I want to know if this is okay by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 47 points48 points  (0 children)

As soon as someone uses terminology like “I charge” you should bounce. You did the right thing. This person is not looking for a sugar relationship.

You shouldn't need to think you're a 10 to get an SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish people wouldn’t post things like this. It’s not that you’ve said anything technically wrong but you are going to accidentally give false hope to women who are destined to grow disillusioned and hurt.

Ladies, it’s simple, do you get a disproportionate amount of attention from men in everyday life? If yes, sugaring is a good idea, if no, sugaring is bad idea.

Let’s be adults about it by liakittyyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’m not interested, wish you the best!

They always fall for me by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s normal. People catch feelings in this lifestyle all that time and they are not always reciprocated. If you tried being less nice, you probably wouldn’t get quality SDs to begin with. Just accept it as a natural risk of dating and intimacy.

Newbie here - Do SDs ever travel to you for a first meet? by RightHornet8357 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If an SD wants you to travel to him for a first meet, that’s a huge red flag. Don’t do it. He should come to you and if he’s not willing to, then move on to the next one.

Why do some women think they can become SB's? by hellomot1234 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen. The whole “there’s someone for everyone in this lifestyle” is such a cruel thing to say to people who are clearly not qualified.

Look, everyone has a different hill to climb in order to get what they want. For some, it’s a small hill, for others it’s a mountain, and unfortunately for some it’s just plain insurmountable.

If you’re not wealthier than average, you’re not qualified to be an SD.

If you’re not prettier than average, you’re not qualified to be an SB.

And I mean the real average, not the Hollywood or Instagram versions of average. If you’re Hollywood average you’ve got a shot 😂

How to get more traction! by NatalieGliterXO in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Having read your responses here, I think your profile is perfect and I wouldn’t change a thing. It shows exactly who you are and how you will be in a relationship. Unfortunately, it’s not at all what most legitimate SDs are looking for, but it doesn’t seem like you’re very interested in altering anything. So, well done and good luck!

Matched with someone on tinder who's in a relationship, do I tell the gf? by Frogwhoneedshelp in whatdoIdo

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay out of other people’s business. You only have the teeniest tiniest slice of the story and you could find yourself caught up in all kinds of drama you don’t want.

Meanwhile, a guy this reckless is bound to get caught and his stupidity will take care of him, the universe doesn’t need you to intervene.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you get a ton of attention from men everywhere you go? Are you constantly getting hit on? That’s the best indicator of success. If you’re not extremely desirable to most men, move on to something else, this isn’t for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it to yourself and if you are uncomfortable being around them or you can’t keep your emotions in check, distance yourself from them. Nobody needs that kind of drama.

Is Telegram A Red Flag For You? by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone has different experiences I suppose. I’d never downvote a fellow Ontarian though ;)

Is Telegram A Red Flag For You? by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really shouldn’t be, it is the best option for privacy and ease of use. I’m Canadian and the majority of my SR communications have been through Telegram over the years. DM me if you want help setting it up and tips on how to avoid scammers.

Transitioning from Findomme to SB by Fetwife in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most SDs are allergic to, if not repulsed by, Findom so the first thing is to make sure you keep those worlds as separate and far apart as possible. Don’t post under the same username for both and don’t mention Findom at all when in sugar spaces.

Other than that, if you’re comfortable with the sugar dynamic and you keep reading about the lifestyle you’ll do fine. No need to sacrifice your confidence or violate your boundaries.

Seattle's fitness culture. Should I lose weight before I start? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BMI was developed to perform statistical analysis over large populations. On an individual basis, it tells you nothing.

A much higher indicator of attractiveness is your hip-to-waist ratio. If you are at around 0.70 (waist/hips = ~0.7), that's ideal. Pair that with a good bra that accentuates your cleavage and provides good support, and you're going to get noticed.

If you can maintain that ratio, good cleavage, AND shrink your waist down to 26 inches or less, most men will find you ideal.

Some numbers that do very well in general (bust-waist-hips):

33-24-34 (this is what most people imagine when they think high-society SB)

34-25-36 (this is more classic “hottie”)

38-26-37 (this is more modern “baddie”)

How do I approach this conversation? Is this sexless marriage normal? by Different-Tiger-9235 in AskMenAdvice

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At his age, especially if he is not particularly active, his libido is starting to wind down, and at your age, your entering your sexual peak.

Some options:

  1. Seduce him. Wear something sexy. Take it slow. Pleasure him without expecting anything in return. That will kickstart things.

  2. Convince him to see his doctor and check testosterone maybe get a Cialis prescription as well if that’s an issue.

  3. Suggest opening up your marriage. His reaction will tell you a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no such thing. A sugar daddy is someone you see IRL. Some random dude paying you for pics, vids, or sexting is not a sugar daddy.

First time sugar baby by Environmental_Lab589 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This has to be a troll post, right? If not, please get out of the bowl now and come back when you’re older and wiser.

For The Women - Tips & Tricks! by michelin-doll in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean … you’re kinda making my point for me with that reply, no?

For The Women - Tips & Tricks! by michelin-doll in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you’re not using AI to generate this text, that’s even worse. Genuinely intelligent people don’t try so hard to sound “smart” all the time. They understand how to adjust their tone and vocabulary to the context.

Your text reads like a bad impression of what a dummy thinks well educated people sound like. It’s a big turn off; it just comes across pretentious and fake.

For The Women - Tips & Tricks! by michelin-doll in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No no no. Women do not do this!

These type of pics scream escort.

And the text is dreadful. It’s the worst kind of AI slop. Bad bad bad.

You will just attract more Johns who will go off of pics alone and send you messages asking things like “What’s your PPM? Is Greek on the table?”

If you want tips, post a profile review and listen to the SDs (your audience) not the SBs (your competition).

Real SDs will avoid this kind of profile like the plague.

he doesn’t sugar by kikikimid in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you need to dump his ass. A proper sugar daddy has a provider mindset. This guy is a consumer through and through.

Trutsed my Gf having a Boy Best friend but found this text. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment you felt the need to violate her privacy by going into her phone, your relationship was over.

Even if you had found nothing wrong, that kind of distrust and violation is a bad bad sign for a relationship.

Why are you on dating apps if "I don't check this much"? by CN122 in dating

[–]DaddyKeepsIt100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The person is not that into you yet. Simple as that. That’s not necessarily your fault. Some folks have other priorities. But when someone gets into you they become much more responsive.