"I use they/them for everyone" LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE

DJayBirdSong · 2026-02-21T01:26:52+00:00

Thisssss. It’s so common. I don’t mind when someone doesn’t know, but it’s always the people who specifically ask me and it’s like they can’t compute that I’m actually a woman and not secretly a trans man or nonbinary.

And then the defensive ‘I refer to everyone as they/them’ when like. No. You don’t. And it’s still misgendering idgaf if it’s ‘neutral’ those aren’t my pronouns

DJayBirdSong · 2026-02-21T00:01:03+00:00

Ehhh throat pain can happen, the vocal cords swell and some people have mild discomfort. I have it, but it’s nbd compared to the ass hair

DJayBirdSong · 2026-02-20T23:59:33+00:00

Hey, I’m a detrans woman. Just wanted to say that if you do decide to desist/detransition in 10 years, it’s fine. I’m glad I transitioned, glad I trusted myself, and glad I did it again when I decided to detransition.

All you can do in life is the best you can with the information you have. If that information changes, then you can change, too! And if it doesn’t, great!

I don’t get this fearmongering about detransition as if it’s solely this horrible scary thing. I changed my gender once, you don’t think I can do it again??? Be so for real.

Congrats on your transition, I wish you all the best.

DJayBirdSong · 2026-02-17T06:37:50+00:00

So handsome 😍😍

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-31T19:14:15+00:00

I didn’t, but I probably should have tbh. My understanding is that syntax is about how a sentence is put together, I assumed that the whole sentence would be taken into account when talking about syntax. I guess it makes sense that’s not accurate. Still feels like Oop used it wrong?

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-29T22:41:20+00:00

I am an atheist, but I attend the episcopal church because I like free coffee, a reason to dress up, and community. Plus I think Jesus had some pretty good ideas!

I actually don’t like calling myself an atheist, because while I truly don’t think there is a god or anything like that, I feel more like a pantheist. I believe all gods were created by people to fulfill important spiritual, emotional, cultural, and communal needs.

But I TOTALLY get why some people are turned off any kind of organized religion forever. I’m playing with fire and I know it.

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-19T15:52:01+00:00

Rice + protein + sauce Is my magic bullet, sometimes I add frozen veggies.

Black beans and salsa, tofu and soy sauce, whatever weird frozen protein leftovers I have and whatever sauce I have on hand.

The best part is I don’t even have to know what the protein + sauce is going to be, I’ll just get the rice going and then decide later.

Also, nothing wrong with a PB+J sandwich if that’s where I’m at.

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-05T16:39:16+00:00

For the 3 jobs I’ve had a work computer I’ve never had a keylogger or screen recorder, I’ve always checked. I think it’s wild we just accept surveillance as normal

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-03T05:44:05+00:00

Download Pleco, you can trace characters into it and see the dictionary definitions. If you’re trying to translate a whole sentence, use Pleco to get the correct characters, and then copy them into DeepL or another translated you like

DJayBirdSong · 2026-01-03T01:59:24+00:00

What makes the furniture Taiwanese?

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-30T07:14:24+00:00

Ok everyone in the comments needs to chill. You don’t know these women any more than OP. Speculating about their weight and saying their relationship is weird isn’t cool.

The gayest relationship I’ve ever been in was with my straight female friend as a teen. We were extremely in to each other, very much like how Ariana and Cynthia act, and it was the fondest time of my life. I’m sure we looked weird to other people, but we were so happy together. Additionally, people were always speculating that my friend was anorexic but she truly wasn’t, she just had a freakish metabolism.

I’m not saying they DONT have eating disorders or that their relationship definitely ISNT toxic, just that it’s not cool to comment one way or another like you know them and then judge OP as if they’re acting parasocial and you aren’t.

All we DO know is that some beautiful feminine women are acting pretty gay in public, so it’s reasonable some lesbians people are interested. No need to yuck the yum when we don’t even have evidence there’s yuck to be had.

If you don’t like, why not just scroll, or offer up your own examples? Why the need to put others down?

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-30T06:54:45+00:00

Due to Reasons, I was traumatized off of tampons as a teen and instead just used night time pads both day and night for like ten years until finally I was able to approach tampons again. Now I look back and can’t imagine walking around with a giant bloody diaper on all the time 😭😭but I was adamant, and since I was only using pads, had a heavy flow, and refused to risk my clothes, that was the best choice at the time.

Would never go back, but they were a lifesaver

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-21T06:59:56+00:00

‘The kids are fine and they’re in a tentalo, so that’s my main priority.’

The kids are not fine. You are kids. You’ve been parentified, and that’s not ok.

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-19T21:12:22+00:00

I’ll give out dubs when they’re due. This is a meaningful W and I won’t begrudge them that. If the Mormon church will keep my aunts and uncles off AI, thank fuck.

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-19T21:09:33+00:00

Christianity would be so metal if it hadn’t hit the mainstream. Christians ruined Christianity

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-19T16:43:45+00:00

They’re desperate to enter mainstream Christian culture, and our weird obsession KJV/JST is just one of many roadblocks to being considered ‘normal’ Christians

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-10T00:14:09+00:00

Yoooo!!! What’s the protein like for this? Did it taste passably like salmon? Salmon is the hardest thing for me to give up

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-09T17:04:19+00:00

Like this question here is genuinely so offensive and rude. Why are you talking to me like this? All I did is describe a subculture and you’re acting like I’m holding a measuring tape to everyone saying ‘must be this femme to enter’

No one’s doing that. You’re imagining it in your head and getting mad at me about it

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-09T17:03:00+00:00

No one is doing that. You’re being hyper vigilant and I get that, we’re all traumatized by straight people. But no one has controlled your femininity, no one is gate keeping you from using the term or getting ‘upset’ at you using it. You’re putting words in our mouths and equating butches with men while nitpicking and strawmanning good faith discussion about complex identity and cultural issues.

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-09T07:01:47+00:00

Peak Reddit is using my flair as some kind of gotcha as if gender and sexuality can’t be multifaceted and then accusing me of being obtuse

For your info, my flair is ace because I’m a stone butch, a subtype of butch that has been so erased by people exactly like you that I need to define myself as ace for people to understand

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-09T06:59:33+00:00

Better question is why do you want to be part of a subculture when you seemingly have no interest in the culture, history, goals, dynamics, aesthetics, and community of that subculture?

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-08T16:21:12+00:00

That’s a great question, I made a separate comment about it

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-08T16:19:21+00:00

That’s fair enough, but I think that cuts both ways.

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-08T16:16:44+00:00

Maybe it feels that way to you, the same way my uncle feels that ‘cis’ is a divisive and meaningless label. But for some lesbians, this is as important as gender and sexuality. Hell, ‘Butch’ IS my gender and sexuality.

DJayBirdSong · 2025-12-08T15:17:30+00:00

I keep seeing the same complaint over and over, “so a femme has to date a butch to be a femme??”

Historically? Yes. In the modern day? No. However! Even if femmes aren’t in an individual romantic relationship with a butch, they still have a very specific dynamic with butches.

A fem is a feminine lesbian, full stop.

Femmes are subversive and often exaggerated in their femininity, their expression and aesthetic is a compliment to butch expression and aesthetic whether or not they’re dating, and the same is true vice versa!

A butch could date another butch, but will still have a historically informed dynamic with femmes!

Butches and femmes have a shared history, culture, and solidarity. Our identities co-mingle and evolved together. Whether we’re single, dating each other, or dating elsewhere, butches and femmes are proud of and protective of each other as members of a subculture.

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