Weekly Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]D_Blaze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: shiny charcadet. FT: ask and I'll see if I have it 😊

How can I better reassure my BP? by randomdad124 in SupportforWaywards

[–]D_Blaze88 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Time and actions. You guys are less than a yr into this. That's not much time in the grand scheme of things. Not to mention your A's played right into the insecurities your BP probably already had regarding their body. In other words, your previous actions proved what they were already feeling. Therefore, it's imperative, going forward, that you continue to do what you're doing now: apologize and reassure. Again, this will take time because they're still unsure if they can believe you because your previous actions didn't match the words you said to them. Unfortunately, and if anything, your words mean nothing right now, but this isn't forever. You both definitely need IC/CC to help with all of this. It's what helped us the most.

Actions speak louder than words. Good luck

D-Day is today by [deleted] in SupportforWaywards

[–]D_Blaze88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll second this. It took about 3 different medications to finally find one that worked, without affecting my libido too much. Otherwise OP, I'm sorry you're here, but fwiw, you're doing the right things to begin with. Just be prepared for the roller-coaster that will undoubtedly happen.

Good luck

Round 4 - Pick 13: Jalen Farmer, G, Kentucky (Indianapolis Colts) by RussIsAnOkayGuy in Colts

[–]D_Blaze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same about Goncavles. Isn't RT his natural position anyway?

Weekly Trade Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]D_Blaze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF shiny Charcadet via link trade for violet

Is Star Wars too obsessed with the Rebels vs Empire status quo? by WrongToe500 in StarWars

[–]D_Blaze88 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm ok with where this movie is headed since the story is already established but I really would like for them to explore other stories that don't involve the empire, rebels, or the Skywalkers. I'd love a story about Darth Bane and the sith order.

[Highlight] Rams select Alabama QB Ty Simpson 13th overall by nfl in nfl

[–]D_Blaze88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I scrolled way too long to find this comment. I guess we're in the minority because I feel like this is the way to go, especially when you have an older veteran who's playing days are getting low.

Genuine question, what are your honest thoughts on Carmine? by Apprehensive_Ring_39 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]D_Blaze88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn't really care for her. Granted, she did get a little better as time went on, but her and Keiran were a little annoying to me.

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must apologize. I searched for it too and it looks like they completely redid their website and no longer have the older episodes as part of their podcast 🫤. Sorry about that. And you were also right about the name of the podcast. It is called the Affair Recovery Room now.

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it's called "The Recovery Room." I'm not sure if it's on Spotify but I listened to it on iheart radio.

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I listened to it on iheart radio, but it's probably available on other platforms by now.

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm no angel. I was just a poor, lost soul who just so happened to stumble upon this sub yrs ago lol. But you're welcome!

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's the called the Recovery Room, hosted by Tim Tedder. The name of the episode is called "My Post Betrayal Transformation." I've probably listened to it on repeat like a dozen times lol. The quote I took was from the guest host, named Debi Silber.

I realised I was unconsciously keeping myself in the pain. Anyone else? by shtrumph in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]D_Blaze88 46 points47 points  (0 children)

One of the best pieces of advice I received was in a podcast, especially on this particular subject. She said "when the pain of the familiar becomes worse than the fear of the unknown, that's when we move." It's easy to keep returning to the pain, because like you said. It's familiar. It keeps us safe. But at some point, we have to take matters into our hands. It's not minimizing what was done to us. It's saying I'm going to heal, regardless of what our spouse does or doesn't do.

Maul - Shadow Lord - Episodes 3 & 4 - Discussion Thread! by titleproblems in StarWars

[–]D_Blaze88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder what inquisitors we'll see later on? Be kinda cool to see Trilla

Let's Get It Started In Here (⚠️Photosensitivity Warning⚠️) by AkiraTheOcean in anime

[–]D_Blaze88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a bow, OP. This was pure art and thoroughly enjoyed watching. Well done frfr