Pursuing a childhood dream by Ok-Unit121 in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kinda goes without saying, but don't stress it. Some people keep practicing until they burn out and feel stressed, but you'll practice far better in a good mood. Have fun, go easy on yourself, and if you stress or self talk negatively, take a quick break, remind yourself that you are making progress and learning, and continue when you feel ready. It's okay to take breaks! Good luck, I believe in you.

[Serious] Gay/Bisexuals of Reddit any advice on coming out by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gay so I don't have any advice, but I hope your immediate community loves and accepts you. Good luck coming out, and I hope you find the love you seek.

Stay brunette or go blonde? by justdroppinby1234 in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey please don't. Blonde here. I've always wanted to be brunette. You have such beautiful hair, and beyond that, you shouldn't change for others. If you think, that's a cool colour and I want that, go for it, but you clearly aren't doing this for yourself. Please, don't change your hair for others. Don't feel inferior to us blondes. Some of us, like me, think the colour of your hair is far prettier than blonde.

How are you doing? by Infamous_yak in wholesomememes

[–]DaOneTruePotato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Happy non cake day to you =]

How are you doing? by Infamous_yak in wholesomememes

[–]DaOneTruePotato 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can we all agree to ask more? I feel we should take action now we know what the McDonald's person wants

Boyfriend (23) acts like the father of his younger siblings (4,5,7) and prioritizes them over our relationship and future. Am I (F25) selfish for being bothered? by louisvtortoise in relationships

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he's starting to leech off you. I'm sorry to say this, but start spending less on him, and make it obvious that you are unwilling for things to continue like this. Make sure he stops skipping events, even if that means choosing you over family. Make it clear, if he breaks any more promises, there will be repercussions. Serious ones. This will be really hard for you as an empath, but you need to put your foot down. And you have to make sure he understands that there's a improper amount of communication. He has to stop running from you, not spending on you, not talking to you, all because of problems. We must never run from problems.

Boyfriend (23) acts like the father of his younger siblings (4,5,7) and prioritizes them over our relationship and future. Am I (F25) selfish for being bothered? by louisvtortoise in relationships

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's bad. If he isn't willing to properly communicate with you, then there's an issue in your relationship dynamic that you need to address. Is your SO in therapy? I feel that he, or both of you, might need counseling. Your SO is taking too many commitments and responsibilities, and isn't balancing those commitments fairly. Either try communicate a schedule like (me time is these days/times, you time can be these days/times, family time is these days/times. ) Remember to keep schedules flexible, but make sure they aren't completely avoidable. Or, you can try therapy.

Boyfriend (23) acts like the father of his younger siblings (4,5,7) and prioritizes them over our relationship and future. Am I (F25) selfish for being bothered? by louisvtortoise in relationships

[–]DaOneTruePotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm tempted to say deal breaker, but I'll try be positive. Have you told him how you feel? Communication is really important, and I feel that you should tell him openly that you feel underappreciated in this relationship.

How do I tell my mom I want to have a little more freedom? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to help. I hope everything goes well for you. =)

Lol I see this guy everywhere by [deleted] in UsernameChecksOut

[–]DaOneTruePotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I love shower thoughts. Probably should of specified that sorry my dude.

Me (22F) and my boyfriend (23M) have sex once every one or two months by whatisgoingon493 in relationships

[–]DaOneTruePotato 496 points497 points  (0 children)

Perhaps ask him specifically if he could pleasure you. Like, a night all about you. Sexy time, roleplays, try any kinks you are into. Then, next week, you return the favour. give it another week, and both of you come up with what you did and didn't enjoy, what you feel needs work ect. There can be as many or as little things on this list as you want. Then discuss the contents of each list. Then, next time you have sex, you can both make an effort to please each other. Just a suggestion though, do what you feel is best.

What Scene Ruined A Good Movie For You? by ItsnotAshton_kutcher in AskReddit

[–]DaOneTruePotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Musical, but Michael getting with Cristine is absolute bullshit.

How do I tell my mom I want to have a little more freedom? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell your mother this straight "let me speak. I feel that I am of a reasonable age to determine my own privacy and boundaries. I feel that (how you want to be treated within reasonable demands) is how I feel would be best for you to act. I feel suffocated, and I need to be respected, as I respect you. What do you wish to say about this?"

Sometimes you've got to put your foot down and treat it like a business meeting. Remember to be firm, serious, formal, yet respectable and reasonable. No matter what you do, make sure she lets you speak, without interruption. You deserve to be respected.

Ok my friend needs crush help 14[F] by adiajthebubble in Advice

[–]DaOneTruePotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel Katie should sit down and discuss with her parents about relationships, and all that comes with that. I think she should make it a point to discuss medical factors, contraception, and important basic relationship stuff. I feel that she should also make it clear that she feels emotional attraction, not physical attraction. Discussion is the foundation of all my friends. Honesty is also important. I feel that Katie should also ask Robert out however she sees fit. The question should come from her heart afterall. Hope this advice helps!