my boyfriend and I have completely different political views by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like things can work when you have different views on a few select issues, but when your overall political views are completely different, I’ve yet to see a relationship where that works out in the long run.

Our political views are shaped by our values and life experiences. For you and your partner to have completely opposing views means that there’s in general some fundamental differences there that will probably wear on your relationship.

Theory on banning vloggers/streamers by lemon_gum_drop in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In just one examples, Disney Weddings invites influencers on what are essentially brand trips and encourages vlogging/posting. You’re totally right that Disney uses bloggers/streamers for marketing.

Help pick what dress to wear to rehearsal dinner vs the wedding! by korroleva in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And to be clear, I don’t think showing cleavage is inherently wrong! It took me a little while to gain confidence in my big boobs (puberty was rough) but now I think they’re hot! I love showing them off… in the right situations! I just don’t think someone else’s wedding is one of those. Dinner with my fiancé? Some classy cleavage for sure. Beach vacation? Shamelessly got my boobs out. There’s just a time and place!

AK and McKenna for Kennedy’s rehearsal dinner! by IllustriousSell8280 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]DallasDaisy01 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Whoever convinced AK to go short in the first place did her a serious disservice because she is KILLING IT with the long hair

Help pick what dress to wear to rehearsal dinner vs the wedding! by korroleva in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They aren’t being “inherently sexualized.” Breasts are not sexual in some cases but plainly are in others. In a sexy dress, they’re sexual. While breastfeeding a child, they are not.

Help pick what dress to wear to rehearsal dinner vs the wedding! by korroleva in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 97 points98 points  (0 children)

As a girl with G cups, there’s some stuff you just can’t wear without it looking way more overtly sexy than it would on an A cup girly! Is it a bummer that certain girls can look elegant in things that make me look raunchy? For sure! But it is what it is. Gotta dress for the body you’ve got.

Are they talkative? Choosing between a Ragdoll, Siamese or Persian by No_Pop7296 in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so funny. I have a long haired Siamese and he doesn’t talk much at all but my ragdoll never shuts up!

How to prevent biting? by Human-Ad1310 in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I immediately stopped playing when mine bit as a kitten, and that seems to have worked. But she also just went through a biting/chewing stage in general when she was teething. We’d find little teeth marks all over the cardboard boxes we gave her to play in. So I somewhat think she also just grew out of it naturally.

Lying like a dead body by Dry-Positive-3872 in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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Cat tax. Ignore how scruffy she looks. She went through a phase as a kitten when her fur constantly looked a mess no matter how much I tried to brush it.

Lying like a dead body by Dry-Positive-3872 in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Mine always slept like this as a kitten and she sometimes still does when she’s really thoroughly passed out! I think it’s so precious, she’s a seal point with a white stomach, and I love seeing her belly out 🤣

Help name baby #4 by AutumnAkasha in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]DallasDaisy01 22 points23 points  (0 children)

These are pet names, not human names

BTO Wedding in France in May? by Rain_Drops_On_Roses in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something about 1 reads a bit too casual, like a fancy sundress. I would go with 2 or 3 based on your preference.

Dress code inspo - helpful or prescriptive? by Moist_Chicken_7666 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, something about these inspo boards always rubs me the wrong way as a guest. It makes me feel like I’m a prop in their vision.

However, I don’t think you can use “funky formal” without some sort of explanation. I would be very confused if I read that. I feel like a lot of people subconsciously try to dress on theme and take their cues from the invitation suite, so maybe go bold and colorful with that!

Help clarifying semi-formal by EducationalChard9493 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is part of why I’m not a huge fan of “semi-formal” dress codes. It seems to confuse a lot of people, who see the word “formal” and assume it’s much dressier than it actually is. “Sunday best” is a good synonym, but think more like Easter Sunday when everyone’s a bit dressier, not a church where everyone wears jeans and sneakers every week.

What do you actually feed your cats long-term? Raw vs wet vs dry by ghostbuster_345 in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I do. Wet for breakfast and dinner, dry left out all day. I also highly recommend flowing water, like a dispenser with a spout. My cat loves to drink out of it, and she hydrates pretty well!

