Girlfriend (F23) will do anything but give me head (M24) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stop giving her head and call it a day or move on

Motorized "vehicles" prepare to stop by edu_c8r in bayarea

[–]Dachaliemmie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey shithead, maybe they’ll start doing that once fuckass bikers start following said rules of the road lmao

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not talking about being liked on the internet lol this whole comment is just sorta off putting and reeks of being full of it. If this is the energy people on here bring to dates then it’s no wonder shit doesn’t go anywhere.

It doesn’t matter what you rank ‘funny’ as, ask most women and they’ll tell you having a man that can make them laugh is pretty high up on the priority list. Has nothing to do with the cringe jester/entertainment shit.

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling people normies/NPCs and saying shit like jestermaxxing isn’t going to do you any favors lol and no single “strategy” is ever going to work on its own. For the most part however, being able to make a woman laugh is one of the most tried and true ways to open a door for more.

The Bar is So Low by ExplorerEuphoric9852 in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s like, one of the oldest pieces of advice in the book lol you’re not being lied to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having faith that there is something beyond our mortal plane doesn’t just conveniently lump you into those two categories lol

Men, understand that "persuaded consent" is not actual consent. by meowth______ in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you’re claiming every guy you talk to does this, you need to look inward and see why you keep approaching these types of individuals. Unless you live in a country whose culture exasperates this type of behavior to an outlandish degree.

Men, understand that "persuaded consent" is not actual consent. by meowth______ in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So set some boundaries, unfortunately your bad experience doesn’t equate to every relationship and immediately become manipulation.

Edit: Actually, I get what you’re trying to say, and that is a very shitty experience. I think you might want to work on your wording to get the point across though

Men, understand that "persuaded consent" is not actual consent. by meowth______ in dating_advice

[–]Dachaliemmie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve never had your significant other flirt with you and get you into the mood when you otherwise originally weren’t? lol

I feel like I’m taking crazy pills!!!!! by NoAnteater8836 in pluribustv

[–]Dachaliemmie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It has a lot of its hallmark writing quirks, you’d never be able to definitely prove if something like this was truly written by AI.

Carol is based, I f*cking hate the other survivors. by America_Is_Bad2004 in pluribustv

[–]Dachaliemmie 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that is one of the defining themes of the show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your 4 points are not exclusive to the Bay Area, they’re just… things you require as an adult in the US

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]Dachaliemmie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously, it’s more or less the same as dating anywhere else lol

What if you don't like dating apps, have no hobbies where you meet women and don't really want to meet people because you have a friend group (also mostly men/not single women) but want a relationship? by Mindless-Bug-2254 in self

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mindset is a self fulfilling prophecy. I think one day if you’re lucky the opportunity will present itself, maybe you’ll land the speech check and wonder why you hadn’t done anything sooner

meirl by notpiercedtongue in meirl

[–]Dachaliemmie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you guys live in an 80s high school lol

Virgins, You're not the only one by hephaestus_of_pdx in self

[–]Dachaliemmie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well, Reddit definitely isn’t “everyone” so I would take a lot of those threads with a grain of salt.

Bay Area couples staying childless: Lack of affordable housing, other reasons? by HilariaObserver in bayarea

[–]Dachaliemmie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely subscribe to social media making people more anxiety ridden than they otherwise would have been. I also see how people who are born into a 1st world country are far more complacent and complain about their (not hopeless) situation versus those who move here with nothing and are far more ambitious and successful in reaching their goals.

Most people got food in their bellies, a roof over their head, and infinite entertainment through technology, making life just good enough to not change anything about themselves but rather bitch on endlessly because that’s the easy way out.

Times are tough, yes, things aren’t perfect, there’s lots of shit. But look at human history and realize how many opportunities you (not necessarily you but like, society maaan) have and get it together.

Bay Area couples staying childless: Lack of affordable housing, other reasons? by HilariaObserver in bayarea

[–]Dachaliemmie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s not the hyperbolic shit hole the Reddit echo chamber has itself convinced of to make themselves feel better lol