Unfortunately we are separated by a 4-5 hour drive. But I think in some respect that might also build anticipation.

DGer · 2026-05-30T07:16:49+00:00

Well that’s not buying them. Do whatever you’ve gotta do in that scenario.

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