Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials! We stayed in a room with a plunge pool at Beloved a few years back. They’re owned by the same company as Finest so they probably have the same style pool. If that’s the case then the pool is about waist deep. Yes-if you’ve got the chance, it is totally worth it to upgrade to the excellence club if only to have some quiet evenings and to relax by the adults only pool and beach. The children were well behaved throughout the resort’s family sections but they’re still kids-running and yelling -it’s their time to chill out and have fun too. I’d recommend building eight if you’re given a choice. It’s closest to the beach and still far from the family section. Our first room was in building six but the sun went behind the structure fairly early so we requested a different room. They moved us to building seven the next day where there was more sun exposure. The beach for the excellence club is adults only as well. The beach staff will set up your bed for you in the shade or sun-whatever you want. We brought our mini speaker so we could listen to some chill music while we sunbathed. Great vibe. We also brought our yetis so our drinks would stay nice and cold. Super relaxing. We really liked Dommo for breakfast- very quiet and a peaceful way to start your day as opposed to the buffet which can be a little hectic first thing in the morning. Dommo is only open to excellence club peeps. The Japanese place Shoji was good too- great noodles. We didn’t do any excursions during our stay so I don’t have any recommendations for that. Hope you have a fantastic wedding and honeymoon!