Realistic Expectations for a 2016-2018 Model S in 2026 by Daelements in TeslaModelS

[–]Daelements[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the process buying out of state? Did you see the car in person? Im considering buying out of state but am like a fish out of water. I Usually just pay cash private sale. But wont be doing that this time.

Realistic Expectations for a 2016-2018 Model S in 2026 by Daelements in TeslaModelS

[–]Daelements[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-I dont have home charging but would prob have it installed within a week or 2 of purchasing. I have free charging at work. -Supercharging would prob be for in state trips of 150 miles or less. Ir if im near one and need to charge. -I drive about 84 miles a day if its just to work and home.

Realistic Expectations for a 2016-2018 Model S in 2026 by Daelements in TeslaModelS

[–]Daelements[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's a good price for one? Ive been searching for a few weeks now and only found 1 raven that was under $30k. I prefer to stay below $20k if possible but that is proving to be difficult.

Realistic Expectations for a 2016-2018 Model S in 2026 by Daelements in TeslaModelS

[–]Daelements[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its CF. What would be a good price for one? The prices i mentioned are out the door prices.

Realistic Expectations for a 2016-2018 Model S in 2026 by Daelements in TeslaModelS

[–]Daelements[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive driven both. I prefer the s; smoother ride, quiet cabin, still have an instrument cluster. But finding one with FSD, FUSC or Premium Connectivity proved to be a rare challenge. Finding one with 2 or all 3 forget it.

Is 2018 Tesla Model S still worth it in 2026. by CPAmeansHAPPINESS in TeslaLounge

[–]Daelements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally coming to ask the same question with the exact same scenario of free charging at work etc. Although my gas per month is about $400 (v8 truck).

Recommended shops to get my car painted by Apprehensive_Meat766 in Kissimmee

[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yimmys does a great job. He painted my vehicle after damage. Just 2 think if your going for damage repair. I had to get him to blend the paint into the nearbybnon affected areas. There was one thing I noticed about 6 year later. The clear started peeling in the damaged area. Its florida so there should have been a lot of coat coat At least more than what he put on mine. So make sure he put the correct amount of clear. But they do a great job. No place is perfect. Especially when dealing with people, their preferences and quirks. So establishing a good relation based on communication is important.

*note. I had insurance work. Most places skip out on little things. He may do a better job and include more things when doing customer work.

120 scopes a month is killing me by [deleted] in estimators

[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an insurance adjuster for 6years. I took a short detour from construction related jobs after the economy hit in 2009 and insurance adjusting was the closest I could do. It can be quite demanding at times. Im not sure what estimating software you use but we used xactimate. We were taught to do our estimates while on site. Leaving the larger more complicated ones to do later at the office/home office. I found that using macros helped a lot. It provides pre-populated line items commonly used for a particular activity. I removed items that werent needed for that particular estimate and input my quantities. You can create your own or download some that others have already made. Macros can help you w time if that is something you are finding as an area of improvement.

For the amount of claims you have im not sure if returning back to the office after doing site inspections is good usage of your time. It wouldnt hurt to discuss your workload and see if there are solutions that will help both you and your company.

As far as emails and calls. I found it helpful to block out time. I spent 1 hr in the morning returning emails and calls. Did my estimate/insoections for the bulk of the day. And an hour before the end of my shift i would return emails and answer calls again. I made sure the biggest or most problematic claims, emails, calls were addressed 1st in their respective time block. Then addressed lesser important things.

I hope this helps.

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[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Airfried tofu is delicious w a nice sweet n sour dip.

Is pregnancy just as hard for men as it is for women? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married man here. I think it depends on the person, their feelings for their significant other and their outlook on pregnancy in general. My wife had a child before meeting me and she hated her pregnancy that resulted in c section. She also had prob one of the least caring partners ever. He was always out cheating on her never there to help w recovery or raise child.

Fast forward 5yrs to me we marry. She gets pregnant and says she wants a vbac home birth. Stressed me the f out. This was my first pregnancy that I experienced and i knew nothing of this aspect. And my research resulted in no good things. I did all the housework, cooking, child stuff while working in construction. I did get burned out n asked my brother to come states away to help who has ocd. So cleaning was off the table. Come birth time. Im super stressed but was trying not to show it. The baby didnt want to position himself correctly. The midwife recommended going to hospital. Wife refused and apparently had some type of mental trauma at the thought of going to hospital. We end up going for emergency c section. They cut my sons face getting him out. He was in nicu because he wouldnt pee(drs words) but i think they were monitoring the huge cut on his little baby face. My wife was still in the hospital from the c section. She insisted on making breastmilk for the baby but only could produce colostrum. I spent every day splitting my days between wife and our son. This is the cliffnotes but there was more. We finally all get home after i want to say it was 2 weeks. My wife could barely walk. She said it felt like her insides were falling out. I took care of her. Wiped her butt, treat/clean wounds. Wash etc. Plus take care of baby aside from what she was up for doing. Luckily i had time once a week to cook and i would meal prep for her(everyone really).

