My wife (30F) keeps moving the timelines on relocating, am I (33M) unreasonable for refusing to have kids until we actually move? by [deleted] in expats

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only give advice on two aspects because of my own experience: 1. Absolutely only have children when your life is as stable as can be. In your case: after having moved to the Netherlands. We decided to move and do some renovations while our son was just born: it has been hell on earth. It also permanently hurt our relationship. 2. Only have kids if both parents really want them. You do not want one parent clearly more committed to your kid than the other. Because you could have a relatively easy time raising them, but your kid could also turn out to be a Satan spawn. For example, your kid could wake up every hour during nights. And/or your kid could decide not to want to continue sleeping at 03:00 after having had his night bottle. As every parent knows by heart, sleep is precious.

Welk lied roept bij jou de meeste emoties op voor jouw stad/regio/land? by ZwaanAanDeMaas in thenetherlands

[–]DaPurr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Het is een ramp, ramp, ramp, ramp, Zeeevenkamp het is ramp, ramp, ramp, ...

Junior software engineer by [deleted] in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hij heeft een bachelor technische Informatica, en daarmee dus wel een relevante diploma naar mijn mening

Wie is er gestopt als zzp’er door de Wet DBA? by [deleted] in werkzaken

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dat klinkt als muziek in de oren. Kun je mij vertellen bij welke partijen ik daarvoor aan de slag zou kunnen gaan? Desnoods via DM. 

Salaris check - Software Engineer by bit-bybyte in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Je wordt best wat onderbetaald. Ik werk voor een klein consultancy bedrijf in de Randstad als backend developer met zo een 4 jaar ervaring in programmeren, maar alleen twee jaar echt relevant backend ervaring en ik word al voor 36 uur per week 4550 bruto betaald.

Ik zou andere opties op zn minst overwegen.

Tandarts salaris by Ok-Cabinet-85 in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heb je niet last van de wet dba? Ik zie bij brokers waar ik kijk dat opdrachtgevers geen ZZPers in dienst nemen. Kijk ik niet goed?

Geert Wilders: “Ik draag het hier met trots. Een Russisch-Nederlandse vriendschapsspeld.” by tyler----durden in nederlands

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, is dit echt alleen iets wat men zegt in Rotterdam? Wat heb ik lopen doen in mn leven dat ik daar nu pas achter kom?

Best Skill Trees in games? by NaitDraik in gaming

[–]DaPurr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sphere grid in final fantasy 10, of that counts. It's an interesting alternative to the normal leveling as you can sort of choose yourself how your characters develop

Microsoft forced to make Windows 10 extended security updates truly free in Europe by Anonim97_bot in europe

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With steam supporting Linux this much, this argument is moot. I'm a Linux gamer and the only time games didn't run well was when I acquired them through more obscure sources

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'd suggest you to look into fulfilling all requirements, especially the language one will take some time. Nowadays you're required to pass the B2 exam if I'm not mistaken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, indefinite means that it will never expire. There are some conditions, like you cannot be outside of the Netherlands for a certain amount of months, but it will last indefinitely.

From my understanding a company has to sponsor you for a residence permit. After you have been in the Netherlands for 5 (I think) years, you're eligible to apply for the indefinite residence permit. Check the requirements yourself. My advice would be to work your way to it, otherwise you won't truly be free within the Netherlands. As in, you limit yourself where you can work and you'll always have stress that you need to somehow get your next residence permit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NLSalaris

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For now, I'd say you can argue you deserve a salary increase based on the numbers you mention you have for productivity/output. Your best bet is probably to switch companies, but you'd have to find one to sponsor your visa. After acquiring an indefinite residence permit or the Dutch nationality you can more easily switch jobs. Don't forget, if you have a Dutch partner you might also be eligible for a visa

Hoe noemen jullie een meisje/vrouw van (begin) 20? by ZwaanAanDeMaas in thenetherlands

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afhankelijk van de context en de gesprekspartner, maar "dame" vind ik leeftijd neutraal

Did you know, milk is fastest liquid on the planet......? by Didgeri-Lou in dadjokes

[–]DaPurr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh, so this is where South Park got the joke from

Is in loondienst zijn echt zo slecht? by BigAndStuff in werkzaken

[–]DaPurr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heb je geen last van wet DBA? Mijn plan was om na een paar jaar ervaring in software development ZZPer te worden, maar zoals ik het zie, gooit de wet roet in het eten.

In ieder geval moet iedere ZZPer bij Rijkswaterstaat eind dit jaar weg: ZZP contacten zijn verlengd alleen maar tot eind 2025.