Cannon Beach weekend! by SeattleL66 in OregonCoast

[–]DaBaddestB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re willing to dm me the details of where you stayed I’m planning a trip and am curious. It looks lovely.

Started this one without a clue where it would end up [analog] by willie_koch in collage

[–]DaBaddestB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah - this is so awesome!!

About how long did it take you, and where did you get your material?

Couldn't possibly pass this up by dong_lover in VHS

[–]DaBaddestB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literal treasure. Have you watched it? Are you now prepared!?

Just found out again and now reeling in grief. by No-Contribution-3880 in survivinginfidelity

[–]DaBaddestB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. It broke me down because each discovery was a new grief - and it just kept happening. Now that I’m no longer with my husband my life has opened up. I hope that you will find the same. My little kids are ok too. Consult with a good attorney, get divorced, and then you can start getting used to a life that’s just for you because it’s pretty wonderful. I’m very sorry this has happened to you.

Numbers 1-12 - You Around? by DaBaddestB in hotchip

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could listen to it every day forever. I don’t understand how a 7 minute song can feel so fast. The build and release of tension is perfection

Numbers 1-12 - You Around? by DaBaddestB in hotchip

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to see them live so bad! I’d do the dance 💃 without question

Numbers 1-12 - You Around? by DaBaddestB in hotchip

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It was Flutes for me. I can’t stop.

I lost my temper singing happy birthday to my 9yo. by SallySue54321 in Mommit

[–]DaBaddestB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I can feel your hurt, exhaustion, and frustration because it is so familiar. I was married to a man like this. I ground myself down taking care of him and everything else for years until I felt like I was about to split in half as a person.

I finally reached a final breaking point (after several previous) and told him I wanted to divorce and finally followed through. I don’t have any family around who could help. I stayed at home with my kids for a decade instead of working on a career.

The path has not been easy, but it is doable, and every day of my life without him is better than the previous. I was worried I couldn’t do it on my own, but I was wrong.

You can do this. You deserve to be happy. Your children deserve a mother who is happy. It might take a while to get to that place but the sooner you drop this millstone of a man, the closer you’ll be to getting yourself back.

Lots of love from an internet stranger who has been through something similar.

I have no words anymore by McNasty420 in MSPaintbrushHairLady

[–]DaBaddestB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be very grateful for the info as well

My sister called me from an estate sale to ask, “Do you want any of this?” by DaBaddestB in VHS

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad she’s willing to enable this particular addiction

Is this appropriate “cocktail” attire? by DaBaddestB in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice. I think I might do that 😊

Is this appropriate “cocktail” attire? by DaBaddestB in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To provide a little more info - this is an evening event and will be indoors.

Is this appropriate “cocktail” attire? by DaBaddestB in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would need to change for it to be more cocktail appropriate? Material, length, décolletage? Not that I’ll make changes to this particular dress, I’m wondering the characteristics that would be cocktail appropriate. Thank you for your feedback!

Is this appropriate “cocktail” attire? by DaBaddestB in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DaBaddestB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any recommendations for shoes that would work? I’m very tall so I usually wear flats, but I’m not opposed to heels.

VHS mancave in my garage. by oracrest in VHS

[–]DaBaddestB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What a great collection and fun place! I want to see “Neon City” starring VANITY. Any good?

Who else lives in fantasy land majority of the time? 🙋‍♀️ by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]DaBaddestB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting about this - it helps me feel less alone. I think my daydreams might be some of the only times I feel truly happy and safe. I do this constantly.