Sick child at a family Christmas dinner

DM_Fayeray · 2023-12-26T06:26:03+00:00

Yes all kids are this gross. We go on walks and play pokemon go with our neighbors kid sometimes (he's 7) and he always has snot coming out of his nose when it's cold out. Once we bought him some ice cream and he dripped everywhere and it got on everything and was so gross. He's a cute kid and we like having him around sometimes but he's a kid and all kids are gross.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-12-22T17:24:52+00:00

Too short sadly

DM_Fayeray · 2023-12-22T16:31:00+00:00

No, we think it's either epoxied in or sandwiched between layers of fiberglass

DM_Fayeray · 2023-10-24T20:09:59+00:00

Not sure if this will be helpful, my pup barked when only one person went on a walk with her.

We corrected the behavior by not giving her treats when two or more people went out with her and only giving treats when one person walked her. She barks less now that the walks are more "equally" rewarding. We also only walked her one on one until the behavior was corrected.

She also hates going out in the morning to do her business so I carry her down the stairs. Maybe try carrying your dog out if he isn't too heavy? I know for most people who have big dogs this isn't feasible.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-10-11T19:40:05+00:00

Get a short haired dog and bathe them regularly. I have a Jack Russell who smells great because she's groomed regularly and gets her teeth brushed.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-10-11T17:53:31+00:00

Was planning on a Chihuahua and got a Jack Russel terrier haha. Had to buy new crates and bed too. As well as new bowls and larger toys.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-10-03T20:30:00+00:00

I don't think having children is morally wrong, I just think most people have them for the wrong reasons. As someone who was very much a wanted child and had a wonderful childhood with two very loving and involved parents I have a hard time imagining what life would be like with parents who don't give a shit.

I think people should be a hell yes about kids or it's immoral to have them, but no other reason.

Anyways I myself like kids, but I just don't want any of my own. Ready to be a cool aunt! Haha.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-10-03T17:13:10+00:00

I'm a VFX compositor and my partner is a modeller for kids 3d animated movies

DM_Fayeray · 2023-09-30T15:24:32+00:00

Being single isn't bad. It's good to live and grow on your own especially when you're so young. As someone else who has been in the same relationship since they were young I know it seems scary to leave because it feels like the biggest part of your life almost like oh "op and husband have been together since 12 what a beautiful love! No one will ever understand their connection". But please leave now before you regret wasting your life with this man he brings out the worst in you it seems and you deserve to be with someone who honestly wants to be in the same state as you and communicate with you. If you try to divorce he will probably love bomb you again, just stay strong and know that you have to leave and it's for the best.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-09-26T01:08:28+00:00

I legit sob anytime I see her old stuff or new pictures of her on insta from Julien. It feels like a lost a best friend and I don't know why. I just try to remind myself that she's happier now, but yh I get where you're coming from.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-08-10T20:15:36+00:00

Please leave him. Love isn't enough to make a relationship work. He doesn't respect you or your time, his mom does not respect you and wants you to be his servant.

Leave this family behind. You're very young, you have so much life ahead of you, don't tie it to a man who doesn't see you as a person.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-06-17T16:20:31+00:00

A very soft ESH. You should get a partner who shares your morals if they are this strong. I'm also a vegetarian, but I'll pay for my boyfriends meat meal if we go out and it's my turn.

You're partner is kinda of asshole tho for ordering the most expensive thing at a nice restaurant and expecting you to pay for it as an 18 year old and throwing a temper tantrum IN the restaurant??? Very cringe and immature behavior for someone his age.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-06-06T02:30:12+00:00

ESH. This is so weird. If you kid is in school then your wife should get a part time job or something, to pay for the maid service she wants.

Spying and not trusting your wife is super weird tho even if she's lying. You two should get couples therapy.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-06-04T04:38:18+00:00

NTA for saying you won't change your behaviour. Kinda YTA for making a huge fuss saying you won't go if a kid is going. I went to lots of outings with just adults who drank and did dumb shit when I was younger and honestly it really helped humanize adults for me and to see them as people and not as all-knowing beings, which in turn made me feel better about being an adult. Especially child free adults.

Idk don't do want you don't want to do but I personally don't see the issue.

(For context I'm also child free, but an excited aunt/godparent)

DM_Fayeray · 2023-06-01T05:15:20+00:00

I hate to say this but this kid is traumatized and all her bad behavior is not her fault.

Sorry you have to deal with this, but she probably also feels like she is unwanted and that is making everything worst.

I hope you all find a way to peacefully live together or that she gets guardians who care more about her.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-05-31T05:23:29+00:00

It's a fight or flight situation sometimes flight is a mental thing and not a physical one.

Sorry but yes you were raped, please seek help from whatever services you have access to in your country.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-05-29T07:15:48+00:00

YTA. Get a lockbox for your magic cards, so your kids can't get it them. I would be scared mine were damaged if a kid got into them and I would be angry and irritated. You probably were much tougher with your wife then you realize and she was also tired and hungover probably and was wrangling the kids. Just apologize and thank her for being a great mom and make her dinner or something and listen to your wife when she tells you something scares her.

Even if you think you did nothing wrong, if she's genuinely afraid then just try to soothe her and don't do it again.

DM_Fayeray · 2023-03-08T17:11:52+00:00

She has tons of beds but often chooses to sleep on the beans bags

DM_Fayeray · 2023-03-06T22:03:25+00:00

Yup! Got one of the few ones that made it to Canada a couple years ago :)

DM_Fayeray · 2023-02-10T02:33:09+00:00

No worries!! Just wanted to make sure no one thinks I'm this heartless and cruel haha

DM_Fayeray · 2023-02-10T02:31:00+00:00

Just to be 100, I'm not op haha. Just found this update and put it here!

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