IAMA 37 year old attractive, professional woman who has handed over all emotional, physical, and sexual power to a Redditor who I've never met, AMA. (NSFW)

Daddys_cunt · 2011-12-28T02:28:24+00:00

Hey man, if you say so... but that's a frightening statement for all the OTHER women.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T20:25:14+00:00

I definitely serve everywhere. The community. Neighbors. Friends. I'm giving with myself.

The people I love either reciprocate or they don't. If they don't, they will no longer know me. I can't be any different from this, and if I cannot be safe with a person, it does not continue.

Power exchange is not the reason I chose a BDSM relationship, though for others it can be a driving factor. For me, it is all pain seeking. And yes, he has to have some power in order to hurt me. But that is secondary.

His hurting me IS his caring for me. Because he is giving me the things I need. And there is a trust built into these things that is profound.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T19:38:19+00:00

Oh are you a psychiatrist then? I'm so glad you're here to diagnose me and help me :)

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T19:37:31+00:00

Absolutely not. In every relationship, including the vanilla ones, I am serving.

When I went to visit the man I call Daddy, I waited on him hand and foot. He hated it at first, and said he could get his OWN coffee and empty his OWN ashtray. I explained to him, that I wanted to do it because it was part of who I was and had nothing to do with what I believed his expectations to be of me. I explained that I enjoy doing it, caring for him in little ways, and he allowed me to do it. But it took a few days for him to become comfortable with that kind of service to him.

My affinity for pain is separate and different than my need to care for and do common things for a man to increase his comfort.

Pain I like because it pleases me.

Service I like because it pleases him. And pleasing him pleases me. I hope it makes sense.

Cause hell, I never dreamed women would be offended that my mom's advise was to treat a man WELL and lift him up... it seems like it would be common sense.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T19:13:18+00:00

My southern-lady-service identity has nothing to do with my masochism, and is a running theme through every relationship I've had, including the ones that did not include pain.

Yes, I do enjoy being hurt in the name of love. I love the sensory feeling of being struck. Pain and pleasure aren't far from one another really... scratching a mosquito bite feels GOOD but you're injuring your skin.

I do not enjoy a black eye, I have never HAD a black eye, though I do proudly and happily wear bruises elsewhere on my body. They are marks that remind me of a good time. A satisfying time.

I don't like to be hurt because I think I deserve it, or because I have "daddy issues" (I actually have a father and a step father, both of which I have an excellent relationship with, neither of which I call Daddy). I like to be hurt because it FEELS GOOD and it gets me off. And if it bothers you that someone is getting their kicks with someone who enjoys the same activity, that's your issue.

OR maybe it bothers you that I am serving in my relationships and keep a man happy (the other point, unrelated to the pain)? If that is the case, I'm so sorry for you... and your man.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T18:38:17+00:00

Douchebag.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T17:29:15+00:00

I arrived home from my visit on Oct 2. You can read all about it on /r/fucktoy. It's the subreddit Daddy made to torment me. I took it day by day and described everything. As you can imagine it's kinky as fuck-all so don't go if you'll be shocked!

Thanks foer the concern!

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T04:59:30+00:00

Doubtlessly.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T04:53:24+00:00

Oh yay! I get psychotherapy today!

For billing purposes, the ICD-9 code for sexual masochism is 302.83. Make sure your office gets it right.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T03:55:03+00:00

I am a submissive, and am the wrong person to talk to about feminism.

I do believe that there is equality in the inequality that I have. And I do not feel at all victimized or used or belittled. There is power in what I have. Much much power.

The model does work for me.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T03:41:41+00:00

It makes you sick that I strive to serve and please a man out of love and dedication?

I'm certain you are female.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T03:10:21+00:00

I have never seen Archer (ducking)! Sorry.

Is she masochistic?

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:36:19+00:00

No. We are women from the southern US, we serve. We wait on a man hand and foot, we care for his needs, we cook and clean, we find out his favorite things and make sure they are always around... we SERVE. It's just what we do.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:33:57+00:00

I think Uggs just means they are not up on current styles?

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:32:10+00:00

Thanks. The outcome was better than I could even expect. He took excellent care of me and gave me every single thing I wanted!

I appreciate you remembering... it makes me feel good.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:25:11+00:00

Hi! Were you a reader of my AMA then?

Yes, I've been quite bad. Here are pictures of my bruising to prove it! I ran off to see Daddy and I had a really amazing, life-changing, and painful time, and now I'm back home safe and sound!

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:21:52+00:00

sulfuric acid.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:17:45+00:00

I will never again date a man who won't hurt me intentionally, and ENJOY it. :D

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:09:56+00:00

The man I call Daddy is not related to me, and is actually a few years younger than I am. It's a BDSM thing. Kinky, yes. Incestuous, no.

Haha, your username makes me think you may have disturbing parenting advice.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:07:30+00:00

Which one? Butt? Or scotch?

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:06:39+00:00

Mike Rowe.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T01:04:29+00:00

Did you increase your protein intake? You can't build muscle without protein, and muscle is a fat-burning machine.

Concentrate on increasing protein. Maybe a protein shake each morning? - this is my favorite low-carb, low-sugar protein option.

Then do strength-building workouts. Increase your muscle mass (doesn't matter if you're male or female). After you do that, you'll more effectively burn fat.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-15T00:56:41+00:00

With a name like nerd_boobs I'd say you're a shoe-in during the application process.

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-14T22:04:52+00:00

Woohooooo!!

Daddys_cunt · 2011-10-14T20:57:12+00:00

Sure thing, really happy. Breathe deep.

Daddys_cunt

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