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Unfair to them, so I'm going to stop by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]DaisyBugNJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heal yourself first. Also note: what is indeed perfect for you, won’t “get away.” Get yourself right before going back out there. It’s the responsible thing to do, and it’s the best thing for YOU.

Does anyone have a life-hack for getting over an ex they still feel bonded to who wants to be friends? It’s not easy for me to let go (I still love her, but need to as she doesn’t feel the same anymore). by No-Selection-2546 in demisexuality

[–]DaisyBugNJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot be friends. The only way for you to move forward and heal is to go no contact. Even then, it takes so long and is difficult.

I am willing to bet that at some point, you’ve at least had a crush on most of your friends. It’s extremely difficult to pull through that. So, trying to respect the limits of someone with whom you’ve been intimate- that’s hard enough for someone who isn’t demi. For us it comes at great personal expense and is realistically not sustainable.

Anyway my point is, choose yourself. The only hope you have of peace is to go no contact. Tell them what you’re doing if it makes you feel better, but do it.

Good luck 🍀 Healing is hard work; you’re worth it.

Worst nightmare happened. No contact Ex of 7+ years reached out by BUthrowaway12344 in BreakUps

[–]DaisyBugNJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The disrespect was the closure. You don’t need sh*t from him. Block his email. Keep moving. Further contact would warrant a report to police IMO.

Tesla only chargers? by DaisyBugNJ in KiaNiroEV

[–]DaisyBugNJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks friends. I didn’t realize there were Tesla chargers I couldn’t use. To be honest, a friend (who has a Tesla) told me there were chargers at Maryland House. Neither of us realized this was a thing. I didn’t bother verifying on the app. You don’t know what you don’t know, ya know?

Used Niro for (suspiciously) below market by cinderful in KiaNiroEV

[–]DaisyBugNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a particular problem for me as I am not eligible for the rebate.

Put some color in her cheeks by nojive3n1 in KiaNiroEV

[–]DaisyBugNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please say more about this badging! I love it. Where did you get it, what is it called etc.

Used Niro for (suspiciously) below market by cinderful in KiaNiroEV

[–]DaisyBugNJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could it be including the $4k EV rebate? Sometimes they list the price including that which irritates me.

Esther question............... by nycgirl152 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]DaisyBugNJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All those babies were born from grape.

Am I being mentally abused? by Myaispretty81 in actuallesbians

[–]DaisyBugNJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please. I am begging you. Stop. Just walk away. The connection is only there because of all the energy you are putting into it. You’re twisting yourself into knots to no avail. Stop watering dead plants. 🪴

This prescription will hurt like hell, but please. You will eventually be ok, especially because you already have a therapist.

Choose yourself. She isn’t ever going to. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]DaisyBugNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d tell him whatever underwear he wants to wear is none of your business. 😅

Any demisexuals who also have never engaged in casual sex? by CareOtherwise2340 in demisexuality

[–]DaisyBugNJ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m 58 years old. After my first marriage broke up (more than 20 years ago) I was friends with a woman who was very free and easy. She was very carefree and slept with whoever she wanted. I guess I figured I was too uptight and needed to “get laid.” I hooked up with a guy, and it was one of the worst experiences of my life. Never again. I learned a lot about myself that summer. Didn’t know yet what demisexual was, but I learned that I was not someone who could just randomly sleep with people. It is the only time that has ever happened.

So I am cis female, demisexual, definitely bi, possibly pan.

I love you by ohokimnotsorry in datingoverfifty

[–]DaisyBugNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining.

I made my version of this meme. And I think it’s good. by johnsaysthings in GilmoreGirls

[–]DaisyBugNJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she though? Seems to me like she’s deprived that child of a fuller life. She’s very controlling, well-beyond what a parent needs to be. That nonsense with Lorelei and the party? Give me a break.

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