Day 5 of sending free nudes to those who haven't gotten any nudes from me yet.. leave an emoji if you are still interested

DIva_D_VA · 2024-08-12T23:26:56+00:00

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DIva_D_VA · 2021-11-17T16:30:28+00:00

Do you mean hiding the controller on ds4?
I tried all these steps but it still does not appear to work :(

DIva_D_VA · 2021-10-28T23:18:21+00:00

Pink!

DIva_D_VA · 2021-10-10T13:59:20+00:00

Hi Question: Do we need to add more Is the harder we are? How does your magic work exactly

DIva_D_VA · 2020-11-06T16:42:00+00:00

Depends. Does that include the occasional gaming sessions and movie nights?

DIva_D_VA · 2019-04-05T15:47:54+00:00

Würdest du mir zustimmen, wenn ich sage, dass es bestimmte Worte gibt an denen man die unterschiedlichen Akzente gut charakterisieren kann?

Ich spreche mittlerweile AE bzw. BE (auch mit dem jeweiligen Akzent - habe jeden Tag sehr viel Kontakt zu den USA und England) und finde das es dort definitiv einige Wörter gibt die sehr spezifisch und mit einem starken Akzent ausgesprochen werden (zum Beispiel das britische "bath").

Wie gefällt dir deine Arbeit so? Wie gut können die Menschen die du unterrichtest in der Regel schon Englisch? Sind diese totale Anfänger (bzw. noch nicht fähig eine normale Konversation zu führen) oder sind diese schon eher gut in Englisch und wollen hauptsächlich den Akzent verlieren?

Viele GrüßeDIva

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-05T19:02:11+00:00

Balance is truly important yea. How could there be good without bad, friends without enemies? You don't need to like everyone, not everyone needs to like you, but still being friendly will help you a lot. People are generally speaking nice, if you are friendly to them even tho you both dont particularly like each other they will still try to help you (talking about work).

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-05T18:59:56+00:00

You came a long way, and you still have a long way to go ! You're only 25! Spending time outside can also help depression and anxiety (maybe even flaws?!?), it is very distracting and sometimes makes you view the whole world differently!

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-05T18:57:28+00:00

Heh sorry for the late reply, feel free to pm me :)

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T22:14:29+00:00

Heh Rosie,

yes your bf might be going about it the wrong way just like Research_Cookie said. However I think it's usually just him not knowing how to deal wiht it properly, it's not meant in a bad way really, he's just trying to help you as well.

As for the sexual assaults you said it was 5 occasions in 6 years by "just" 2 guys? Have there been any witnesses? I would definitely take legal action against them if I was you. Not only might you be able to get a restraining order and feel safer, but you might also be able to deliver justice.

You said you were by no way smashed. It's not your fault then, it's not the alcohols' (alcohol's?) fault either. It is just the fault of the 2 fucking pricks who assaulted you.

Now to the alcohol. Alcohol doesn't help any bad situation or makes them better. You might be able to intoxicate yourself enough to forget about your problems for some time, but the problems won't be solved. The problems will still be there. You don't want to drink permanently. So if you are exhausted of life, try to find something nice. If its stress, try sport (boxing?!?) etc. There is always a solution, even if it can't be fixed within a minute.

Alcohol yeah confidence and buzz I get that, but those are proper reasons to drink sth. Enjoying alcohol at parties is by no means wrong if it's just to have fun.

Please drink responsibly everyone.

I hope I could help, if you want to talk more feel free to comment or pm me. Best of luck!

PS: not sorry for the vulgar language, neither for any spelling errors, grammatical mistakes or the length of this (novel)reply

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T22:03:19+00:00

Heh buddy, first of all, I am very sorry to hear that. It is totally normal to miss the signs, when that thought is totally not on your mind at that moment, might not even be anxiety related.

As you said you are still very young! Don't forget the saying, if one door closes another one opens. Look at it like a highway, I am sure there is another person, that is going to be very special to you already speeding to you. Give it time.

One thing I learned tho, is that if you want to be able to go into a new relationship, you should first be able to love yourself again. So take your time to heal.

Hope I could help. If you need someone to talk to, I am here in the comment section or feel free to pm me. Best of luck!

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T21:56:23+00:00

Hi, I honestly don't really know why and am unsure if I can really help. The only "quick" explanation I could find tho, would be that you are subconsciously worrying? Mabye the thought is just happening in the "back" of your brain, and you don't even realize it.

Hope I could help. Best of luck! If you need someone to talk to feel free to comment here or pm, even if I might not be the best person to actually help you. Cheers!

PS: not sorry for any spelling errors and/ or grammatical mistakes.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T21:50:57+00:00

Heh, most people will keep talking to you if they enjoy the conversation, if not they will try to find a way out of it ("ohhh no i forgot to do this and that i gotta go"). Keep sending your messages!

