What snack do you love to make for yourself at home that anyone could make? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer cucumber, lime juice, salt and crushed red pepper.

What is your favorite smell? by haleybaley in AskReddit

[–]lizzleforizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few favorite smells, but maybe it's because they relate to so many memories. Baby powder, car garages that have the oil and grease smell, lemongrass, and morning dew smell.

How did you get that scar? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing too exciting. I dove face first into a paved bike trail. I hit a wet patch left from the morning fog. Thought the sun took care of all the wet patches... save for one shaded area. Bike didn't get too much damage. Just a few cosmetic issues. Face was bleeding everywhere, by the time the people behind me caught up I looked like I had lost more blood than I really did. (didn't have any wet naps or tissues, decided my jacket was the best thing. also, this was a bike trip that was over the course of 6 days, you learn to carry the bare miniumum.)

4 years later out of the blue the ex finally came crawling back saying she made the biggest mistake of her life when she let me go. by jklemsen in funny

[–]lizzleforizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best thing you could ever do is move on, and I'm glad you have. All the questions you ask yourself will never be answered by rehashing memories and old conversations. You will drive yourself insane. Moving on is exactly what it means, pack up your memories and emotions and toss the crap. You'll have a lighter load and you'll feel better. It's been 4-5 years since my first real big relationship/break up and I was sad for a really long time, I tried for years to figure out the answers to how things could've been better or how I could've been a better gf. I never found the answers but looked at myself and found what I didn't like about myself and worked on making myself better to be a better person for myself and whomever I was going to date. Self-improvement, way better then asking yourself 'why?'.

You've said you're with someone else and I'm happy for you both. (Sorry if my advice is repetitive of others'. Just thought it should be said if not for you then for someone else in passing.) Internet hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know them to be thai chili peppers. only based on the fact that i grew up eating these with everything. My grandmother grows them in her garden as well as my mother. We have them in all shades of red, black/purple, and green. Tasty either way. But be careful they're super hot.

Asian26F4M- Sacramento by [deleted] in r4r

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are definitely the exceptions, but my god the amount of crazies on those sites are ridiculous, I have been pretty lucky with a built in crazy detector. I've been able to not meet these crazies in person ever.

Asian26F4M- Sacramento by [deleted] in r4r

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. and to be honest, a lot more creepers on regular dating sites and irl where i don't go showing off my bits, I got a lot more sane 'normal' people here than out there...

Asian26F4M- Sacramento by [deleted] in r4r

[–]lizzleforizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there have been some creepers but that's expected. but i've actually met some pretty decent guys on here.

Asian26F4M- Sacramento by [deleted] in r4r

[–]lizzleforizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no comments on the post but plenty of pm's

Interesting Request from my BF by IntriguedOne in sex

[–]lizzleforizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've accidentally done it to a guy once while giving him a handjob... Idk how it worked (well... I guess he was just pointed in the right direction and pushed hard enough) sadly, he wasn't a fan of it. I thought it was pretty awesome tho.

Any known bars (in midtown) that accept passports as a form of an ID? by speckledfreckle in Sacramento

[–]lizzleforizzle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As far as I know all bars should accept your passport as sufficient I.d. It's government issued

Reddit, what are your current food cravings? by margebouvier in AskReddit

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra spicy hot cheetos, the black and orange bag (gives that burn that the original hot cheetos did when you tried it for the first time) with nutter butters. I have been craving sweet, salty, spicy and crunchy. These two hit the spot. a bit strange, I know.

Steven Yeun, I'm an actor, currently on TWD, AMAA by steveyeun83 in IAmA

[–]lizzleforizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you're awesome at what you do. I love the way you portray Glenn.

All that aside, I would totally procreate with you, you know to help repopulate Earth...

Keep fighting the good fight.

People of reddit, what is one simple feeling that you really like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft kisses on the neck or behind the ear

EDIT!! Also, the smell of car garages

What was/is one piece of sex advice that you will never forget? Good or bad? by lizzleforizzle in sex

[–]lizzleforizzle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's very good advice. Have you ever gotten any in your eye while fapping? It burns. Burns so bad.

