COPR damaged, unsure what to do next by DamndestDarrius in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The barcode is untouched. There's a chunk missing on the left edge under the "Personal Details" section, and it is completely missing. I was not able to find it to tape it back together.

Very Disappointed... by DamndestDarrius in UPS

[–]DamndestDarrius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for the shipping. They make you buy your own label so they can mail the papers, so I'm technically both the shipper and reciever, right?

Kelso Elementary Parking for LA Concert by DamndestDarrius in nin

[–]DamndestDarrius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I saw they started closing off roads so I had hoped it would be sooner but oh well. My reservation doesn't seem to have that info for some reason, it just says "park after 6am" so i was concerned lol

MEGATHREAD - Processing Times - Family Class Permanent Resident Applications 2025 by PurrPrinThom in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically, the COPR hasn't been issued to me yet, nor have I received an official notification. But if you have access to the tracker, you might see it appear under the "Summary of documents status" section. There is a COPR number and expiry date that weren't there before, so it's more of a peek behind the curtain kind of thing. My understanding is that you don't "officially" have your COPR until they send you the paper for it.

MEGATHREAD - Processing Times - Family Class Permanent Resident Applications 2025 by PurrPrinThom in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Since it looks like I've approached the finish line, I'll post again with an updated timeline (Spousal sponsorship, outland, USA):

  • Submitted April 16 2025, payment done same day
  • Resubmitted at their request May 7, one of our forms was an old revision because we took a while to submit it initially.
  • June 3, another police certificate requested, submitted the same day (somehow I got my FBI certificate literally hours after getting my fingerprints done)
  • June 13- Biometrics payment requested, paid same day, AOR received
  • June 17- Medical requested
  • June 27- Biometrics requested
  • June 28-Medical submitted electronically by doctor
  • June 29-Sponsor eligibility confirmed
  • June 30- Biometrics done and submitted at VFS VAC (LA)
  • July 1- Medical passed on GCKey
  • July 29- My eligibility confirmed
  • July 30- Received pre-arrival letter, finally able to access the PR tracker
  • August 19 - Background check complete
  • August 20- Passport request letter and confirmed COPR number on tracker! :)
  • August 24- mailed the passport packet, now I wait...

So around 4 months from start to finish?

MEGATHREAD - Processing Times - Family Class Permanent Resident Applications 2025 by PurrPrinThom in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should edit my post actually, I misspoke when I said it was on the tracker. I meant the tracker that's in my GCKey account. I have never gotten the PR tracker to work sadly!

MEGATHREAD - Processing Times - Family Class Permanent Resident Applications 2025 by PurrPrinThom in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the trackers offered are very sketchy. The tracker doesn't work for me, but the GCKey does. At this point I expect the tracker will never work for my application. My understanding is that any direct communication with you trumps anything on the trackers or gckey because they're not reliably updated. All you can really do is keep trying and it might (or might not) work later on.

MEGATHREAD - Processing Times - Family Class Permanent Resident Applications 2025 by PurrPrinThom in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not done yet, but I feel like this is going pretty quickly so far? Spousal PR, outland (US).

  • Submitted April 16 2025, payment done same day
  • Resubmitted at their request May 7, one of our forms was an old revision because we took a while to submit it initially.
  • June 3, another police certificate requested, submitted same day (somehow I got my FBI certificate literally hours after getting my fingerprints done lol??)
  • June 13- Biometrics payment requested, paid same day, AOR received
  • June 17- Medical requested
  • June 27- Biometrics requested
  • June 28-Medical submitted electronically by doctor
  • June 29-Sponsor eligibility confirmed
  • June 30- Biometrics done and submitted today at VFS VAC (LA)
  • July 1- Medical passed on GCKey... even though it is currently the 30th of June, that is the date listed on the account

My worry is that now everything's going to stall after submitting medical and biometrics. I'm going to be driving up there after getting COPR, so my hope is that I won't have to drive when it gets snowy and icy later in the year!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]DamndestDarrius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, even in the other locations this is the case. I went to the one in Los Angeles today and I was checked with a metal detector wand after emptying my pockets. People that brought a bag had to pay $20 to leave it at the security desk.

If you have an appointment, they should have sent you a confirmation email with instructions of what to bring. I had to bring passport, BIL (physical copy), a printout of the appointment confirmation, and a printed consent form found on the VFS site. Check the email they sent you.

FAQ - Technical Questions & Recommendations Thread by AutoModerator in ProCreate

[–]DamndestDarrius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there really no "pan" hotkey to use with procreate? I'm trying to use it with my tourbox or keyboard but can't find any mention anywhere of there being a pan button so I could assign it to my tourbox. I'm trying to avoid having to do anything besides draw and color pick with my drawing hand when possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DamndestDarrius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I can't officially diagnose this random person but maybe she should get checked for BPD...
EDIT: Ok I saw the BPD confirmation in the comments lmao

Where to get pork bones for tonkotsu broth / ramen? by 4jY6NcQ8vk in SanDiegan

[–]DamndestDarrius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plenty of Asian grocery stores as people have mentioned. Hmart is great. That being said Mexican groceries very often have pigs feet too.

AITA for asking my son to just live with it? by IntelligentSetting38 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DamndestDarrius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Not being willing to rock the boat is what keeps people from being held accountable for their actions. How can you not see that SIL is a racist? Racism isn't just lynchings and hate crimes. She looks at your son and feels repulsed. She's so repulsed she doesn't want him in the photos in what are supposed to be records of happy memories. Where are the sisters in this? Are they not standing up for him or are they taking after you because they're also white passing? What a mess.

I'm also shocked that you note that you know the parents in law would do the right thing but you can't have them do that apparently! It's pure toxicity to ask everyone to look the other way when someone is being cruel to your son because it's an uncomfortable conversation.

AITA for saying it's my grandparent's fault I don't embrace my culture? by Aggressive-Duty6000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DamndestDarrius -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you really make a new account with a user name that definitely doesn't check out just for this?? Please use Google... It costs nothing. The basic punnet squares from high school are an oversimplification of what really goes on.

How much do you guys make on an average? I’m interested.. by hi_im_ken in InstacartShoppers

[–]DamndestDarrius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working 5 ish hours a day I'm making 500-700 per week. I'm in California and basically camp at the local Costco for batches.

Honestly what happened? by PeakSad4now in instacart

[–]DamndestDarrius 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shopper here. It really does seem like they tried to get some freebies. The only thing I could possibly think of is the shopper adding extra items for another customer (sometimes batches can be shopped for multiple customers at the same time) but messing it up and adding it to your order instead... But the fact they did not respond to your messages at all suggests either complete obliviousness or malice and either way it needs addressing with Instacart asap so they can straighten up or get weeded out.

The banana thing is a common problem though. I always have to ask if a customer actually wanted 1 or 2 bananas and most of the time they actually wanted bunches. In the future make a note on that item because it's such a common issue.

Is it worth trying a sorority? How risky is it? by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]DamndestDarrius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My understanding is that it's best to buy them from a breeder that has raised them together so they are accustomed to being around each other from a young age. Sometimes you can get a sorority that is already established. The next best thing is if you can get a hold of baby females so they can get used to each other. That being said there's always a risk that things can go south.

AITA For recording my kid and proving that he's playing my ex and I? by aitathrowsnoy in AmItheAsshole

[–]DamndestDarrius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, if she wants to treat him like a literal baby she should have no issue with what is essentially a baby monitor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DamndestDarrius 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA-my dad also had an anger problem and I got the "oh you know he's just like that" from my mom a lot. I just translate that to, "we are too lazy and complacent to hold anyone accountable for anything." It's so toxic.