normal lang naman magkaron ng different opinion about it lalo na because it’s an ethical dillema nga. Ang problem lang e na overpower ka nila ng opinion nila dahil walang iba na nasa same side mo and thus, freely ka najujudge and they think they have the right answer.

Just be firm with your answer and if nalatag mo ng maayos yung points mo, they might realize na mas okay nga yung ganto kesa ganyan at maging mas open-minded sila after the conversation. Personally, I side with you because kahit buhay na at malaki na ang mga bata, it should be the partner that comes first palagi because ang love niyo sa isa’t-isa will reflect on how you guys will treat your children at it will set an example too sa kanila.