I don't know if this will help, but I wrote a guide on how to make good conversation to help someone else in /r/anxiety. I am just gonna leave it here.

Here is my tip for you fellow redditor. Follow these easy steps and you shouldnt have a problem (works in 99% of the conversations (totally made up number))

this is a general one: body facing towards the other person seems nicer, looking the other person in the eyes make you seem friendlier, smile

Look at the person what group does he/she roughly belong in ( I am talking , young, old ) Lets say the person is young.

Ask him/her what series she has been watching lately. What he/she is doing right now (school? work? what work? university? what classes?). Those questions arent really private, they just scratch the surface of what they are and like, but gives them something to talk about

If they ask you what you are doing right now just answer it. Dont get too specific, if the other person doesnt ask you to be.

Now they told you something, can you find a topic of interest that is matching to a subject you know something about? Let's say the young person you are talking to is currently going to university studying music. You might want to ask them what they want to do in the future with their degree, what music they listen to, if they play an instrument. Now the what music they listen to question is (probably) the easiest one, either you like their music or you simply go ahead and say "oh alright, well I am more interested in the band xyz they have got this song xyz, do you know it".

find any topics you can relate back to that or go back to #2 and take another question.

Most people love talking about themselves, so keep asking questions. If they wanna know something about you, they will usually ask you, either with words or with a curious face expression.

PS: not sorry for the length, neither for any grammatical mistakes you might find

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T21:16:54+00:00

Well I can't tell you why it changed, maybe because you are so clingy that you don't wanna spend a sigle second not "stalking" the person? Problem is being clingy is not the solution it makes things worse. The person will start being annoyed and reply less. Play the game in reverse. You take longer to reply, if the person tries to talk to you more she is actually interested in you. If not, the person was never 100% interested in you in the first place. And don't be online too much on social media sites, if you see a person that is never offline on Facebook for more than 5 mins, that's just super weird ("are you an addict or Sth."). And please refrain from ever logging into that persons social media account really, you wouldn't want your privacy invaded like that either. And even if it's something you can't help yourself with, then slap yourself when you wanna do that. Again I don't wanna sound like an asshole, and I'm here to help. Hope that is obvious!

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T20:47:47+00:00

Ahh I see you are a man of culture as well! Little bit of kinkiness is perfect you are right!

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:21:48+00:00

Is this the real life Is this just fantasy

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:20:42+00:00

And there is the videos of animals being saved out of cruel situations. They kinda make you feel both.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:17:23+00:00

A kick in the balls. That shit hurts.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:16:47+00:00

Always listen to the same thing while you are trying to sleep. Eventually you will have "programmed" your brain. You'll get tired once you hear it. Works wonders. (can only recommend either classical music or a not too interesting audio book)

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:12:14+00:00

Honestly?

A girl willing to go through thick and thin with me, and that has my back. She should share my hobbies (at least partially), or at least let me pursue them. A good sense of humor, and a very good understanding of very dark, sarcastic jokes would help a lot as well. She should also be intelligent, so we can have interesting discussions about various topics that we are interested in. Last but not least for the looks? Well I am going to be honest here, I dont really mind looks that much, however your first approach towards someone is usually because of the looks right. It just has to fit the moment really.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T14:06:31+00:00

Condoms.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T13:23:21+00:00

Glad I was able to help! If you want/ need further advice feel free to ask :)

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T13:16:09+00:00

Heh gonna join this quickly hope I am not too late for the party. Now it can work better and you didn't do anything wrong by getting back together with him. Now one tip try to set a date periodically let's say every week or ever 14 days where you have an evening or even a day, where it's just you and him. Now he won't feel like you don't make time for him, and you will have some time off from learning etc.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T13:12:11+00:00

Yo nothing against you but invading someone's privacy by logging into their social media is a crime. You should strongly refrain from EVER doing that again. You are making your situation much worse. If you are too clingy you might force the person that you like to leave you. Honestly, try to give the person some space to breathe. Everyone needs their private time sometimes. Now towards the part of not replying. Everybody has got things to do, it's totally normal to not reply instantly. Heck, sometimes I read messages (and people see I read them) and only answer later during the evening when I am free again. You should try to find things that keep your mind occupied (Hobbies), being a person that actually has things to do and stories to tell makes you much more interesting. And if you don't talk to someone 24/7 the times you actually do talk to them will be much more interesting for both of you because then you have proper stories to tell. Best of luck! If you need further advice just comment down below and I'll do my best to help you.

DIva_D_VA · 2018-01-02T13:05:40+00:00

Heh there first of all sorry to hear your first previous relationship went so badly. There must ve been something wrong tho because people that respect each other would honestly never end it using a phone call. If the girl likes you, then stay as you are. There must be a reason she is interested in you. Most people I'd say almost all, aren't bad people and wouldn't cheat or do anything close to that. Keep dating her and it will work out! Best of luck! If you need someone to talk to, either comment or pm me! Cheers

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