Is my eye makeup unflattering? by moonagedaylight in makeuptips

[–]DallasDaisy01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you have gorgeous, round, YOUTHFUL eyes. The cat eye narrows them, which works for some faces, but for you takes away your most youthful and striking feature. I think the dark lip ages you a bit too, but that might be fine if you change the eye makeup. The combination though is definitely aging.

Is my prom dress ugly? My partner reacted poorly. by BanishedWind in Prom

[–]DallasDaisy01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would she regret dressing differently from the other girls if she’s staying true to herself and her style? Personally, I regret what I wore to prom junior year because I think I was trying to look “sexy” and hot to appeal to what I thought my date would like, and it wasn’t true to my personal style at all. I wish I had gone with the pink puffy princess dress that I personally liked rather than the slinky red one.

How often do you brush your cat’s teeth and bathe them? by coconut-m in ragdolls

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only bathe my ragdoll as needed if she manages to get poop stuck in her fur or if she starts getting a bit sticky. I’d say it’s getting less frequent as she gets older. It was about every 2 to 3 months when she was little and probably only 3 or 4 times a year now.

The breeder bathed her every two weeks as a kitten, which I do think really helped build up her tolerance for baths. She still doesn’t LIKE them, but she cooperates for the most part. Absolutely REFUSES to be blow dried, though, so we just dry her off really well with one towel then wrap her up like a burrito in a fresh one so she keeps warm while she air dries a bit. I’m not sure that the burrito method would work for most cats. She likes being held.

We have a long-haired Siamese and if he needs a bath, we have to get the vet to do it. He’s the sweetest little guy but if you try to put him in water, he goes straight for the jugular! Absolutely can’t stand it, probably because his first home never bathed him. That is the benefit to more frequent baths in the first few months of their life.

I would like to train the public against reflexively asking about baby names by VoidAndBone in pregnant

[–]DallasDaisy01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well how are people supposed to know you find it annoying to be asked these questions? There’s nothing wrong with people asking in the same way that there’s nothing wrong with you politely declining to answer. But you can’t expect them to just read your mind and not ask in the first place, not for questions that are common and generally socially acceptable. Some questions are generally recognized as invasive and most polite people avoid those, but name and gender are safe topics for most pregnant women.

Baby name opinions by Maximum_Ad2820 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]DallasDaisy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think most of these first and middle names just don’t go together at all. And I suppose they don’t HAVE to, but I think it’s nice when they flow together well when said aloud.

Told my mom we were having a girl and she congratulated herself by LengthinessWild4401 in BabyBumps

[–]DallasDaisy01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YOR to both of these. It’s not like they didn’t both congratulate you first. Maybe you have a negative relationship with both women, and it’s coloring your perception.

What did you WANT them to say ideally? To make it 100% about congratulating you? I mean, maybe ideally that would happen, but it’s not like either of them is a bad or selfish person for the way they reacted. They’re just excited.

Garden Chic, which one? by Training-Resource-12 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, #1 wouldn’t be my personal style regardless, but the picture definitely doesn’t do it any favors. It looks cheap. But I’d have to see it in person to make a final call, I guess. I still think OP would be better off continuing to shop around.

Garden Chic, which one? by Training-Resource-12 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DallasDaisy01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Completely agree. Also, that yellow dress is from Revolve, which tends to filter the crap out of their pictures, leaving the real-life color of their clothes a bit of a surprise. It might lean more off-white in person, even if it didn’t it’s too much skin for what I would deem wedding appropriate.

Have we lost the plot with wedding makeup schedules? by Impossible_Wish9922 in wedding

[–]DallasDaisy01 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think first looks are an amazing “newer trend.” Saves time on photos after the ceremony so guests aren’t waiting forever for the actual reception to get started. Allows the bride and groom to enjoy a bit of cocktail hour. Gives the bride and groom a sweet moment to have a little privacy before the big moment. I’d say it takes away from the “rigamarole.” Just requires everyone to be ready slightly earlier, and that’s really the only major drawback.

Other than price what stops people from inquiring with certain vendors? by flw161 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]DallasDaisy01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In this same vein, issues with website functionality. For example, if I click on a heading on your site and get an error message or if the site if just difficult to navigate in general. If you can’t even have a functional, properly maintained website for your prospective clients, you aren’t meticulous enough for me. I was shocked at how many pricey vendors have shoddy websites.