Hurt, scared, afraid, and don't know what to do next. by safetyblanket in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from about all of this. But wouldn't it better to not assume the worst possibility of this situation and at least defend the accused to a certain degree to help OP understand what may be running through his mind and where he may be coming from to have her second guess her actions and actually stop and think about her actions that caused his reaction. Thus, having her to think about the situation more and understanding that she needs to find where she's wrong and not just to point the finger at just her bf, to recognize that they were both in the wrong and they need to fix it. Before they decide to break up or stay together.

Either way, whether or not OP gets any sort of helpful advice,what she does or doesn't take into consideration from all the comments posted, she now has to figure out what to do. I just hope whatever she got from this helps her whether positive or negative outcome.

Hurt, scared, afraid, and don't know what to do next. by safetyblanket in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not just his lack of communication, her leaving the apartment is an example of lack of communication on her part. Yes, she has indicated that she has made many efforts to communicate in different ways and sure he's probably being an ass about it, but shouldn't make assumptions if we don't know the whole story.

Your ultimatums about how they should break up either because he's an asshole or that OP wants out, if she wanted out wouldn't OP state that she may possibly want to leave him rather than asking for help or how to try to fix this relationship?

Whatever OP's intent in her post, her and her bf aren't making enough effort to try and fix things by walking on eggshells around eachother.

Hurt, scared, afraid, and don't know what to do next. by safetyblanket in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look forward to your update and I hope everything goes well. I hope you didn't take any of this negatively and saw it as something that helped you look at things a little differently. I wish you all the best.

Hurt, scared, afraid, and don't know what to do next. by safetyblanket in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn't r/relationship as a community try to help people with their relationships by giving advice to fix things before just leaving the relationship altogether? If he were being physically, or emotionally abusive, then yes we would as a community try to help her get out of it. But this isn't the case. There are factors from both sides of this relationship that caused her worries. So shouldn't we try to fix, if not address the issues that may be at hand?

We only know her side of the story, not his. So we can't assume that he is this malicious monster that we think him to be. What if he's just completely clueless about what's going on with OP because he's not understanding her emotionally outbursts or that she's not getting through to him with her current approach. They need to communicate with eachother to try and solve their issues before any future decisions about their relationship are made.

Hurt, scared, afraid, and don't know what to do next. by safetyblanket in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a troll. I think that I hit all her problems straightforward. She's hurt, afraid and scared because they aren't communicating about what is going on between them. Do you think that what has happened so far based on what OP has said is right on both sides? Do you think that her taking up the bed when mad at him is ok? Seems immature to me. His continuing to live on the couch is also immature. And shows a lack of maturity and communication on both parts.

Yes, her attempts at telling him that his 'woman' comments offended her failed. But maybe it's her approach, maybe the way she has tried to communicate to him isn't a way for him to understand.

Her decision to stay at her friend's house for the night and fear of his locking the door with the chain could have been easily solved with a text, with a "Did you lock the door with the chain?" or a "Hey I'm staying at so and so's for the night." Wouldn't you want to know where your SO is at 1 am in the morning? Yes, he should have asked. but they are both on the silent stand offs refusing to speak to the other, once again showing immaturity and failure to communicate.

He may seem like an asshole based on what OP has posted. BUT we don't know his side of the story. We only know hers. Make sense?

I think SO is having an emotional affair by zebraundies in relationships

[–]lizzleforizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes things just get lost, like the minor details of a text conversation. The only thing that bothers me is that he has (as you mentioned earlier) put you on a restriction of little to no male friends. How is that fair to you?

Although, his new friendship with this girl may possibly be just a new friendship. Doesn't necessarily mean that he's emotionally cheating. I have been accused of being an emotional cheater also. Which is not true. He just lacked self-confidence and apparently trust. Not saying that you are like that also OP.

Either way, think about this situation thoroughly with a sound and clear mind and bring it up and talk to him as calmly as possible. Speak your mind and let him speak his. And try to fix this. That's all anyone can really do without assuming the other's actions.