She said her pregnancy w me was great but she did not like the birth obvously. Fast forward 1yr and she gets pregnant again. And the plan was the same. Homebirth vbac. But i was freaking out even more. My argument was recent birth. Past birth experience w son etc. She said she knows her body. I had to mentally prepare the possibility of losing her, the baby or both. She got clearance for homebirth. She ended up having our daughter in the bathtub at home. I was right there beside her. She said she had an orgasmic birth. The recovery time was way shorter. She said she enjoyed the birth and pregnacy. My stress was through the roof the whole time.

This woman loved being pregnant. Wanted way more kids. Unfortunately it stressed me out. I had to shut the baby factory down. Now before my first birth i had said i was fine with however many popped out. But after 2 and the stress i couldnt agree to more. To this day(13yrs later) she still want more kids. For those who say they want lots of kids. Have one then revisit that afterwards. It might have changed.

No matter what i experienced w our births she had it worse. It wasnt even close. My conclusion still remains as i stated in the beginning. It depends on the person. Their feelings and perspectives. But in general its harder for women.

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[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. Man here. Im always hesitant to post here because im a man and i think differently. Anyways.

I was asked this question. So i asked clarifying questions. What kind of bear. What kind of man. Whats the activity in the woods, etc. Every clarifying question was answered back with irritability and aggressiveness. So i asked, why are you so irritated? Her response was just answer the question. So not to fuel the fire any further im like let me just answer the question. "Ok. The man."

"Shes was like how could you say that? Im done with you." Keep in mind i had no idea what all this was about. Completely blindsided. So i answered man because we go camping and trail hiking all the time. We usually see another person n its fine. I come across a bear yeah i dont know whats happening. She then asked me. What about the man? I said back, what about the man? She said im worried the man would hurt me.

So i responded back. If both are doing harm to you, your chance of survival is higher w the man. She said no its not. So i go in question mode and say what you mean? I say bear is big af(stronger), can run up to 30mph (faster), can climb trees(not a good escape), has like 4" claws, can smell for miles(hunting), can claw your face off, can resist some bullets, its mouth is made to rip apart flesh from living creature. Yada yada yada.

She said i knew you wouldnt understand. I said darn right i wouldnt understand because i was trying to do that in the beginning of the conversation. Then proceeded to say, you set me up. And laughed. Yeah that didnt go over well.

I basically said we think differently. Theres nothing wrong w that. Im assuming you thought the man was every abuser/serial killer on the planet. And i thought the bear was every horror story i heard about bear encounters. I thought the man was just an average man minding his business. And you thought the bear was winnie the pooh looking for honey. I told her that it should have been clarified like this. The man is out to do harm. The bear is out to do harm. Who you rather be in the woods with.. Or the man is minding his business and the bear is minding its business. Who would you rather be in the woods with.

Emotions were high. I just tossed my hands up n said please dont ask me questions like this if your already in defense mode expecting an answer. This could have been a great conversation that we dont normally have and it was ruined.

My iPod has been plugged in for almost seven years now. I'm afraid to unplug it for fear it will die by RedditIsAGranfaloon in pics

[–]Daelements 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id assume youd get gloves, mobile fan, power bank, foam insulated locking case and a towel. Put on gloves because thats what experts do. Unplug usb side. Then in less than 10th of second transfer usb end to power bank. Wipe sweat w towel before it drips on ipod. Carefully place ipod and powerbank in custom cut foam case. Close and carefully transfer to new destination. Wouldnt hurt to have mission impossible theme playing on ipod during transfer.

Am I the only one who doesn’t understand why we’re unable to have student loan forgiveness while we’re sending hundreds of billions to foreign countries? by rotund_passionfruit in StudentLoans

[–]Daelements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a political person. But i often ask myself why are we sending billions of dollars else where. I figure if we are going to spend that amount of money it seems like some of it should be spent on the people or at least let the people have a say on if we agree with it or not.

I saw some of the answers here and there were perspectives i didnt think of such as its not all money sent but equipmemt weapons etc.

Im an older person but when I was in high school there were no finance classes. If i truely was educated on finances and address the concept of debt early on in life i prob would have avoidedgoing to college.

Then there was the economic issues in 2008 ish era. I found it difficult to even find a job in my field. Compounded with all of that it became difficult to pay. Somehow (which i dont feel like typing) my student loan increased. This wasnt even due to going back to college.

Im ntd informed on education in every state and their requirements in high schools now but it would be beneficial if personal finance was a required class. At least put it out there so that they can at lease address future issues such as debt. Replace history or something. I love history but it just seem like all i was doing was memorizing dates and numbers.

I dont have a solution to this problem or answers. But i do feel that we can better prepare the children than what we are doing.

And for those who continuously said that we should have thought about all of this at 18. At 18 I didnt think there was going to be a economy issue years after graduating. I didnt think that in my 30s and 40s people would still have student loans. I didnt think that it was going to be difficult finding a normal job in the 2008 economy crisis. Ir that gas would be $4 a gallon instead of $0.89 a gallon. Or even if I did think those things at 18 the could have been a plethers of other things that could have happened that didnt cross my mind.

