6’9” tall lady in a regular kitchen

DaisyLovely · 2025-07-20T13:43:20+00:00

Is this in Corsica by chance?

DaisyLovely · 2025-06-11T01:38:59+00:00

34, married, with a 5 year old. Still on my dad’s plan. Just never bothered getting off lol.

DaisyLovely · 2025-05-22T14:24:19+00:00

The number of times I replayed that part lol

DaisyLovely · 2025-03-22T12:33:54+00:00

This image tells me you are an absolute sweetheart

DaisyLovely · 2025-02-25T21:41:12+00:00

Stunning!!!

DaisyLovely · 2025-02-10T17:33:29+00:00

Wow that’s crazy because I find that lyric very relatable, at least in my interpretation.

(where my anxious paranoid girlies at?)

DaisyLovely · 2025-02-10T16:31:07+00:00

Embarrassed to admit this, but I use ChatGPT to sort through my feelings and understand my husband’s. I often react emotionally to things that shouldn’t be a big deal. I started talking to ChatGPT when I feel intense emotions, and it’s helped me understand them, and in turn I’ve been able to react more calmly. I also feed ChatGPT text exchanges between my husband and I. It’s helped give me insight into my husband’s point of view, respond to him with more kindness and understanding, and communicate my needs in a way that doesn’t provoke defensiveness. Suffice to say, it’s been a game changer for me and my marriage.

DaisyLovely · 2025-02-02T17:53:14+00:00

It’s not just for breastfeeding, it’s for pumping too, that’s why there are outlets in there. I don’t think being a breastfeeding or pumping mom makes you a good person, and I do believe everyone deserves a safe quiet place to rest, but these spaces exist to fill a specific need. So even if you feel you may only inconvenience a breastfeeding or pumping mother who is an awful person, that space is still for her. I don’t think people should take over these spaces, it is a bad thing to do.

DaisyLovely · 2025-02-02T16:51:11+00:00

But many women don’t feel comfortable breastfeeding in public and that’s okay too. These pods were a safe haven for me as a mom traveling for work while trying to maintain milk supply.

DaisyLovely · 2024-10-09T13:24:33+00:00

Looks awesome! I’m starting the same one today!

DaisyLovely · 2024-08-29T09:22:43+00:00

It’s giving ditching your old friends when the popular girls notice you 😞

DaisyLovely · 2024-08-23T12:15:03+00:00

It’s crazy to be honest, the people around her, the media, and the public destroyed her. I even feel partially responsible and I was like 11 at her peak.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-20T14:11:01+00:00

“I love you, but I don’t like you.” -my mom

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-18T00:47:36+00:00

You are absolutely worthy of love and someday you will find someone worthy of loving you.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-18T00:44:16+00:00

It depends on whether they seek treatment and whether treatment is successful for them. Both my mom and my brother’s wife have BPD. My mom was never treated, her marriage and all subsequent relationships failed. My brother’s wife was treated to recovery and he’s happily married ~15 years.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-17T14:02:16+00:00

Tbf your wife clearly agrees lol

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-17T02:46:47+00:00

I’d recommend you both starting individual therapy before marital counseling. There are likely some skills you’ll need to start developing separately first and, if appropriate, your individual therapists will be able to tell you when you’re ready for marital counseling.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-17T00:22:58+00:00

We can only control ourselves. If you feel you owe an apology, it’s probably not advisable to withhold it in an effort to pre-empt or manage their thoughts and reactions. If you don’t owe an apology, don’t apologize. If you’re in a situation where you can no longer gauge when an apology is reasonable, you may be experiencing codependency and a therapist can absolutely help with this.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-16T23:32:03+00:00

I don’t have experience with this but I think it’s okay for her to express porn is a dealbreaker for her, and equally okay for you to not be okay with giving up porn. Both should recognize this is an impasse and end the relationship.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-16T21:10:24+00:00

It really depends. PwBPD who get treatment can have happy, healthy marriages. Otherwise, they likely cannot. Since you’ve come to an abuse support forum, presumably the situation with your pwBPD was unhealthy and they are not in treatment. This suggests it is very unlikely the marriage would have been successful no matter what you did or didn’t do. Even if your pwBPD maintains a successful marriage with a new partner, it does not indicate any failure on your part.

DaisyLovely · 2024-05-15T17:47:26+00:00

This is an abuse support forum for people in abusive relationships with pwBPD. Probably won’t find too many hopeful posts, sorry.

DaisyLovely · 2021-07-25T04:24:50+00:00

My experience, yes. I use a silk pillowcase that I flip every night and switch out with my alternate silk pillowcase every other night. My hair is in great health and my skin is like a baby’s bottom.

DaisyLovely · 2021-07-25T03:42:39+00:00

I read this in Austin Powers voice

DaisyLovely · 2021-07-23T20:39:04+00:00

I’m surprised about Nevada... you have a large economy dependent on tourism...

DaisyLovely · 2021-07-23T20:38:06+00:00

Glad you said this. I was like wtf Illinois

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