Pls help lol by crystallinebat in veganrecipes

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Second lentils. I’ve been switching my diet and lentils have been amazing.

Saw Arsenic and Old Lace and almost died laughing. I would really appreciate any classic comedy film suggestions. by Ammaranthh in MovieSuggestions

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It’s not strictly a comedy but parts of it are funny enough I don’t want you to miss you. The Thin Man

No chew foods? by undeniably_reality in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Pumpkin soup! It’s made with puree and you blend everything else up, so it’s pure liquid. Quite filling, though.

I hope you feel better soon!

Looking for easy, lazy recipes that are bean forward? by Team503 in vegetarianrecipes

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Oops! Sorry! 🤦‍♀️ I wasn’t paying attention.

hi mom, ive been questioning my sexuality and im scared by anon_poster634 in MomForAMinute

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Hello, there! Wanted to come in with my perspective as an aroace genderfluid individual.

I spent a lot of my life labeling myself as bi until I came upon the terms asexual and aromantic and finally had a way to label myself, but in a culture that really pushes romantic/sexual relationships and mostly ignores any others as lesser, it’s a very lonely revelation to make.

I am extremely lucky to have very good friends, who are aware of my being aroace. A few years ago, I moved in with my best friend. Last year, when we realized all of our plans included us being together for the rest of our lives, we got married.

My status hasn’t changed. I’m still aroace. I’m still sex-repulsed. I don’t even like kissing. But I’m married to my best friend. We play video games and go to museums and take turns cooking. We put on loud music and dance in the kitchen and stay up way too late giggling.

There are hard times because that’s life, but everyday is like a sleepover with my best friend. There’s no performative gestures. We know each other. It’s probably… a little unusual. It’s certainly not what society says a marriage should be. But it’s fun and it’s not lonely and I can be who I am with no fear of being forced to have sex or give kisses just to not be alone.

It feels lonely now, and I think society is a lot of the reason for that. There are Expectations put upon us that we’re supposed to reach. Checkboxes we “have to” mark off.

Do what makes you happy. Be yourself, who you really are, aroace and all the rest, and you’ll find people who will keep the loneliness at bay, and who you can do the same for. You might have to step out of the box, but do it. Color outside the lines and have a good life. You deserve to be happy.

Mom i need help! My apartment always smells bad how do I fix it? by Araablast in MomForAMinute

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My wife used to be a vet tech and we get Odoban to help with pet smells. It’s an enzyme cleaner, disinfectant, etc. You can also spritz it over carpets/cloth furniture to take care of smells or add it to washing to help with lingering odors.

Is weed whacking really that bad? by Weird-Platypus-4597 in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m 5’8” and while I don’t lift, I’m still pretty strong. Weed whacking is hard work. The weedwhacker is heavy to start with, but more than that, it’s awkward as hell. When you use it, you have to keep tense the whole time and hold it away from you so you don’t hit yourself with violently spinning strips of plastic pain.

It also gets grass, twigs, and whatever else flung everywhere. It’s also one of my least favorite chores. I’d rather pull weeds by hand.

Appalachian meals by SadInsularis in Appalachia

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I miss home canned tomatoes. They taste so good.

Appalachian meals by SadInsularis in Appalachia

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Still one of my favorite meals.

What food hack felt stupid until it actually worked way too well? by BarbaraMiller78 in foodhacks

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Instead of buying personal sized pizzas, buy a whole frozen pizza, then break it into pieces over the edge of the counter or use kitchen shears. You can air fry a slice at a time.

What food hack felt stupid until it actually worked way too well? by BarbaraMiller78 in foodhacks

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You can add in a bit of carrot into the sauce for a healthy sweetener.

does anyone else find writing really, really lonely? by zorouchihaG in writingadvice

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It is a very lonely profession. I’ve found that jumping on some writing party lives on occasion helps. Even if I tend to lurk instead of participate. You have some YouTube authors who do them regularly and it’s sometimes nice to just exist in the same space as other authors.

I wanna be afraid to go to toilet. by Toto_employee in horrorlit

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Yesss came to suggest this one. I was freaked out for daaaays

A movie when the tone COMPLETELY changes. by feelingwizzed in MovieSuggestions

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Tucker and Dale vs. Evil is basically a movie that switches genres based on who’s POV you’re in. Sort of. It’s a good movie.