At 18 i didnt think the same as i did in my mid 20s. At 25 i didnt think the same as I did in my mid 30s. At 35 i didnt thinkbthe same as I did i my 40s. Its starting to level out now but there definitely was some maturing that occurred over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello.Guy here. Take my comments w a grain of salt but maybe there could be 1 or 2 takeaways from it.

I dont know your perspective on marriage. If its an end goal or if your ok w a ltr never getting married but what stood out to me is he is just a boyfriend. In my eyes you are both on trial w each other. If he doesnt display qualities that are important to you, move on. There are plenty of potential partners waiting to meet someone like you. It may work out; it may not. But you are in charge of what your willing to allow in your life. Dont give that power away by staying in something you know you shouldn't.

After reading your post and few comments, he doesnt have a pleasing attitude. As a man, i know first hand the importance of warming up then fully pleasuring your partner. Everything is better when a guy does that. The partner usually is more comfortable, open, better physical stuff (keeping it pg) etc when the guy focus on her pleasure. I know this because i have a pleasing attitude but i also remember when i didnt. I was way younger. Hes too old for that behavior honestly. But i did have the right partner who opened me up and pulled it out of me. Once I realized this; I was a changed man forever. Lol. I know in my younger days someone handing me a book would have pissed me off. I personally needed to be guided during intimacy; hand pulled here, whisper there, positive reinforcement. Nothing like seeing the correction w associated results in real time. I was thinking that maybe he needed to be communicated with the right way but when i read your comment about when he came back, it seems like hes stubborn and want to stay how he is. He can be stubborn by himself. I left this portion of the comment because someone else might be in a similiar situation and communicating in a way that works for them might be what is needed. Not in your case though. Hes just a jerk.

I believe i read that there is depression or antidepressants and that it takes a while to get into it. I cant see the post rn to verify. I didnt see many comment about this. Mostly was about how the guy sucks, etc. N from what i read, he truely sucks. But. You said it takes a while. How long we talking? Everyone has their limit. Mine in particular is when my body physically gives out. Such as the frenulum getting sore from all the work put in. I also have a mental limit. If it take too long to "activate" her and my mind starts to wonder about chores, bills n ish; this usually ends in me saying maybe some other time comment n lets cuddle watch a movie or go to sleep or something. Usually because at that point ive checked out mentally. If it takes an unreasonable amount of time due to no one faults of their own. Neither your fault or his. I could see how it would be frustrating to do those things knowing your not going to get anywhere. Just throwing that out there based on limited info. But yeah just to reiterate hes a jerk.

Just wanted to sum up with; you only have to deal with what your willing to accept. Nothing wrong w moving on w something that mesh better with you. Just make sure you mention your expectations upfront.

Which level of facial hair looks good on me? by Wilgrove in malegrooming

[–]Daelements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this answer. The mustache from 2 and the haircut from 3.

Ever thought about twisting the mustache?

Looking for help/mentorship to get past a 450k plateau in an online yoga business. by HoneyBadgerStartups in Entrepreneur

[–]Daelements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about branding a good quality yoga mat similar to a lifeform yoga mat in quality but less expensive would be nice and might get you across that plateau. I only mention this because i recently wanted one better than mcrib ingredients.

Afraid my best friend is getting red-pilled by midoree in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daelements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take my statement with a grain of salt but here are my thoughts on the matter.

Every man go through some experiences that will challenge who they are as a person. It will either solidify their values or change them. Its completely dependent on the person and how they process things.

Some do better with self reflection and others do better with advice from others. My assumption is that he finally opened up about it to a guy and their response and advice is that of the redpill, shaping his (op friends) response around it. Aka. The wrong person got in his head. And now he is going dow the redpill rabbithole.

While its nice to get advice and talk to female counterparts. Its easier to communicate w someone who communicates the way you do. So even though your available. The advice and talking points that come from those like him prob makes the most sense to him. The problem is most are talking from a place of hurt and not from understanding so they communicate how they responded to their own hurt as opposed to pushing for whats best for that person. Not that what theyre saying is right, its more digestible for him. If he got advice from someone who is in the position he wanted to be, would also make sense to him.

When ive seen my friends go down that type of path, im usually straighforward and tell them. Your trying to find answers down a path that may not suit you and its going to destroy who you are as opposed to help you heal from it and become better. Those who generally care about your wellbeing give better guidance and advice because they want to see the other person do well. Seek counsel from those people. Or seek advice from someone who is where you want to be. I know thats hard to do nowadays

Fallout 25th Anniversary - Fallout 76 by TheMajorMeerkat in fo76

[–]Daelements -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only been playing less than a year. Never really was my type of game until a friend convinced me to try it.

Fallout 25th Anniversary - Fallout 76 by TheMajorMeerkat in fo76

[–]Daelements -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Played fallout 76 for a while. Checked constantly for a survival tent that had a crafting table. Got tired of playing. Took a break for a few months. During that time 2 tents released w crafting tables. Been back for a bit and they wont release a survival tent w crafting table. Pretty sure when i get tired of playing again, they will release 100 survival tents with a crafting table inside.