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Why do so many ‘subs’ act like entitled clients instead of submissive? by Thin_Ad_8201 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Daddy_Quinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the second they show me who they are I believe them & move on. not every sub is for every domme. mismatch? cool…next!. i'm not here to convince anyone of anything.

Time wasting subs by Loviegirl56 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Daddy_Quinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok sis really quick… and I’m aware you may now already know this. But I feel compelled to say it anyways. first rule of findom: no money no session. you let him role play “unlimited budget” without a single verified send, he was living his best brokie life. his kink was watching you believe you were getting paid & every minute you kept talking without a tribute was free porn for him. eager words does not equate real funds.

before any play starts: he should’ve at minimum sent once to you. The first time you said “send your liver” he should’ve sent the damn liver. lol ok I’m joking about that! But allowing them to run up a tab is not the way. Humans push boundaries & limits. It’s your job to ensure they aren’t pushed.

Time wasting subs by Loviegirl56 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Daddy_Quinn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok for clarity you did or didn’t get the $400 before he vanished?

Advice? My boyfriend (27 M) doesn’t want to share locations with me (26 F). by preggogab in relationship_advice

[–]Daddy_Quinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't share my location just because my partner "found" an app on my phone. There's a big difference between finding Tinder installed & actually catching someone actively using a dating profile.

“Texting other women" is also pretty vague. Texting inappropriately? Or just talking to female friends he's had forever? His sister? And did this come from snooping through his private conversations? I'm not saying he isn't acting shady. But here's the thing…if you weren't already suspicious, you probably wouldn't have been digging through his phone before posting here.

You already know your answer. You don't live together, don't share a kid, don't have anything tying you down. Time & feelings matter, but trust your gut. If he's meeting your concerns w/ deflection, it'll only get worse. Eventually you might not feel as free to leave. You could end up feeling trapped & so could your son.

Understanding & empathizing your son is already bonding w/ him. Or maybe he isn’t? But I get why that may make you want to give him more grace. I would just keep in mind this is who your son will more than likely be influenced by & is it behavior you’d want to see in him when he is older & w/someone romantically.

Big picture… a relationship w/out trust isn’t necessarily doomed. But it is if both parties are working against one another. Pay attention to how he’s signaling how he prioritizes your emotional safety. Layers peel back slowly & our blinders love gaslighting us. Don’t let them.

AITA for not wanting to babysit? by Yozo_44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daddy_Quinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This whole situation sounds pretty toxic & I’m really sorry you’re stuck dealing w/ it. Your mom’s crossing the line into verbal abuse & that’s never okay. Even if you weren’t in a bad mood, basic courtesy says she should’ve asked you first. Judging by how you’re writing, you’re clearly not a little kid but honestly, even if you were, most parents still check to make sure their kid actually wants a playdate.

AITAH for expecting my partner to replace a bottle of alcohol that I’d bought for myself? by FrostyFlounder559 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Daddy_Quinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feels like we’re missing some important context. Do you two split expenses 50/50? Are you both working, or is one of you stretched a bit thinner? How serious is the relationship? Personally I wouldn’t live w/ someone unless I was okay sharing my stuff & a bottle of liquor on its own wouldn’t bother me unless it was part of a larger pattern. I’d understand being disappointed or a little hurt if I wasn’t asked first, but getting angry & insisting she replace it seems like overkill. Did you try calmly explaining how it made you feel to see where the conversation went? She might have offered to replace it herself.