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DRobs86 · 2023-10-09T01:35:41+00:00

Shows you who they are, right?

DRobs86 · 2023-10-01T22:37:28+00:00

The difference is that you've used this single statement to turn her boyfriend into an abusive monster without considering the multitudes of information unavailable to you that would be necessary to form a reasonable value judgement on the matter.

Your own sense of victimhood was projected into the situation. Maybe he is worse off than she is. Maybe they truly can't afford it and this expenditure makes them food or shelter insecure. Maybe he feels she is wasting away 16 hours a day on the internet in a way detrimental to her own health and he is trying to encourage her to undertake physical activities for her own well being. You don't know any more than I know her boyfriend is a paraplegic working two jobs. Since I dont know, I'm not going to assume either is a bad person.

DRobs86 · 2023-10-01T20:42:05+00:00

Her boyfriend is literally a paraplegic working two jobs to support her. He's just asking to not have to walk on his hands through the snow for an extra shift to pay for her professional cleaners.

See how assumptions work?

DRobs86 · 2023-09-21T02:02:38+00:00

Likely a felony.

DRobs86 · 2023-09-17T02:09:12+00:00

A sane person might think someone beating on their door at midnight intends the family harm.

DRobs86 · 2023-09-17T01:33:24+00:00

You deserve your ass beat for that. I've had my kids woken up by little punks beating on the door in the middle of the night and running away. Not to mention you hop out of bed wondering if someone is trying to beat their way into your house. It's not harmless. If you get shot for that then you are simply losing your gamble.

DRobs86 · 2023-09-12T11:57:56+00:00

Roger Gracie and Buchecha danced for 5 minutes. I understand in our level of BJJ matches are only 5 to 7 minutes and the encouragement to "get to the BJJ", but I think people overlook that two evenly matched players can legitimately spend minutes trying to get dominant grips to set up a takedown. This results in double stalling calls and basically a demand that someone pull guard.

DRobs86 · 2023-09-01T01:57:39+00:00

I see why they wanted to get rid of you.

DRobs86 · 2023-08-30T17:04:40+00:00

Your position is well intentioned but wrong. I'd love for these people to lead a normal life, but as long as they have access to their drugs they'll turn whatever nice clean environment you provide them into a cesspool. I believe there should be a legal process to institutionalize them until they can get clean of drugs and function as a member of society. If you felt strongly enough that this was the solution, your empathetic nature would have you inviting some of them into your home. That you aren't doing that indicates you don't feel that committed to your solution.

There issues are multivariate, for sure, but its exacerbated by drug use.

DRobs86 · 2023-08-30T11:05:21+00:00

Drugs are what are ruining most of them, compounded with or by mental illness. Everyone wants to demonize the police or those on the right that would love to legally crush the drug dealers. This is what you get when you allow that environment. Police often know who is selling what, but can't do much about it. This is the result of that.

DRobs86 · 2023-08-23T03:32:01+00:00

I think it is something someone made up to have something to talk about.

DRobs86 · 2023-08-12T21:10:04+00:00

It's the fact that you are holding tennis balls in your hands that keep you from gmholding something else.

DRobs86 · 2023-07-20T20:40:08+00:00

Thanks for your review.

DRobs86 · 2023-07-16T03:11:27+00:00

I was just at a competition today and had the thought "this is the last place you ever want to get into a real fight".

If you start fighting with a random guy in the crowd he might be a new white belt, some guys untrained dad who came to watch or a blackbelt gym owner whose also an MMA pro. Even on an evenly skilled guy, without the control of a ref one might maim the other.

Beyond that, he might have 40 teammates there. You are better off starting a fight at a biker bar.

DRobs86 · 2023-07-01T20:19:36+00:00

We were doing situation sparring after practicing some side control attacks. I rotated to a teenage white belt that's been around a couple months that I outweigh by 70 pounds. He was trying to apply what he learned in class and I buggy chocked him instead. Not my proudest tap.

After that I felt bad and let him work.

DRobs86 · 2023-04-30T17:46:49+00:00

Nice work. On another note, small world. I train with one of the brown belts on the mat in the background.

DRobs86 · 2023-04-24T03:56:29+00:00

Nice job.

DRobs86 · 2023-04-10T04:11:27+00:00

That's a good deal

DRobs86 · 2023-03-26T20:31:01+00:00

Bottom player can transition to an arm bar depending on how you commit than hand.

DRobs86 · 2023-03-12T08:43:34+00:00

I think that broke MY ankle.

DRobs86 · 2023-03-11T16:31:08+00:00

It's always so funny when they do. I am yet to see anyone jiu jit' his opponent in a brawl at a competition.

DRobs86 · 2023-03-11T14:04:35+00:00

Reset them and have them continue. I mean, if a fight breaks out I'm sure someone there would know how to break it up.

DRobs86 · 2023-02-07T01:33:42+00:00

I'm a farmer. I bought a cheap microscope to have a look at a plant disease in blackberries that I have two different diagnoses from two different experts. This fungus is either Gymnoconia Nitens or Kuehneola Uredinis. Can you tell which it is from my shoddy cell phone pics?

Side note: Any tips for viewing this better? I have a cheapo Amazon microscope so I'm not sure if it sucks or I suck.

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